Gay Black Men Often Face Added Family...

Gay Black Men Often Face Added Family Hurdles When Coming Out

There are 78 comments on the Mental Help Net story from Feb 1, 2013, titled Gay Black Men Often Face Added Family Hurdles When Coming Out. In it, Mental Help Net reports that:

Coming out as gay to their families can be particularly difficult for young, black males, according to a small new study.

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ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#28 Feb 3, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
Sir, you're in denial and in need of a class in manners.
Here are some findings from the scientific peer-reviewed journal, "Pediatrics" published in July of 1994. The study was done by Dr. Carole Jenny of the University of Colorado Health Sciences Center. The subjects were 269 sexually abused children seen at Denver Children's Hospital over the course of one year.
*1 in 219 girls was molested by a lesbian * 1 out of 50 boys by a gay male.*About 8 in 10 girls were molested by a man who was or had been in a heterosexual relationship with the child's mother or another relative.*3 out of 4 boys were abused by males in heterosexual relationships with female relatives.
2% of the boys in the study were molested by gay males.
98% of the boys in the study were molested by heterosexuals. Of that number, 75% were molested by heterosexual males KNOWN TO THE VICTIMS in an incestuous scenario.
0.05% of the girls in the study were molested by a lesbian.
99.5% of the girls in the study were molested by heterosexuals. Of that number, 80% were molested by heterosexual males KNOWN TO THE VICTIMS in an incestuous scenario.
http://www.ralliance.org/PedoMyth.html
ma'am,i thought you didnt believe in statistics?269 of them reflect on billions?interesting as well.

Since: Mar 09

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#29 Feb 4, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>Hold up! People who make disgusting choices such as homonastiness, they should NOT expect people to accept that filthiness about them.
A gay person should know this. Not everybody is accepting of their life style. Society, media and hollyweird has convinced people that that type of behaviour is ok, well it's not. GOD SAID SO.
God has a fire waiting to burn their booty holes to a crisp.
It's not that I hate them, I just hate the evil they do. I hate their ways not them.
What "ways" are those? Specifically.
getyourfactsdotc om

Edgware, UK

#30 Feb 4, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
Sir, you're homophobic and in need of salvation from Jesus.

it is a lifestyle choice to be gay imo
getyourfactsdotc om

Edgware, UK

#31 Feb 4, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
<quoted text>ma'am,i thought you didnt believe in statistics?269 of them reflect on billions?interesting as well.
The report entitled Homosexuality and Child Sexual Abuse, shows that while homosexual men make up less than three per cent of the adult male population, they commit a disproportionate number (one third or more) of child sexual molestations. Dailey's report is being sent to parents, youth groups, school administrators, Catholic bishops, and religious organizations.

Homosexuality and Child Sexual Abuse presents a number of controversial findings. The first is that a significant percentage of child sexual abuse victims are boys. The second finding of Dailey's report contradicts the "inaccurate but widely accepted claims of sex researcher Alfred Kinsey" that homosexuals comprise at least 10 per cent of the population. Based upon a study of three large data sets, the General Social Survey, the National Health and Social Life Survey, and the U.S. Census, "a recent study in demography estimates the number of exclusive male homosexuals in the general population at 2.5 per cent, and the number of exclusive lesbians at 1.4 per cent," writes Dailey.

The FRC study also demonstrates, with a wealth of anecdotal evidence, that pedophile themes can be found throughout "mainstream" gay literature, including fiction anthologies such as: The Penguin Book on International Gay Writing, The Gay Canon: What Every Gay Man Should Read, and A History of Gay Literature:The Male Tradition. Interestingly, the late gay Beat poet Allen Ginsberg was a pedophile, and wrote articles for publications associated with the North American Man-Boy Love Association. "I reread Collected Poems and Ginsberg's two subsequent collections, surprised by the pattern of reference to anal intercourse and to pederasty that emerged," LINK BETWEEN PAEDOPHILLIA AND HOMOSEXUALITY - SAY NO TO GAY MARRIAGE

