mom of two

Winnfield, LA

#1 Jun 16, 2013
I need some serious advice please. Ok, the man I am with we have been together for ten years with two kids ages seven and five. We have fault before and all in all he is a great dad and talks like he is head over hills in love with me. Ok, he has said to me earlier on in our relationship "if you ever cheat on me I will kill you" I let it go, because people say if you do or say this or that I will kill you. He works over seas in Puerto Rico and came home with a text and picture of him with another female,I let it go till that night. I told him that I was sleeping in the living room. So, he is mad wanting to know what the hell he has done,(kids are in bed) I told him his phone went off and I picked it up and read the text then digg through the rest of them and know all about Krystal. He was mad screaming Ssi me that I should not go through his f#cling stuff, then he goes in our room gets a gun and points it at me by this time my oldest child has heard him screaming and is sitting by me. I have my hands over my child ears and whispering to him to go back to his room and I'll be in there in a minute. His dad says to me while he is still in the room, "I'm going to blow your fucking brains out then take the kids and leave state. I know I'm stupid and should have left then. Now two years after this things have been going great between us. Then all of a sudden I am in bed asleep look out the door to where he is standing.(he can't see me because of the light from the TV shining in his face.) He has his hands up like he is holding a shoot gun, aiming down at the bed exactly where I am. Pretends to pull the trigger, reloads and does it about four more times. He doesn't know I saw him doing it. Should I make him leave or get him help.
Slug

United States

#2 Jun 16, 2013
If what you are saying is true and I have no reason to believe its not, then YOU need to be the one to leave. Don't wait leave NOW. Your life is in danger. He has told you what he is going to do so take him for his word, pack your stuff, grab the kids and leave.
Driving Along

United States

#3 Jun 16, 2013
You need to contact police and leave the moron. His acting out can become the real thing and you don't want you and your children to become statistics. There are organizations out there who will help single moms with jobs and shelter. You are not alone!
mom of two wrote:
I need some serious advice please. Ok, the man I am with we have been together for ten years with two kids ages seven and five. We have fault before and all in all he is a great dad and talks like he is head over hills in love with me. Ok, he has said to me earlier on in our relationship "if you ever cheat on me I will kill you" I let it go, because people say if you do or say this or that I will kill you. He works over seas in Puerto Rico and came home with a text and picture of him with another female,I let it go till that night. I told him that I was sleeping in the living room. So, he is mad wanting to know what the hell he has done,(kids are in bed) I told him his phone went off and I picked it up and read the text then digg through the rest of them and know all about Krystal. He was mad screaming Ssi me that I should not go through his f#cling stuff, then he goes in our room gets a gun and points it at me by this time my oldest child has heard him screaming and is sitting by me. I have my hands over my child ears and whispering to him to go back to his room and I'll be in there in a minute. His dad says to me while he is still in the room, "I'm going to blow your fucking brains out then take the kids and leave state. I know I'm stupid and should have left then. Now two years after this things have been going great between us. Then all of a sudden I am in bed asleep look out the door to where he is standing.(he can't see me because of the light from the TV shining in his face.) He has his hands up like he is holding a shoot gun, aiming down at the bed exactly where I am. Pretends to pull the trigger, reloads and does it about four more times. He doesn't know I saw him doing it. Should I make him leave or get him help.

Since: Oct 11

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#4 Jun 16, 2013
Look at this link. There is a toll free number on it. You need to call a.s.a.p.

http://lcadv.org/
Kelli Fox

United States

#5 Jun 16, 2013
This man is possessive. For you and your children sake you do need to leave. Any man that threatens to kill you, may just do so at a later date. Why stay around to see? You may "think" you love him and may "think" that he loves you and will change? Most guys that are abusive will NEVER change. If a guy truly loves you he would NeVER hurt you. You are precious, your babies are precious. GET OUT NOW!
louisiana bad girl

Risco, MO

#6 Jun 17, 2013
Get your kids n get the hell out after you leave go to the police tell them wht happen n I hate to say tis but it got to be done let the child talk to the police too so they can see wht happen now if they don't pick his sorry azz up I don't like tis either GET A GUN you as a mom have to protect your children n yourself try not to kill him aim for his nuts his legs or something but if push come you do wht you do GOD BLESS YOU

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