How do stop ur husband from getting o...
jenn

United States

#22 Jun 26, 2012
Broken hearted wife wrote:
My husband is on a lot of dating sites in olive branch ms meeting women I love him and I want my marriage to work thing is I am not person getting hurt these other women are too he doesn't use real name on them I just want him to stop I love him so much I don't what else to do I tried everything
I think you are confusing love with fear of being alone. And i only say this because i have been through this same thing. My ex-husband had many profiles on dating websites while we were married, he even had membership dues taken out of our bank account. I was devastated, and after so much of it i was so numb to it i couldnt even cry anymore. If he thinks it is ok for him to meet other women in a romantic or sexual manner, he does not love you. You must come to terms with that, especially if he is doing it over and over. Have you said anything to him about this? See how he reacts when you bring it up.
Please dont let him continue to hurt you, the longer you allow him to do this to you, the more you will lose your self-esteem and love of yourself. You are worth so much more than a cheating husband can give you.
If you cant do it for yourself, find another reason to give you the courage to leave. I didnt want my child to see me in an unhappy relationship and grow up thinking this is how it should be. Find the courage to leave him and in time you wont be broken hearted anymore.
like this
#23 Jun 27, 2012
cut his fingers off and file for a divorce
W-N-A

United States

#24 Aug 7, 2012
yeah ... ill go with the cut the fingers off and feed it too them.. so what do ya do when they make theirself available on XXX webs mobile to mobile or lets meet!!! thats bull shiot!! you know why is it so important for a man to get blown or what ever .big turn off to women..MY HUBAND, he bitches worse than a women~BOUT ANY COTTON PICKIN THING! sorry men when you show your lady she aint the only thing that turns you on anymore especially if you vocally tell her. dont expect much from her!! its your own fault WOMEN DONT WANT OTHER SKANKS DISEASES , OR WHATEVER YOU BRING HOME TO HER!!!!RIGHT LADIES...? JUST REMEMBER IF YOU CAN SO CAN SHE.... if you marry unholy will remain unholy.. according to bible. adultery is not the only reason for divorce... if man is in the way of your god (our) god he needs to go anyway.!! just ask god show you truth. god works in wonderful ways... please if you dont want devil to interfear PLEASE PLEASE SAY IN JESUS NAME AMEM.. i have problems in my marrage with the crap of other women adultery is sight touch and seing. its a road to nowhere. when I divorce .the only man i know and trust that wont do me wrong is jesus. if a man touches another woman the same as he touches you WALK AWAY , YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO TRUST HIM . SEND HER A THANK YOU CARD CAUSE YOU CAN DO BETTER!!!!MAKE BETTER CHOICES IN LIFE YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE AND ITS NOT A LONG ONE
W-N-A

United States

#25 Aug 7, 2012
WISH I COULD SEND A KEEP HIM THANJ=K YOU CARD TO THE WOMAN WHOSE SCREWIN MINE, ILL EVEN PACK HIS STUFF FOR HIM. HE DONT LOVE ME ANYMORE THATS PLAIN TO SEE. I ASKED FOR A RING SINCE HE FLUSHED MINE. HE STILL HAS HIS. ON MIDDLE FINGER. ANYWAY WAKES UP JUST ABOUT EVERY MORNING HOLLERING HOW WORTHLESS AND A BITCH I AM AND A PIECE OF SHIT I AM... AND THE DICK HEADED MOOD SWINGS .. KIDS DO NOT LIKE TO HEAR HIM SAY OR TALK THAT WAY ... DADDIES ARE NOT SUPPOSE TO ACT OR B THAT WAY.. OH NOT RESPONSIBLE WITH OLD BILLS.. OR NEW ONES.. JUST SPEND ON FUN FUN FUN.. IF YOU MET A CHARMING MAN THATS GREASY 90 % OF THE TIME NICE SMILE TALL KNOWS HOW TO FLIRT W MEN AND WOMEN SPENDS $$ ON FUN .. BLA BLA .. IF HES MINE COME GET HIS SHIT... I AM NOT A PUCHING BAG OF EMOTOTIONS MEN LISTEN UP WOMEN ARE TIRED OF HEARING YOUR STUPID COMPLAINING AND YOU YOUR OPINIONS OF US. WE DIDNT ASK FOR IT. SHOVE IT UP THE LADY YOUR DOING AND DO US A FAVOR AND LEAVE>
me