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#32 Feb 4, 2013
getyourfactsdotcom wrote:
<quoted text>
The report entitled Homosexuality and Child Sexual Abuse, shows that while homosexual men make up less than three per cent of the adult male population, they commit a disproportionate number (one third or more) of child sexual molestations. Dailey's report is being sent to parents, youth groups, school administrators, Catholic bishops, and religious organizations.
Homosexuality and Child Sexual Abuse presents a number of controversial findings. The first is that a significant percentage of child sexual abuse victims are boys. The second finding of Dailey's report contradicts the "inaccurate but widely accepted claims of sex researcher Alfred Kinsey" that homosexuals comprise at least 10 per cent of the population. Based upon a study of three large data sets, the General Social Survey, the National Health and Social Life Survey, and the U.S. Census, "a recent study in demography estimates the number of exclusive male homosexuals in the general population at 2.5 per cent, and the number of exclusive lesbians at 1.4 per cent," writes Dailey.
The FRC study also demonstrates, with a wealth of anecdotal evidence, that pedophile themes can be found throughout "mainstream" gay literature, including fiction anthologies such as: The Penguin Book on International Gay Writing, The Gay Canon: What Every Gay Man Should Read, and A History of Gay Literature:The Male Tradition. Interestingly, the late gay Beat poet Allen Ginsberg was a pedophile, and wrote articles for publications associated with the North American Man-Boy Love Association. "I reread Collected Poems and Ginsberg's two subsequent collections, surprised by the pattern of reference to anal intercourse and to pederasty that emerged," LINK BETWEEN PAEDOPHILLIA AND HOMOSEXUALITY - SAY NO TO GAY MARRIAGE
of course theyre sneak attacking/brainwashing people with homosexuality and all but why are you posting this to me instead of phoenix and the others's?im not gay or pro gay.i dont attack them either,i just dont agree with them and definitely fear for my safety since they continually imitate females and have all kinds of surgery now.sick.men/straight men need protection like everyone else may i add.from women AND sissies.
getyourfactsdotc om

Edgware, UK

#33 Feb 4, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
<quoted text>of course theyre sneak attacking/brainwashing people with homosexuality and all but why are you posting this to me instead of phoenix and the others's?im not gay or pro gay.i dont attack them either,i just dont agree with them and definitely fear for my safety since they continually imitate females and have all kinds of surgery now.sick.men/straight men need protection like everyone else may i add.from women AND sissies.
Duh it was in agreeement and support of your earlier post obtw SAY NO TO GAY MARRIAGE we don't need, we don't want it, and it goes against nature
Down Low Darrel

Hanover, PA

#34 Feb 4, 2013
What about the thousands of brothas coming out of prison who went in straight and loving women but are now on the DL? Black community ain't showing us no love anymore either.

Since: Mar 09

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#35 Feb 4, 2013
getyourfactsdotcom wrote:
<quoted text>
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =wD5mFQkenqIXX
it is a lifestyle choice to be gay imo
How do you come to hold that opinion?

Is your hetero orientation a "lifestyle choice"?

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#37 Feb 4, 2013
getyourfactsdotcom wrote:
<quoted text>
Duh it was in agreeement and support of your earlier post obtw SAY NO TO GAY MARRIAGE we don't need, we don't want it, and it goes against nature
cuz,its five in the morning and im sleepy lol my bad.
getyourfactsdotc om

Edgware, UK

#38 Feb 4, 2013
snyper wrote:
<quoted text>
How do you come to hold that opinion?
Is your hetero orientation a "lifestyle choice"?
Easy without hetrosexual coupling/pocreation the human species would cease to exist, it's only natural, homosexuality is NOT NATURAL



JUST SAY NO TO GAY MARRIAGE

Since: Mar 09

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#39 Feb 4, 2013
getyourfactsdotcom wrote:
<quoted text>
The report entitled Homosexuality and Child Sexual Abuse, shows that while homosexual men make up less than three per cent of the adult male population, they commit a disproportionate number (one third or more) of child sexual molestations. Dailey's report is being sent to parents, youth groups, school administrators, Catholic bishops, and religious organizations.
Homosexuality and Child Sexual Abuse presents a number of controversial findings. The first is that a significant percentage of child sexual abuse victims are boys. The second finding of Dailey's report contradicts the "inaccurate but widely accepted claims of sex researcher Alfred Kinsey" that homosexuals comprise at least 10 per cent of the population. Based upon a study of three large data sets, the General Social Survey, the National Health and Social Life Survey, and the U.S. Census, "a recent study in demography estimates the number of exclusive male homosexuals in the general population at 2.5 per cent, and the number of exclusive lesbians at 1.4 per cent," writes Dailey.
The FRC study also demonstrates, with a wealth of anecdotal evidence, that pedophile themes can be found throughout "mainstream" gay literature, including fiction anthologies such as: The Penguin Book on International Gay Writing, The Gay Canon: What Every Gay Man Should Read, and A History of Gay Literature:The Male Tradition. Interestingly, the late gay Beat poet Allen Ginsberg was a pedophile, and wrote articles for publications associated with the North American Man-Boy Love Association. "I reread Collected Poems and Ginsberg's two subsequent collections, surprised by the pattern of reference to anal intercourse and to pederasty that emerged," LINK BETWEEN PAEDOPHILLIA AND HOMOSEXUALITY - SAY NO TO GAY MARRIAGE
The FRC's "researches" have been widely discredited by those professional bodies which oversee such work, here and abroad. Further, they have failed to meet Federal Court criteria for competence and validity when subjected to the "Rational Scrutiny" (the least demanding) used by the Court in determining Admissibility of Expert Evidence or Testimony. The authors of these "researches" declined to appear before the Federal Courts to explain, support or defend them. While certain sections of these ersatz "researches" were presented in Court in a couple of Cases, in every instance the assertions of the proposed evidence were not only rebutted, but soundly refuted to the full satisfaction of the Courts where they were presented and, as a result, either determined to be inadmissible as evidentiary documents or as competent expert opinion, or both.

