why cant woman leave other peoples men alone?

[some people]

just wondering what attracts woman to other peoples men. you tell someone your dating somebody but they just dont stop. give it a break there are plenty of single men out there you dont always need to mess with taken guys find your own.If a man says im dating someone leave it alone dont keep messing him one day your gonna piss someone off real bad and they will prolly hunt you down and beat your a$$.

[cutie]

No kidding! Im with ya on this one. hang in there and trust you man if you can

[some people]

oh i trust him it just pisses me off that he tells people this but still they keep trying. he's not a mean person and dont like being mean to people but hes gonna have to start or im gonna have to help him.

[myft]

how about telling him not to tell you? If he would just say no and go his way, you dont know any specifics and no jealous or fear issues jump. Of course you believe him to be attractive and that others will think so, but what good does it do for him to say something...it is almost like playing you to get worked up. The mature approach is to go about you life without telling your significant other of the advances made to you by others.

a buddha said, Dr. Phil is a duck, or something like that.

[I heart MYFT]

I see a pattern forming here. The jealous/insecure ladies of Topix are restless.

Hey MYFT, I was discussing you w/a friend last week. He seems to think you've about "run your course" on Topix. I say nay. Please don't stop doing what you're doing and if you do, can I sign up for counseling with you? We can make you a sign like Lucy's from Peanuts..THE DOCTOR IS REAL IN

What say you?

[How ignorant]

I heart MYFT wrote:

I see a pattern forming here. The jealous/insecure ladies of Topix are restless.
Hey MYFT, I was discussing you w/a friend last week. He seems to think you've about "run your course" on Topix. I say nay. Please don't stop doing what you're doing and if you do, can I sign up for counseling with you? We can make you a sign like Lucy's from Peanuts..THE DOCTOR IS REAL IN
What say you?

I Hate replies like this...just shows how ignorant some people are. You say jealous and insecure...maybe these women don't understand SLUTS who chase men. Believe it or not there are a lot of women who have INTEGRITY and don't go chasing and screwing around with taken men! The men don't give a crap because they get a EASY piece of A$$ and get to go back home to an unsuspecting wife or girlfriend! So Sluts understand ... they just use you and throw you off! I hate sluty women!

[myft]

Heart,

I dont know. That, of course, is my advantage as a counselor and advisor. I give honest advice and honestly, I dont know. So many other folks act like they know, but they dont know, so me knowing I dont know makes me know more than the ones who say they do know but dont know, you know?

As for me running a course, forget it...changing a channel or adjusting a gauge, sure, but I aint running anywhere...there is just too much of me to move anywhere in a hurry. The only jogging I will accept is my memory, and even then, it sometimes hurts.

Lately, though, I have been ignoring a good bit of the trashy talk about what someone's least favorite alleged ho is doing and I dont want to chip in on some of these tragic forums because I dont want to offend toooooo much. But as long as I am around, I will be offering some advice.

Did you get my bovine therapy offer. I cownsel individual cows and offer herd therapy. I know that wont do you any good unless you have a heiffer on hand, but someone or udder may need their milk production picked up.

I have been thinking about changing my line of services, trying to hit a market from a different angle. I am thinking I will become a dog shouter, sort of like the dog whisperer only louder. I will come to your house and yell at your pooch for a fee. I dont know what good it will do the dog, but at least you wont have to yell at the animal. Say frinstance you had some friends over and the dog was yelping and howling or something and the friends say, why dont you make that dog shut up, you get to say, I have someone who does that for me. At the very least, a status symbol. Whatcha thunk?

a buddha said, down boy, or something like that.

[I heart MYFT]

OH! My sides hurt! Myft is in rare form today! I heart ya Man!

Glad you're not going anywhere - didn't really think you would.

"frinstance"? LOL!

[I heart MYFT]

How ignorant wrote:

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I Hate replies like this...just shows how ignorant some people are. You say jealous and insecure...maybe these women don't understand SLUTS who chase men. Believe it or not there are a lot of women who have INTEGRITY and don't go chasing and screwing around with taken men! The men don't give a crap because they get a EASY piece of A$$ and get to go back home to an unsuspecting wife or girlfriend! So Sluts understand ... they just use you and throw you off! I hate sluty women!

Thank you. We're all refreshed and challenged by your unique point of view.

Jealousy is a disease..get well soon.

[How ignorant]

I heart MYFT wrote:

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Thank you. We're all refreshed and challenged by your unique point of view.
Jealousy is a disease..get well soon.

I bet you are one of those who say ignorance is bliss...NO it is just ignorant!

