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dead beat dad owes over 24k in child support

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#1 Apr 23, 2013
So I was informed the dad of my daughter whom he hasn't seen in years owes over 24k in child support, only has a monthly obligation of 320.00 a month, n gets it lowered to 200.00 a month? My daughter is almost 13yrs old.....Kentucky dropped the ball on this one!! He even works 3 jobs? Lol, I spend 200.00 a month on lunch n after school activities, insurance n clothes!! Wow!!
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#2 Apr 23, 2013
Turn him in to the county attorney office with his address and all of his employers. Tell them you want child support from him and you want it set up so its direct deposited into your account and automatically deducted from his paychecks.
evil dick

Murray, KY

#3 Apr 24, 2013
You go girl!!! Get that check you deserve it!

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#4 Apr 24, 2013
U damn right I deserve it!! He has never had to b responsible for my daughter, n it isn't cheap to raise children!!
troll

Newburgh, IN

#5 Apr 25, 2013
Who's your case worker?

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#9 Apr 25, 2013
Seriously? It does take 2 to make a baby, i'm no moron, but it also takes 2 to raise a baby too....my daughter is almost 13yrs old, n her "dad" has never had to b responsible for her, lol, n as far as trapping the guy, lol, gimme a break...my daughter is almost a teenager, I am married and also have a 6yr old son.....but my daughters "dad" should MAN UP for real

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#10 Apr 25, 2013
well wrote:
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Keep your legs closed
I like this uneducated response....way to go

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#13 Apr 25, 2013
Btw, whats your name there dumb ass!! I live in Texas thats because of people like u in Kentucky!! Prolly a dead beat yourself!! Moved away years ago but still gotta deal with kentucky child support because of the dead beats LIKE YOURSELF!! I feel for this Abby chick u think I am, goes to show their r more dead beats in Kentucky besides my daughters sperm donor!! Smdh
seriously

Florence, KY

#15 Apr 26, 2013
r u duh wrote:
Btw, whats your name there dumb ass!! I live in Texas thats because of people like u in Kentucky!! Prolly a dead beat yourself!! Moved away years ago but still gotta deal with kentucky child support because of the dead beats LIKE YOURSELF!! I feel for this Abby chick u think I am, goes to show their r more dead beats in Kentucky besides my daughters sperm donor!! Smdh
Why are you talking to yourself? You are the only one commenting on this
mother

Tucker, GA

#16 Apr 26, 2013
I am the mother of a child who receives child support from his father. I also have a daughter, who's father I am married to, that pays half of his paycheck to his ex wife for child support. I know both sides of this situation first hand. It's very difficult to support a child on one income and I agree that a father should support his children. However, I don't think it right to collect so much child support from a man that he must have three jobs to survive! I don't take my ex husband back to court every time he gets a raise to increase his support! He's paying what was ordered... He deserves the right to be able to better If he's paying what is ordered and you are still struggling, maybe you should consider a lifestyle change or a second job yourself! I get so tired of hearing all of these women whine and cry about their children's "dead beat dads"! If we, as women, made better choices about who we spread our legs for, there wouldn't be near as many "dead beat dads". Get to know a person before you have sex with them! Get on birth control!!! It's a simple fix to an ugly problem. As a woman, the way I see it, it's our own damn fault! You chose who you were having a baby with, wether planned or not. That's always a risk to having sex! Collect your child support, use it to support your child and if that's not enough, get yourself a job or two!!
mother

Tucker, GA

#17 Apr 26, 2013
r u duh wrote:
U damn right I deserve it!! He has never had to b responsible for my daughter, n it isn't cheap to raise children!!
Ignorant! You don't deserve anything other than what you work for yourself! You may be entitled to it, as ordered by the judge, but you don't deserve it! Your child does!!!! Grow up! Is your new husband not man enough to support his stepdaughter?(I'm sure you're going to come back with a statement saying he does.) If so, why do you need baby no. 1 daddy's money? The answer to that question, regardless of your response, is that you are either a vindictive $itch or a money grubbing poor excuse for a woman. Grow up and support yourself and live within your means.
wow

