Taking the bully out of the bully

Taking the bully out of the bully

There are 3 comments on the Lowell Sun story from Nov 14, 2010, titled Taking the bully out of the bully. In it, Lowell Sun reports that:

Public school systems in the Merrimack Valley, parents' groups, and nonprofit organizations have held a slew of anti-bullying seminars in recent weeks to bring awareness to the issue.

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No Idea

Lowell, MA

#1 Nov 16, 2010
have no idea where this article is coming from or where it's going.

Start with a premise. elaboration, and make a concluding comment. Just bad rhetoric all around.

The bully and victim are interviewed; the principal makes a determnation after hearing all sides, informs the parents beforehand and takes action, or nonaction-write-up, warning, suspension, police matter. Theimportant aspect is that the school does not ignor the problem anymore.Easy.
been there

Tewksbury, MA

#2 Nov 16, 2010
No Idea wrote:
have no idea where this article is coming from or where it's going.
Start with a premise. elaboration, and make a concluding comment. Just bad rhetoric all around.
The bully and victim are interviewed; the principal makes a determnation after hearing all sides, informs the parents beforehand and takes action, or nonaction-write-up, warning, suspension, police matter. Theimportant aspect is that the school does not ignor the problem anymore.Easy.
I think the article is saying that we are not tolerating bullying but we don't have a plan about what to do with the bully. These are kids and most of the time it is not going to be a criminal offense. Does this mean they get a suspension and go on their way?
I think the article is saying we need a way to "help" the bully not bully anymore. Find out what's going on with the bully to make him/her behave that way and do something constructive to teach them how to behave differently.
apples vs pears

East Hampton, CT

#3 Nov 17, 2010
It's a temptation for school districts to kick the can down the road in bullying cases. It's hard work.

Comparisons abound but the root causes of the suicide of Phoebe Prince differ markedly from the suicide of Hunter Perkins.

Hunter had guns in his home. His deceased mother's gun was the weapon he used to kill himself. His father blames the Groton School but in fact it was the guns in Hunter's home that killed the boy.

America is a violent society. Too many children despair of their future and give up all hope. Every adult needs to take a look in the mirror and examine their own lives so that they may better administer to the needs of children.

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