Farmington, MO

#26 Aug 9, 2012
Get out now!!! It's not worth it, actually he isn't worth it. I've been there and finally realized I am worth more and am better off.
filbertTheMirk

Olive Branch, MS

#27 Aug 12, 2012
Your eather over weight or he is not getting sexed enough..
brokenheartedwif e

Olive Branch, MS

#28 Nov 7, 2012
no i am not over weight or ugly well i dont have sex with that much due to fact that he has gave me serval STD and and wont get treated But we are trying to fix this but i still dont trust him and i still think he still cheating But i promised the preacher that married us i would do marriage therapy before divorcing If this dosent work i am done and i feel sorry for all the women he has cheated on me with they had no clue just watch out he has been on datehookup,POF,and OK Cuiped and other ones i have no clue bout
Mia

Cerritos, CA

#29 Nov 11, 2012
I'm beautiful had my boyfriends baby a year ago I weighed 185 after I had her he loses his job we move to California were I do not know anyone family all in Tennessee. It's just all his family here so I been working on my self exercising I weight 148 now been getting up making his breakfast and lunch for work take care of the whole house only one who cleans it take care of my two kids plus help watch two others and serve at night but resently cought my boyfriend trying to add his ex on face book and on dating sites porn all over his phone he says he ain't meeting anyone he deleted it. Why would you join a site if your not? What should I do I'm hurt don't trust or Believe him I have nothing and its his family not mine
The Rogue

Olive Branch, MS

#30 Nov 11, 2012
Mia wrote:
What should I do ..........
"Dear Anne,........."
delmar794s WIFE

Ballwin, MO

#31 Nov 14, 2012
I know exactly what your going thru!! I just found out that my husband has met a girl from Hernando on the sexbook.com site. Im sure that she dont know that hes married. that is why i used the screen name that he told me that he used on that site on here. Im hoping that she will see this and see that he is married and has a sick obsession with PORN!!
jen

Dallas, TX

#32 Nov 15, 2012
i want to lick linda.
Whoknew

Locust, NC

#35 Jan 12, 2013
W-N-A wrote:
WISH I COULD SEND A KEEP HIM THANJ=K YOU CARD TO THE WOMAN WHOSE SCREWIN MINE, ILL EVEN PACK HIS STUFF FOR HIM. HE DONT LOVE ME ANYMORE THATS PLAIN TO SEE. I ASKED FOR A RING SINCE HE FLUSHED MINE. HE STILL HAS HIS. ON MIDDLE FINGER. ANYWAY WAKES UP JUST ABOUT EVERY MORNING HOLLERING HOW WORTHLESS AND A BITCH I AM AND A PIECE OF SHIT I AM... AND THE DICK HEADED MOOD SWINGS .. KIDS DO NOT LIKE TO HEAR HIM SAY OR TALK THAT WAY ... DADDIES ARE NOT SUPPOSE TO ACT OR B THAT WAY.. OH NOT RESPONSIBLE WITH OLD BILLS.. OR NEW ONES.. JUST SPEND ON FUN FUN FUN.. IF YOU MET A CHARMING MAN THATS GREASY 90 % OF THE TIME NICE SMILE TALL KNOWS HOW TO FLIRT W MEN AND WOMEN SPENDS $$ ON FUN .. BLA BLA .. IF HES MINE COME GET HIS SHIT... I AM NOT A PUCHING BAG OF EMOTOTIONS MEN LISTEN UP WOMEN ARE TIRED OF HEARING YOUR STUPID COMPLAINING AND YOU YOUR OPINIONS OF US. WE DIDNT ASK FOR IT. SHOVE IT UP THE LADY YOUR DOING AND DO US A FAVOR AND LEAVE>
Intersting...very interesting indeed.