Tucker, GA

#18 Apr 26, 2013
mother wrote:
I am the mother of a child who receives child support from his father. I also have a daughter, who's father I am married to, that pays half of his paycheck to his ex wife for child support. I know both sides of this situation first hand. It's very difficult to support a child on one income and I agree that a father should support his children. However, I don't think it right to collect so much child support from a man that he must have three jobs to survive! I don't take my ex husband back to court every time he gets a raise to increase his support! He's paying what was ordered... He deserves the right to be able to better If he's paying what is ordered and you are still struggling, maybe you should consider a lifestyle change or a second job yourself! I get so tired of hearing all of these women whine and cry about their children's "dead beat dads"! If we, as women, made better choices about who we spread our legs for, there wouldn't be near as many "dead beat dads". Get to know a person before you have sex with them! Get on birth control!!! It's a simple fix to an ugly problem. As a woman, the way I see it, it's our own damn fault! You chose who you were having a baby with, wether planned or not. That's always a risk to having sex! Collect your child support, use it to support your child and if that's not enough, get yourself a job or two!!
You said it all perfectly. Agree 100%
mother

Tucker, GA

#19 Apr 26, 2013
r u duh wrote:
So I was informed the dad of my daughter whom he hasn't seen in years owes over 24k in child support, only has a monthly obligation of 320.00 a month, n gets it lowered to 200.00 a month? My daughter is almost 13yrs old.....Kentucky dropped the ball on this one!! He even works 3 jobs? Lol, I spend 200.00 a month on lunch n after school activities, insurance n clothes!! Wow!!
You've really got me fired up!! If you spend $200 a month on after school activities, insurance and clothes and he pays $200 a month, what exactly is the problem? Should he also pay for food for your family of four? House payment? Electric bill? What do you think you and your husband should contribute?
mother

Tucker, GA

#20 Apr 26, 2013
r u duh wrote:
Btw, whats your name there dumb ass!! I live in Texas thats because of people like u in Kentucky!! Prolly a dead beat yourself!! Moved away years ago but still gotta deal with kentucky child support because of the dead beats LIKE YOURSELF!! I feel for this Abby chick u think I am, goes to show their r more dead beats in Kentucky besides my daughters sperm donor!! Smdh
Here's a tidbit of info for ya. The child support case can and should be transferred to the state the child lives in! Transfer your case to Texas and you won't have to trouble yourself with us fine Kentuckians!

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#21 Apr 26, 2013
Let me tell u FIRST HAND that u dont know wtf u r talking about lady. The child support order was set in 2005 and has NEVER been changed. He has been ordered to pay 320.00 a month since 2005. He left me while I was pregnant. He has NEVER given MY daughter a birthday gift, christmas gift or had a visitation with her. She hasnt ever even gotten to have a fuc$$n meal with her DEAD BEAT "DAD" he DOESNT pay wtf the court has ordered or he wouldnt b 24,000.00 behind now would he. So, YES u ignorant bit*h I DO DESERVE more than 200.00 a month because I dont want to keep receiving child support til im 70yrs old, but if thats what it yakes, so be it!! Yes, child support is for the parent, to make sure the child HAS FOOD TO EAT, A ROOF OVER THEIR HEADS, AND HEAT TO KEEP THEM WARM U STUPID F*ck. I am an educated woman who AS A TEENAGER made a decision w/o regards of consequences because I was a teenager!! Until u know wtf ur talking about, I suggest u change ur opinion about the MOTHER, MOTHER because I have actually given this "man" break after break by NEVER ONCE having his child support raised, n his ass is hanging by a thread on going to prison for NOT EVER PAYING HIS CHILD SUPPORT!! I love my daughter, n we are just fine without his support OBVIOUSLY because he is $24,000.00 behind so the LEAST he could do is pay what he is ordered, but this is unlikely, so I WILL have to go to court now because he doesnt want the responsibilities of being a parent!! It has nothing to do with ANYTHING but that.
troll

