Can I sue the woman who had an affair with my husband at work?

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Wonder

United States

#1 Aug 13, 2012
There are texts and her info on Facebook that she deleted, of course I have it printed out. I have statements from people at work and the information from the PI thats been and still following him. I've already sent the information to her boss since it would be nice if she didn't so this to other women's husband. My attorney says to do it since there is already a woman who got awarded over 9 million. It's going to take over a year but sounds like it's worth it.
Go get em

United States

#2 Aug 13, 2012
You can sue the woman for alienation of affection. You need to realize though that this is an expensive endeavor that requires a lot of time. Sounds like you have the evidence that the woman's malicious conduct contributed to or caused the loss of affection in your marriage, and this behavior occurred while the you were still living together as man and wife.
chief

Springfield, TN

#3 Aug 13, 2012
what you should do is have a affair with someone and get him back.thats what i would do.and as far as sue her you can get awarded all the money in the world and never see a dime of it.just divorce him and be done with him
Wonder

United States

#4 Aug 13, 2012
Nah, I' d much rather sue and expose their nasty asses. Hope it takes years. Maybe people in springfield will learn something.
samething happened to me

Marcus Hook, PA

#5 Aug 15, 2012
I just happen to find this website I am wondering the same thing if I can go after this girl who knowingly and purposely when after my husband I have emails of her admitting it I'm kinda curious where this girl works because we live in new jersey and this girl goes around doing it to all the husband she admitted that she purposely does it I have been married for 20 years I am emotionally distraught overall this I ended up having to leave my job of 9 years because of the mess she caused I never saw it coming everything was perfect between me my husband we had the best marriage and he realize that just being friends with her turned into something a little more major and he has been so beside himself yet I'm the one who's taking the stress of it all and our children have been a mess over it. she puts things on facebook and I printed them out she's even threatening to have him fired at the job because she so angry please let me know what I can do I am just so beside myself right now as far as my husband and I go we're keeping things worked out yet the stress of this is like a wall in between us. I'm telling you we had the best marriage we were best friends she and she knew that he was married he showed her pictures of me and the children but she still purposely went after him her excuse is she needs to find a good man. we want our marriage to work there was nothing wrong how do we get through this
fact is

Clarksville, TN

#7 Dec 20, 2012
Nobody cares that he did it. How is that going to make my day better.
lol

Duluth, GA

#8 Dec 20, 2012
U must be talkin about the hr woman at Electrolux

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#9 Dec 20, 2012
Wonder wrote:
There are texts and her info on Facebook that she deleted, of course I have it printed out. I have statements from people at work and the information from the PI thats been and still following him. I've already sent the information to her boss since it would be nice if she didn't so this to other women's husband. My attorney says to do it since there is already a woman who got awarded over 9 million. It's going to take over a year but sounds like it's worth it.
Yes ma'am you can sue him for inflicting pain and emotional distress. and he will be forced to pay you, risking jail time if he fails to comply. go and speak with a divorce attorney and he will explain it all to you. good luck and i hope you break his sorry ass.
rich boy

Greer, SC

#10 Dec 20, 2012
Y'all should have a 3some
Angie

Wayne, PA

#11 Jan 2, 2013
U just found out that my husband of -
34 years was having an affair with his law partner for 7 years. The sad thing is , I had breast cancer at that time and had a bilateral mastectomy. This woman had new big implants. Talk about devastating!! We are trying to work it out, but I really want to tell her husband about her dispicable behavior. They sill see each other everyday. It's really hard to trust him.
i know this

Boiling Springs, SC

#12 Jan 2, 2013
Angie wrote:
U just found out that my husband of -
34 years was having an affair with his law partner for 7 years. The sad thing is , I had breast cancer at that time and had a bilateral mastectomy. This woman had new big implants. Talk about devastating!! We are trying to work it out, but I really want to tell her husband about her dispicable behavior. They sill see each other everyday. It's really hard to trust him.
Wow you are really strong I could never trust him AGAIN! Especially in the same setting! You are strong
So done

United States

#13 Jan 3, 2013
Why work it out? He's not worth keeping. Find someone that is decent and loving. The worry will make you more sick. Trust me, been through it. Take the leap of faith, you will be happy that you did.
tanya

United States

#14 Jan 12, 2013
My husband started an affair at work in the end of 2005. We had been together 13 years and married for 9. The stress of my husband going back and forth between me and this other woman finally took its toll on me and the kids when he left us this last time in 2010. The kids were angry hurt and depressed after goin through the years of them feeling my struggles and seeing my despair they bacame out of control very difficult to handle under my mental and emotional state. So one by one i sent them to thier dads. This only made my depression soooo much worse. I have gone through heck soooo many times. I feel like im about to lose my mind on the edge of a mental break down and he loves to taunt me. I know how yall feel. And the comment just sleep with someone else must have come from someone immiture and must be a male and obviously hasnt felt the pain we have. Like that would make us feel anny better.
tanya

United States

#15 Jan 12, 2013
Yall should hear all the crap hes done to the kids and i. Oh heres a quick one. Hes always been the financial provider of our family and now ive got to pay child support.
tanya

United States

#16 Jan 13, 2013
All my problems exstend from his affair and irresponsibilty towards me and his family so now i sit back and watch the other women not stole my husband but my kids too and so the kids and i are
the ones thats got to pay for his actions
tanya

United States

#17 Jan 13, 2013
And when i get visitation with my kids i get hear about thier barbecues and get togethers while my oldest daughter about to be 21 who was a 1 year &1/2 when we begain our realationship and hes the one that persued me thenight we met nov. 1993 thanksgiving and i are left out. All of a sudden her and i had nobody nobody but strangers. U know how easy it is to fall victim and prey to people that arent hopeless and helpless that have the things u need and how bad ur made to feel all the way around because ur so helpless. I cant even support myself but yet i gotta support our kids and he aint hurtin for s***. He paid spousal support until he just decided to quit he got doctors note now judge not make him pay cuz they say he cant work. Thats bs he could do somethin. If the judge ordered him to pay hed find a way. He gave all his money to his girlfrien so its always terry this and terry thatand i should be ashamed of myself letting another woman provide for my kids is what he said. I need a pyhcologist. Anyone agree? Yall still aint heard 'he half of it.
You can

United States

#18 Feb 8, 2013
Yes, you can. I just won my case. More women should do it. The woman at work knew he was married to me and as a result of her actions caused me to lose income from the bread winner in the family and break the contract of our marriage. She has damaged you, SUE HER!!!!
Yes

El Monte, CA

#20 Mar 5, 2013
Yes.. There is a case in NC that we are getting ready to use here in Tn to set precedence for alienation of affection and criminal conversation especially since my husband's girlfriend has plenty of assets. It's going to take awhile but my attorney wants to be a part of changing things in TN and KY. Girls, these women have damaged you, taken your breadwinner, hurt your children, broken your home and more than likely affected your health. NAIL THEM!!!!
Mine cheated

United States

#21 Mar 5, 2013
How to sue your husband's mistress - basic things you need to know. Here ya go..http://www.examiner.com/ar ticle/how-to-sue-your-husband- s-mistress-basic-things-you-ne ed-to-know

Telling you, this is not being tolerated anymore in educated states.
Ruben James

Springfield, TN

#22 Mar 5, 2013
oh yeah, go ahead and sue someone because you cant keep a man. You come in size 4 and now an 18, what did you expect, stupid?

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