Would a Black girl have a problem dating a Mexican?

[D-mEx-I-cAn]

To be honest with you, I have always been curious about this. Probably because every time that I have tried to talk to a black girl, it always ends up being the same thing. In other wards, as i'm talking to them they always end up giggling, laughing, and then telling me that I am crazy. Lol. I mean not saying that I am some kind of Rico Suave or anything, but is there something missing here?

[Harajuku Lover]

Yes. i've been asked out by a latino. and i literally just laughed in his face.

[D-mEx-I-cAn]

Harajuku Lover wrote:

Yes. i've been asked out by a latino. and i literally just laughed in his face.

Gee, I guess that explains a lot then. Thanx.:)

[Harajuku Lover]

D-mEx-I-cAn wrote:

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Gee, I guess that explains a lot then. Thanx.:)

If you dont mind me asking, why would you want a black girl and not a mexican girl. Dont u think it might be a teensy bit offensive to them? and wouldnt your mother just die if she knew u were dating a black girl? i just know some latino families to be like that...

[D-mEx-I-cAn]

Harajuku Lover wrote:

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If you dont mind me asking, why would you want a black girl and not a mexican girl. Dont u think it might be a teensy bit offensive to them? and wouldnt your mother just die if she knew u were dating a black girl? i just know some latino families to be like that...

Well you can say that I'm not the type who discriminates, and neither is my family. I guess the answer to your question is that if I see a very attractive girl whether she is black, hispanic, white, or asian, then I'll try to talk to her. It's not that I favor a race, but more of the initial attraction at the moment. My family is the most open and loving group of people that you will ever meet, so I know that dating out of my race would not be a problem. Personally I think that black girls are beautiful, but for some reason they tend to be the more difficult ones, lol. But anyways, no, me dating a black girl, or an asian girl, or even a white girl would not be offensive to other hispanic girls.

[Harajuku Lover]

D-mEx-I-cAn wrote:

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Well you can say that I'm not the type who discriminates, and neither is my family. I guess the answer to your question is that if I see a very attractive girl whether she is black, hispanic, white, or asian, then I'll try to talk to her. It's not that I favor a race, but more of the initial attraction at the moment. My family is the most open and loving group of people that you will ever meet, so I know that dating out of my race would not be a problem. Personally I think that black girls are beautiful, but for some reason they tend to be the more difficult ones, lol. But anyways, no, me dating a black girl, or an asian girl, or even a white girl would not be offensive to other hispanic girls.

How would you know? Being since i'm almost positive you're not a Hispanic Woman. Some black women get pissed off at seeing a black man with a white woman. How do you know Latino women wouldn't sometimes feel the same way?

[D-mEx-I-cAn]

Good question, but I believe the answer should be whether or not if i'd really care what the other person is thinking. The majority of hispanic girls that I know really don't care, and a lot of them are dating inter-racially themselves. But of course you have to understand that this is where I come from, Galveston. It may be a lot different up here in Houston now don't get me wrong, but coming from where I was born and raised it really wasn't a big deal. I'm not saying that I know how every hispanic girl thinks, but just saying that where I come from it really is not a problem. Of course there may be that stereo typical hispanic woman out there, but I have yet to come across one. Me living on campus at UH, I can honestly tell you that I have never seen so many hispanic dudes dating black girls, but the important thing is that they are happy. In the end I guess you can say who really cares? I know I don't.

[Harajuku Lover]

Well, I dont agree with interracial dating, and more times than not i see black girls with black men. So You just want to be with a black girl to be apart of the crowd? You'd be surprised to know who cares.

[D-mEx-I-cAn]

Harajuku Lover wrote:

Well, I dont agree with interracial dating, and more times than not i see black girls with black men. So You just want to be with a black girl to be apart of the crowd? You'd be surprised to know who cares.

No, I do not want to be part of any crowd. And I respect your position, though it may seem offensive to other people, but I for one am not going to judge anyone on their looks much less their race. So if you are against interracial dating then I guess thats your view point, and once again I respect that, but that doesn't mean that I am going to stop talking to girls of other ethnicities. So once again I can care less of what other people think about me much less the girls I talk to.:)

[Harajuku Lover]

D-mEx-I-cAn wrote:

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No, I do not want to be part of any crowd. And I respect your position, though it may seem offensive to other people, but I for one am not going to judge anyone on their looks much less their race. So if you are against interracial dating then I guess thats your view point, and once again I respect that, but that doesn't mean that I am going to stop talking to girls of other ethnicities. So once again I can care less of what other people think about me much less the girls I talk to.:)

If you're refering to me, i never asked you to stop talking to girls of other ethnicities, knowing damn well anyone with half a brain would just ignore my comment. Dont think I go parading around saying "I hate interracial dating" although that's probably what it seems like i'm getting at.