Newburgh, IN

#22 Apr 26, 2013
mother wrote:
<quoted text>Here's a tidbit of info for ya. The child support case can and should be transferred to the state the child lives in! Transfer your case to Texas and you won't have to trouble yourself with us fine Kentuckians!
No it can't. I live in Indiana now and they won't change it. The judge said once it's started in Henderson ky and the father lives in that county they can't and won't change it. If the father moves they can change it to another county/state
mother

Tucker, GA

#23 Apr 26, 2013
r u duh wrote:
Let me tell u FIRST HAND that u dont know wtf u r talking about lady. The child support order was set in 2005 and has NEVER been changed. He has been ordered to pay 320.00 a month since 2005. He left me while I was pregnant. He has NEVER given MY daughter a birthday gift, christmas gift or had a visitation with her. She hasnt ever even gotten to have a fuc$$n meal with her DEAD BEAT "DAD" he DOESNT pay wtf the court has ordered or he wouldnt b 24,000.00 behind now would he. So, YES u ignorant bit*h I DO DESERVE more than 200.00 a month because I dont want to keep receiving child support til im 70yrs old, but if thats what it yakes, so be it!! Yes, child support is for the parent, to make sure the child HAS FOOD TO EAT, A ROOF OVER THEIR HEADS, AND HEAT TO KEEP THEM WARM U STUPID F*ck. I am an educated woman who AS A TEENAGER made a decision w/o regards of consequences because I was a teenager!! Until u know wtf ur talking about, I suggest u change ur opinion about the MOTHER, MOTHER because I have actually given this "man" break after break by NEVER ONCE having his child support raised, n his ass is hanging by a thread on going to prison for NOT EVER PAYING HIS CHILD SUPPORT!! I love my daughter, n we are just fine without his support OBVIOUSLY because he is $24,000.00 behind so the LEAST he could do is pay what he is ordered, but this is unlikely, so I WILL have to go to court now because he doesnt want the responsibilities of being a parent!! It has nothing to do with ANYTHING but that.
Wow! You sound like a lovely individual!
Educated, huh? Then you should know by posting on a public forum you are opening the door for people's opinions. Why get so hostile and defensive?
Obviously this man wants nothing to do with your daughter if they've never had a meal together! You say you've not received support and she's 13 years old. You've apparently supported her for this long without him. My question to you is, why do you want it? Why do you want support from a man who cares nothing for your child that you can obviously support on your own?
mother

Tucker, GA

#24 Apr 26, 2013
troll wrote:
<quoted text>No it can't. I live in Indiana now and they won't change it. The judge said once it's started in Henderson ky and the father lives in that county they can't and won't change it. If the father moves they can change it to another county/state
I have family who works for KY child support and I'm telling you, you can. Some of the case workers there are lazy and will lie to you about things that they don't want to put the effort into doing.

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#25 Apr 26, 2013
I am a lovely individual, thank u, and no I really dont need it, but I stand on principal, and I did try to drop it years ago and henderson co attorney at the time would not let me saying he needs to b held responsible...i posted this so I could embarrass him possibly but it bit me because people are posting shit like u did about being vindictive n keep my legs closed n somebody else calling me some Abby stripper skank....i mean seriously? Im the idiot obviously for posting my frusration, n others that posted just made it worse.....lesson learned.....but it would b a boring world without opinions n debates now wouldnt it! Im done with this. Thank u

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#26 Apr 26, 2013
r u duh wrote:
So I was informed the dad of my daughter whom he hasn't seen in years owes over 24k in child support, only has a monthly obligation of 320.00 a month, n gets it lowered to 200.00 a month? My daughter is almost 13yrs old.....Kentucky dropped the ball on this one!! He even works 3 jobs? Lol, I spend 200.00 a month on lunch n after school activities, insurance n clothes!! Wow!!
Chick, TAKES TWO TO TANGLE, at LEAST he is paying Child Support.. and YOU are working also.. So , your daughter relies on the both of you to support her.. HOW can. ONE put a price on the welfare of raising a child??..

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