why r men so stupid?
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why

United States

#1 Jan 8, 2010
men r stupid when they know u like them but still they mess with ur head. they like to tease and flirt but when it comes done to it, its all about sex. even thou u both want the same thing in a relationship, they want someone they will never have or that wont last. god i hate them.
Jesse

Allen, KY

#2 Jan 8, 2010
I wish I knew! But yeah they seem to be a bit dumb
funny

Lexington, KY

#3 Jan 8, 2010
they are smart enought not to be with you lol
Shep

Champaign, IL

#5 Jan 8, 2010
why wrote:
men r stupid when they know u like them but still they mess with ur head. they like to tease and flirt but when it comes done to it, its all about sex. even thou u both want the same thing in a relationship, they want someone they will never have or that wont last. god i hate them.
Not all men are like this but many are. Men often times don't know how to act in a relationship and this is because of the bad advice that they have received from older men. Ladies, when you talk to a man be specific. Don't assume that a man will understand how you feel. In a relationship, the man is the one who is supposed to lead the woman closer to god. In that same relationship, the woman is supposed to make sure that the man doesn't get off track when he leads. The man must be willing to suffer for the woman and to take care of her needs. If a man is not willing to do his duties then he is not ready for a true relationship so ladies quit waisting your time. If he is true, you will know it by his actions.
Big Jim

Somerset, KY

#6 Jan 8, 2010
Sounds like the pondering of 12 year old minds.Men are not the same and neither are women.Problems in your relationship? Look in the mirror!!!!

Since: Dec 09

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#7 Jan 8, 2010
There are bad women and bad men, don't judge all of them because of someone elses downfall. To both genders, if you have feelings like this, just wait someone will come along and change your mind. You just have to keep looking!!
well

United States

#8 Jan 8, 2010
Just the married men are stupid,the single men are to smart to get married lol
zera

United States

#9 Aug 12, 2011
I love my husband,I've ben with him since I wuz 16. And for some reason now that I'm 20. I am finding out that men aren't all stupid. We are for letting them break are hearts and shatter are dreams.if men are gunna cheat,there's no stoping it. That just means that person isn't for u,move on!stop trying to figure out why there dumb cuz there not. They just want u ta think that.
lil 1

United States

#10 Nov 1, 2011
Men r stupid they stupid enough to try and mke u think the woman they hugged up with in the photo u saw on face book is jst a friend hahahaha ok then guess i'll go get me some friends and hug all up on the HOW U LIKE THEM APPLES!!!!!!
Pat Sajak

Georgetown, KY

#11 Nov 2, 2011
lil 1 wrote:
Men r stupid they stupid enough to try and mke u think the woman they hugged up with in the photo u saw on face book is jst a friend hahahaha ok then guess i'll go get me some friends and hug all up on the HOW U LIKE THEM APPLES!!!!!!
I'd like to buy a vowel ,please!
Facts

Danville, KY

#15 Dec 22, 2011
Men aren't stupid and women aren't stupid...it's love and emotions that make all of us act that way.

I care so much about XXXXX. But he needs to quit listening to the lies he's being told. He needs to listen to his heart. He knows me -- the REAL me!! The one that picked him up and gave him reason to keep going/trying. I knew this would happen. Told you a hundred times that I would be made out to be the "bad" one. Remember? I TOLD YOU!! Don't be quick to forget who started this all. That is the only place where fault lays. You weren't wrong, I wasn't wrong...don't let your guilt make you something you're not. You are forgiven and you are loved. No matter where; no matter when; you are NEVER alone!!
BaaHaaaa

Magee, MS

#16 Dec 22, 2011
LOL
dee dee

Danville, KY

#17 Dec 23, 2011
zera wrote:
We are for letting them break are hearts and shatter are dreams.if men are gunna cheat,there's no stoping it. That just means that person isn't for u,move on!stop trying to figure out why there dumb cuz there not. They just want u ta think that.
yes men cheat for a reason and its usually cause they arent gettin what they need. and if they cheat once, they will cheat again. ladies need to look at their mans history and if he cheated before. that will tell you alot about him. and if you dont think he's gonna do it again then you are the STUPID one. it might not be tomorrow or even next week but it will happen again.
Any Number

London, KY

#18 Dec 23, 2011
why wrote:
men r stupid when they know u like them but still they mess with ur head. they like to tease and flirt but when it comes done to it, its all about sex. even thou u both want the same thing in a relationship, they want someone they will never have or that wont last. god i hate them.
Hahahah, yeah, because girls never friend-zone guys and TOTALLY aren't attracted to the jackasses that will never last. You got us guys good.
Dr Phil

Saint Louis, MO

#20 Dec 23, 2011
The stupidest mistake in life, is thinking that the one person who hurt you the most, won't hurt you again.
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If you had time to cheat, then you had time to think about it.
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Don't be mad when someone else starts to appreciate the person you took for granted. What you won't do, someone else will.
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Love is in your heart. Peace is in your nerves. Truth is in your mind.(and people who have cheated or been cheated on need to remember that if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is!)
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We all have that ONE person that we always have feelings for no matter what. Just one look, and it takes you right back to that moment.
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No one is worth your tears, but when you find someone who is they won’t make you cry.
dee dee

Danville, KY

#21 Dec 28, 2011
and how I know this is when I found out I was being cheated on and we tried to work things out, there were still clues there that made me know it wasn't right. we have to protect ourselves by continuing to check up on them! Their purse, their wallet, their phone and their *car* will give you lots of info on what they are up to. they will cheat when you think they are working, on break or lunch or right after work is over. Excuses galore! Happened to me but a little common sense (and snooping) will give you what you need.
grown mans babysitter

Kittanning, PA

#22 Dec 29, 2011
If I felt like I had to always sneak and spy on my man I would not have him. The last thing he would ever hear me say is " Don't let the door hit you where the good Lord split you!".
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a man you cant trust??????????
So Right

Danville, KY

#23 Dec 30, 2011
"Babysitter" has hit the nail on the head! If a man lies to you for weeks, months or years, he will do it again. If a man forgets you that easily, disrespects you in that manner, why would you want that back in your life for him to do it again? And if you have children, what's that showing them...that cheating is okay? that they must "settle" for things in life? And usually the men that TRY THE HARDEST are the ones with the most to hide.
babysitter 2

Danville, KY

#24 Dec 30, 2011
Anyone who puts up with this sort of abuse -- cheating, spying, lying, etc.-- is suffering from low self esteem plain and simple. Your self worth is not something that can be given to you by another human being especially if they have cheated on you! The value you give yourself as a human being is determined by the work you do to get out of that mess!! Quit being the follower of cheater and become a leader of your own life!! That tail in between your legs is not very attractive. Your life should be more than a consolation prize.
gorwn mans babysitter

London, KY

#25 Dec 30, 2011
Question for So Right,'usually the men that TRY THE HARDEST are the ones with the most to hide' What do you mean by this statement? Just curious.

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