Since: Dec 12

Memphis, TN

#36 Jan 18, 2013
If the man is cheating on you, it's obvious God answered your prayer and you need to get out! Unless you depend on him for money and support, what is keeping you with someone that disrespects you as a person? dont you have family?friends? you need to go to them and make a life plan for yourself that does not include him! I really don't see the point in working something out with someone that just wants to be with other people. Do you really have to ask yourself if you should stay with him? REALLY?
exes

Collierville, TN

#37 Jan 19, 2013
jenn wrote:
<quoted text>I think you are confusing love with fear of being alone. And i only say this because i have been through this same thing. My ex-husband had many profiles on dating websites while we were married, he even had membership dues taken out of our bank account. I was devastated, and after so much of it i was so numb to it i couldnt even cry anymore. If he thinks it is ok for him to meet other women in a romantic or sexual manner, he does not love you. You must come to terms with that, especially if he is doing it over and over. Have you said anything to him about this? See how he reacts when you bring it up.
Please dont let him continue to hurt you, the longer you allow him to do this to you, the more you will lose your self-esteem and love of yourself. You are worth so much more than a cheating husband can give you.
If you cant do it for yourself, find another reason to give you the courage to leave. I didnt want my child to see me in an unhappy relationship and grow up thinking this is how it should be. Find the courage to leave him and in time you wont be broken hearted anymore.
if you are not giving it up, he will get it somewhere else
Delmar974

New York, NY

#38 Jan 19, 2013
In my case, even if you are giving it up and they are addicted to porn and sex, he still screws anybody and everybody that will give it to him!! But, I finally woke up and got rid of his sorry ass.
Barbie

Norristown, PA

#39 Jan 23, 2013
exes wrote:
<quoted text> if you are not giving it up, he will get it somewhere else
How do you handle all of this deception in your life? I feel like an empty shell. He has been doing whatever he wants while I'm working hard at my job. Even went so far as to take the girlfriends to our cabin and had them on our boat. He is going on as if nothing happened and that it's ok! At this point I want everyone who he has deceived (me, family, friends & even the other women) to know he is a liar and cheater!
Lost

Hamilton, New Zealand

#40 Jul 2, 2013
Hi, my husband is also on these sites, hes been doing this to me for years, Ive had enough but I don't have enough self esteem left to actually leave...I hope you don't get to this point. It doesn't stop, trust me.
Hes txt called skyped sent pictures the works, I am 14 years younger than him, still in my 20's, people tell me I can do better, I just want him to love me better.
Don't get to where I am, I've thought about suicide.
Scorned friend

United States

#41 Jul 4, 2013
They don't even need dating sites. My friend met a man from your area at a club in Jonesboro Ar. He told her for a year he wasn't married. Some things didnt add up so I googled him and found he has been married for several years. She confronted him and he told her he loves her and they have a future together, that he is trying to get things lined up financially where he could leave. Then his wife was diagnosed with colon cancer. That threw a major kink in his plans. Anyway, they have been together for over two years now. She's waiting on the wife's recovery so he can leave and make happily ever after with her. She believes the douche and we don't even talk anymore because of his lies. How can people be so stupid? I lost a lot if respect for her.
uptheriver

Memphis, TN

#42 Jul 6, 2013
Omg all of you think a relationship is based all on sex. It so isn't. If she isn't giving him any because of her body getting adjusted to something then he isn't in love. All men think about is sex anyway. Glad I'm woman and glad I'm a lesbian, and glad I have a woman that loves me
Get real

Haslet, TX

#43 Jul 7, 2013
I think some people confuse sex with love

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