Jealousy is different then just being faithful! These women go around screwing everything that will screw them and then the ignorant MEN bring that crap home to a unsuspecting wife or girlfriend! That is disease you moron! Little AIDS and Chlamydia... people are sick! Us normal people who don't screw around with married or taken men are not Jealous...we just think that kind is pathetic! I know two women RIGHT NOW that their husband screwed around and NOW the husband has something...but he wants his wife to not leave! That isn't jealousy it is just plain WRONG! But SICK people like you think it is RIGHT that is why that 1 in 4 women have Herpies! Did you know that little statistic BIG START MAN! Most of them don't know it!

I am a medical professional so don't even go there... get educated!

[LOL]

I agree with Myft

What one does not know won't hurt them

However if a couple are truely secure and trusting in thier relationship it shouldn't matter.I have a relationship that is that secure.I can admit to checking out another woman's butt or boobs.And all the g/f says is"Do you like what you seen?"

Jealousy get you nowhere and nothing.

[in the know]

How ignorant wrote:

<quoted text>
I bet you are one of those who say ignorance is bliss...NO it is just ignorant!
Jealousy is different then just being faithful! These women go around screwing everything that will screw them and then the ignorant MEN bring that crap home to a unsuspecting wife or girlfriend! That is disease you moron! Little AIDS and Chlamydia... people are sick! Us normal people who don't screw around with married or taken men are not Jealous...we just think that kind is pathetic! I know two women RIGHT NOW that their husband screwed around and NOW the husband has something...but he wants his wife to not leave! That isn't jealousy it is just plain WRONG! But SICK people like you think it is RIGHT that is why that 1 in 4 women have Herpies! Did you know that little statistic BIG START MAN! Most of them don't know it!
I am a medical professional so don't even go there... get educated!

You are so right,and there is a women getting ready to be over at morehead hoapital that like to have sex with marred men.

[The other side]

I like it when women flirt with my husband. It makes him feel good and let's me know that I have a good thing and someone else will be glad to take my place if I mess up. I notice that when guys flirt with me, he always pays more attention to me as well. I trust him and he trusts me, I will continue until he gives me a reason not to. The only way I would get mad or jealous would be if some woman persistantly persued him even though she knew he was married and not interested.

[How ignorant]

The other side wrote:

I like it when women flirt with my husband. It makes him feel good and let's me know that I have a good thing and someone else will be glad to take my place if I mess up. I notice that when guys flirt with me, he always pays more attention to me as well. I trust him and he trusts me, I will continue until he gives me a reason not to. The only way I would get mad or jealous would be if some woman persistantly persued him even though she knew he was married and not interested.

And that is what this girl at the first of this thread is talking about... there are women who keep chasing waiting for a problem! I am not giving a man an excuse, but all marriage have bad days and when a women just keeps on...that is a BAD WOMAN!

[Understand]

Really have a problem with women that know the man is married and has an affair anyway especially when children are involved. When you see the ring or know for a fact he is married...BACK OFF! S.T.

[old lady]

All you people that may not have heard this before, men and women both can say NO! DO NOT BE STUPID all your life. Stop making it easy for your partner to cheat by thinking they can not say NO!

[I heart MYFT]

How ignorant wrote:

<quoted text>
I bet you are one of those who say ignorance is bliss...NO it is just ignorant!
Jealousy is different then just being faithful! These women go around screwing everything that will screw them and then the ignorant MEN bring that crap home to a unsuspecting wife or girlfriend! That is disease you moron! Little AIDS and Chlamydia... people are sick! Us normal people who don't screw around with married or taken men are not Jealous...we just think that kind is pathetic! I know two women RIGHT NOW that their husband screwed around and NOW the husband has something...but he wants his wife to not leave! That isn't jealousy it is just plain WRONG! But SICK people like you think it is RIGHT that is why that 1 in 4 women have Herpies! Did you know that little statistic BIG START MAN! Most of them don't know it!
I am a medical professional so don't even go there... get educated!

Hoo Wee! You sound like a very bitter medical professional. Please say I'm not a client.

And, just out of curiosity..why is that you came to a gossip website to preach from your towering soap box? Folks with morals aren't taken seriously here. Perhaps Oprah can pencil you in.

Till then, lighten up. Your blood pressure's gotta be out of sight!

[myft]

I dont think my friend "heart" is suggesting it is ok to go after a married man...or woman. I know I am not, that is, unless it is the man or woman you are married to. What we are saying is that while there may be women or men who would have indiscriminant sex and let prospective partners know this, the best thing to do is to make sure that others know you are not interested in someone other than your partner AND you shouldnt be letting your partner know about people making passes at you. Your partner must find you attractive, so telling them about someone else finding you attractive does nothing but plant a seed of the "what if" tree.

the old lady is right, just say no and leave it at that.

a buddha said, what part of no dont you understand, or something like that.

[Charlotte]

Understand wrote:

Really have a problem with women that know the man is married and has an affair anyway especially when children are involved. When you see the ring or know for a fact he is married...BACK OFF! S.T.

r u talking bout trish hay? I thought so!!!

[Happy]

yeah