[OAKLAND]

WELL I AINT TRYING TO CATCH THAT HIV SHIT..SO I STICK TO MY RACE! ME MEXICANAS BIEN BUENAS TE AMOO

[djhixx]

D-mEx-I-cAn wrote:

To be honest with you, I have always been curious about this. Probably because every time that I have tried to talk to a black girl, it always ends up being the same thing. In other wards, as i'm talking to them they always end up giggling, laughing, and then telling me that I am crazy. Lol. I mean not saying that I am some kind of Rico Suave or anything, but is there something missing here?

don't listen to that Harajuku Lover bitch. she made a forum about why Interracial dating is WRONG!! she CRAZY!!! im mixed and i LOVE white and hispanic men. i don't see whats wrong with dating Mexican men. maybe its the black women that are around you.

[D-mEx-I-cAn]

djhixx wrote:

<quoted text>don't listen to that Harajuku Lover bitch. she made a forum about why Interracial dating is WRONG!! she CRAZY!!! im mixed and i LOVE white and hispanic men. i don't see whats wrong with dating Mexican men. maybe its the black women that are around you.

Lol, you do have a point there.

[SEXYCOOL]

D-mEx-I-cAn wrote:

To be honest with you, I have always been curious about this. Probably because every time that I have tried to talk to a black girl, it always ends up being the same thing. In other wards, as i'm talking to them they always end up giggling, laughing, and then telling me that I am crazy. Lol. I mean not saying that I am some kind of Rico Suave or anything, but is there something missing here?

It depends on the woman. I would date a Mexican if he was a good guy.

[SEXYCOOL]

Harajuku Lover wrote:

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How would you know? Being since i'm almost positive you're not a Hispanic Woman. Some black women get pissed off at seeing a black man with a white woman. How do you know Latino women wouldn't sometimes feel the same way?

It's none of their business. He's a grown man.

[SEXYCOOL]

OAKLAND wrote:

WELL I AINT TRYING TO CATCH THAT HIV SHIT..SO I STICK TO MY RACE! ME MEXICANAS BIEN BUENAS TE AMOO

OK. Well, Hispanics are second in line with the highest AIDS/HIV statistics! Ignore fool!

[SEXYCOOL]

I meant, you are an IGNORANT FOOL.

[SEXYCOOL]

NEGROBEATINGSQUADLEADER wrote:

Mexicans are brown-skinned and speak Spanish. Mexicans are beasts of burden that travel in herds - they are seldom found in groups smaller than five. Mexicans are genetically predisposed to live with no less than eight people per 1000SF of living space. No lone Mexican has ever been sighted - they must, as a rule, travel as a pack to swapmeets for expired baby food, laundermattes, 3rd rate supermarkets that accept stolen foodstamps, with at least three children, two cousins (one must be named Lupe) and an aging parent. Most Mexican will plant a St. Anthony in the yard that if their daughter is not knocked up by age 15 to appeal to the heavens for mercy - no one wants a wallflower in the family. They prefer being outside to being inside, so they spend much of their time in their yard, using any housing available mainly for sleeping off the daily parties, or "siestas" they indulge in. These parties, like everything Mexicans do, are loud and obnoxious and feature lots of polka music, beer drinking shooting ffricking guns in the air and children running around screaming like mad. Mexicans only drive cars that require constant maintenance, which they do in their driveway each weekend, along with three or four of their friends, one of whom generally has a powerful subwoofer and a taste for gangsta rap. Mexicans give no consideration to their neighbors. The thought that the neighbor might be inside trying to watch some Battlestar Galactica and is not interested in having the quiet scenes punctuated with polka music never crosses a Mexican's mind.

LOL! What?

[Sara]

I am a black woman...I had the biggest crush on "un mexicano" in college. It didn't work out, but this is just to set the record straight that there are ample black women who date interracially.
As for negrobeatings.... perpetuating stereotypes shows ignorance and it certainly won't help our plight to be racist against mexicans.

[rebecca020]

i met a mexican..... i'm not black but he said he was married to a black person and had one white kid and 7 black ones.......