It would be wise to find a more reliable source for your information.

Since: Mar 09

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#40 Feb 4, 2013
getyourfactsdotcom wrote:
<quoted text>
Easy without hetrosexual coupling/pocreation the human species would cease to exist, it's only natural, homosexuality is NOT NATURAL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =wD5mFQkenqIXX
JUST SAY NO TO GAY MARRIAGE
What definition are you using for "NATURAL" ?
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#41 Feb 4, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
<quoted text>ma'am,i thought you didnt believe in statistics?269 of them reflect on billions?interesting as well.
Hard to ignore the victimization of children, sir

Evil is just that...evil
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#42 Feb 4, 2013
getyourfactsdotcom wrote:
<quoted text>http://www.youtube.com /watch?v=wD5mFQkenqIXX
it is a lifestyle choice to be gay imo
I pray those people get saved by Jesus.

Since: Mar 09

Location hidden

#43 Feb 4, 2013
getyourfactsdotcom wrote:
<quoted text>
Easy without hetrosexual coupling/pocreation the human species would cease to exist, it's only natural, homosexuality is NOT NATURAL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =wD5mFQkenqIXX
JUST SAY NO TO GAY MARRIAGE
You didn't answer the core of the question, which was the assertion of "choice".

operative fallacies: A Dicto Secundum quid ad Dictum Simpliciter, Argumentum ad Ignorantiam, Petitio Principii, Straw Man

operative biases: Confirmation Bias, Anchoring, Availability Cascade, Essentialism, Expectation Bias, Functional Fixedness, Irrational Escalation, Nonsense Math Effect, Semmelweis Reflex, Selection Bias, Status Quo Bias, Subjective Validation, Texas Sharpshooter Bias

And especially the Dunning-Kruger Effect and System Justification Bias

Why should anyone listen to you?

Since: Mar 09

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#44 Feb 4, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
Hard to ignore the victimization of children, sir
Evil is just that...evil
Well THAT certainly removes ANY necessity to take a serious and scientific look at the phenomenon, doesn't it?

Think you could be any more mentally lazy than an adolescent trying to get out of his homework? Try. It's easy. Easy as the Dark Ages.
almostchoked

London, UK

#46 Feb 4, 2013
Down Low Darrel wrote:
What about the thousands of brothas coming out of prison who went in straight and loving women but are now on the DL? Black community ain't showing us no love anymore either.
that is exactly my point excellent question - homosexuality is a lifestyle choice, it's not natural or acceptable why do you think the Pink Brigade is pushing so hard for equality? because the pink brigade knows their lifestyle is not accepted by the vast majority of the human race.

Survival in the prison system is what turns men to this lifestyle, primarily for protection
almostchoked

London, UK

#47 Feb 4, 2013
Quest wrote:
<quoted text>
So, you hate the very God that chose to create gay folks?
And what "filthiness" is in your mind? Sexual images and the like?
That your mind fills with such things at the mere mention of gay youth being tossed out of their homes is more of a personal problem on your part, isn't it?
How can you blame gay folks for the images and perversions that fill your own mind?
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/polit...

more than 70 countries can't be wrong, homosexuality is wrong, unnatural get over it!

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#48 Feb 4, 2013
almostchoked wrote:
<quoted text> ... homosexuality is a lifestyle choice ...
That is the unproven assertion upon which all that you've posted is based. Until you prove it, the rest is just so much garbage.

Since: Mar 09

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#49 Feb 4, 2013
Down Low Darrel wrote:
What about the thousands of brothas coming out of prison who went in straight and loving women but are now on the DL? Black community ain't showing us no love anymore either.
Criminals tend to be hedonists. Being a fetishist or kinky thrill-junkie is not the same as gay orientation.

While it may be possible that they were gay or bi as kids, and denying and covering it screwed them up to the point of going criminal, it's yet to be shown. Such people don't usually make themselves available for studies.

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