confused

Somerset, KY

#1 May 7, 2011
ever since the baby got here my wife has done nothing but yell at me and the baby. she wants nothing to do with either of us. could this be ppd?
abba

Lexington, KY

#2 May 7, 2011
maybe ,talk to your wife ,if she needs help get it,lot's of women suffer with hormnal adjustment's after pregnancy,just keep an eye on the baby .
confused

Somerset, KY

#3 May 7, 2011
right now she wants nothing to do with it. she wont even talk to it. which if its ppd or hormones i can understand. i have tried to get her to seek help but she says what ever. im scared its going to lead to a break up.
Lesson Learned

Sheridan, AR

#4 May 7, 2011
It sounds like Post Partum Depression. Get her to the doctor as soon as you can and get this checked out, even if it isn't they can give her something to calm her down. This is hurting the baby and you. Get her help and do it soon! She should be tired but happy with the new baby.
confused

Somerset, KY

#5 May 7, 2011
actualy i do it all she hardly holds it. when she does she is more than ready to give it back. when it cries she gets so mad at me then she screams at me and starts crying. im at my wits end. i love my wife with all my hear but the baby cant help it. im going to try to get her into the dr wed thats her first day off.

thanks for the advise folks.
now

London, KY

#6 May 7, 2011
confused wrote:
actualy i do it all she hardly holds it. when she does she is more than ready to give it back. when it cries she gets so mad at me then she screams at me and starts crying. im at my wits end. i love my wife with all my hear but the baby cant help it. im going to try to get her into the dr wed thats her first day off.
thanks for the advise folks.
DON'T WAIT, she neds help Now! If she won't listen to you, what about parents, grandparend or friends! Get help for her! Don't leave her alone with the baby, please do something now! Get someone to come and stay with you to help out and o shewon't be wit bab alone! I'll pray for your family. And remember more that likely she can't help herself.
confused

Somerset, KY

#7 May 8, 2011
she wont hur it she just dont want anything to do with it.

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Since: Dec 09

Big Creek, KY

#8 May 8, 2011
it's a baby, he or she not an it.
oreally

Greenbrier, AR

#9 May 8, 2011
Yes, please just load her up and take her to a doctor. This isn't her fault.. she just needs rest and meds. Most woman feel moody after having a baby, but with some women it's extreme and can last a very long time.This could lead to her hurting the baby or herself.

She most def needs something to level her out.

Since: Nov 10

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#10 May 8, 2011
Better hurry up and leave her before she leaves you. That way you can fight over the little "it" in court.

Level 1

Since: Jul 10

#11 May 16, 2011
she could still be in her moodswings for a while.
confused

Somerset, KY

#12 May 17, 2011
the it is a baby im just not wanting to offer up any more info than need be. the baby is fine and growing like a weed. she is only taking her physical agression out on me and since im twice her size im letting her. it is getting old though and she refuses to see a doctor. she says that she is fine and im just an a$$ hole.
oreally

El Paso, AR

#13 May 17, 2011
As strange as it is, the moodiness is normal to an extent. Sounds like it's going way too far with physical aggression towards you. JMO. I still think she could use some medication. That's coming from someone who doesn't like or believe in meds for the most part.
anonymous

Moultrie, GA

#14 May 18, 2011
i agree with some of the posters get your wife some help now before she hurts the baby whether she wants it or not. doesn't sound like she is capable of making that decision so you will need to do so for her. Heard of to many similiar stories that did not end well. Do not leave her alone with the baby.
burnsidegirl

London, KY

#15 May 19, 2011
Thats PPD. I had a slight case of it after my youngest was born..Thing is she probably is in denial..feels like a failure of sorts and she is frustrated because she feels like she cant handle being a mom..thats the way i felt only it sounds like her PPD is very extreme. Get her help ASAP..force her to go! If she loses her patience with the baby it could be a really bad situation..Do NOT leave the baby alone with her until she is getting the help she needs! Take her to her to her obgyn and explain the symptoms..call them yourself if your having trouble getting her to go they may be able to come to you.

Since: May 11

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#16 May 19, 2011
Get video of her, just in case. Make sure she doesn't hurt the baby.
Doctor Phil

Corbin, KY

#17 May 19, 2011
Is she a big ol girl? Big women often get crazier than normal after childbirth. They want to keep eating like their still pregnant but they know they shouldn't.

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