My husband demands anal sex

My husband demands anal sex

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Linda Lou


#1 Jul 16, 2010
we have only been married six months and my husband is demanding that i give him anal sex. he even wants me to insert fingers into his anal cavity right before he shoots his load saying it intensifies it so much. im really uncomfortable taking his big unit in my rear end. is there danger in this? is it normal male behavior?

United States

#2 Jul 16, 2010
ever watch brokeback mountain? lol

Newington, CT

#3 Jul 16, 2010
This is the unintended consequence of the porn that is now produced. Men want to do what is shown in the porn they grow up with.

Clarksville, TN

#4 Jul 16, 2010
Be a good wife and do it. Or he'll find someone how will.

West Liberty, KY

#5 Jul 16, 2010
Sounds like he is gay to me! Get him a toy!
Linda Lou


#6 Jul 16, 2010
No, he doesn't have gay tendencies. Matter of fact, just the opposite, he mentions a hot FMF threesome would be hot, with the other girl strapping one on and doing us both. He don't watch porn, just always is in the mood for sex, and a large variety of it. My tail is sore from where he fingers me so hard, I'm just not sure that I can take his thick eight inches.

Pikeville, KY

#7 Jul 16, 2010
IF you're uncomfortable and He DEMANDS it from you, it's not love. Period. NEVER should a man, or woman, DEMAND something from another person. My husband can ask me to do things, but if I say NO, he don't push. Vise versa. Sounds to me like you should've thought things over before you got married. Tell him how you feel and if he still Insists on doing these things that you don't like, you can get an annullment. Just think how unhappy 50 or 60 years of this would be. Move on.
Redneck Woman

Anderson, SC

#8 Jul 16, 2010
When he demands anal demand something you really want. For example. When he demands anal say ok but you have you get me a new house first. Not one someone has lived in but a Brand new one. When he says he cant well then i guess you dont get anal. When you can i will give you some. That should buy you a couple months to a couple years depending on his work ethic.

United States

#10 Jul 16, 2010
This is fake room made by a high school kid you morons.
strap up

United States

#12 Jul 16, 2010
just put that big black 16 inch strap on and give it to him oh to be young and in love

Beattyville, KY

#13 Jul 20, 2010
you people are fu__ed up


#14 Jul 20, 2010
Nasty sob's.

Anderson, SC

#15 Jul 20, 2010
This thread makes my nipples hard as rocks

Mount Sterling, KY

#17 Jul 21, 2010
Bend him over and give it to him

United States

#18 Jul 21, 2010
I say kick his sick, pathetic ass out and tell him to go get him someone willing to do that sick shit. I am sorry but that is not very respectful to you, dear. I mean if you liked it too and it was something you both enjoyed then so be it but insisting you do it and knowing you don't like to then is a whole other ballgame. If he is like this early on in the marriage then I would hate to see how all that goes later on in the marriage. Its all about respect, baby. You need to stand your ground and tell him that or else you will be going through this same fucked up situation for a long time or at least until you get tired of it. Who knows he may just come out of the closet and admit his true sexual preferences to you. Sounds like he would rather have a big hard, throbbing cock in his ass than to have a woman. Just gross if you ask me. That is so disgusting!!!!!

Portland, OR

#19 Jul 21, 2010
Why don't you just say no you are not into it, simple solution. Some women are into anal some aren't but it needs to be something you are both into and agree to. If he insist just tell him your relationship does not hinge on anal sex and if he indicates that it does find another partner.
love it

Winchester, KY

#20 Jul 21, 2010
I love anal if you dont like it i will let him have mine

Lexington, KY

#21 Jul 22, 2010
Well your man isn't alone mine is into the same thing, but so am I!!! I like it, and if u get some anal ease or lube and he's a real man he will be gentle at first, then grab your hair and start pulling it to take u away to another world!!! Just relax is the best advice i can give u. if you are tense it will hurt, but he has to help get u relaxed!!! It can be a very fun experience....
Paul Anal

Macon, GA

#22 Jul 22, 2010
This article is about the human sexual act. For anal sex in non-human animals, see Animal sexuality.
1892 lithograph by Paul Avril
Anal sex most often refers to the sex act involving insertion of the penis into the anus of a sex partner.[1] The term anal sex can also sometimes include other sexual acts involving the anus, including anal–oral sex, fingering, and object insertion. A 2009 study of American college undergraduates, the large majority heterosexual, found that one in four reported having had anal sex,[2] while the figures for the general population range between thirty and forty percent.
Though anal sex is pleasurable for many people, and some may reach orgasm (through stimulation of the prostate in men, and clitoral and G-Spot leg stimulation in women),[3] others find it painful, in some cases extremely so.[4][5] Some women rate the practice among their least favorite sexual activities because of the pain or discomfort involved. Of the men who receive anal sex, between a tenth and a quarter always find it painful, and almost two thirds rate pain on being penetrated as their most frequent sexual problem. Psychological factors, as well as technique, were found to play a role in the experience of pain during anal sex.[6] As the rectal mucous membrane provides little natural lubrication, a lubricant is generally used when penetrating the anus.[7]
Anal sex is considered a high-risk sexual practice, and unprotected anal sex is the riskiest of all forms of sexual intercourse.[8] The hazards are due to the vulnerability of the tissues, as the penetration of the anus may cause tearing and bleeding of the soft tissues,[9] and can damage the sphincter muscles, causing incontinence and anal prolapse. It is also due to the high concentration of disease causing organisms in the anus and the introduction of pathogens during the sex act itself, exposing the participants to a spectrum of contagious diseases. Some authorities judge that all anal sex is unsafe, due to the high rates of condom failure, including those brands that claim to be specially strengthened.

Pikeville, KY

#23 Jul 23, 2010
Linda Lou wrote:
we have only been married six months and my husband is demanding that i give him anal sex. he even wants me to insert fingers into his anal cavity right before he shoots his load saying it intensifies it so much. im really uncomfortable taking his big unit in my rear end. is there danger in this? is it normal male behavior?
Don't let a man demand anything from you. You are a strong woman; YOU make the demands.
Plus, anal sex is just gross. You shit from there, ya know?

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