Murder suspect changes plea

SNOW HILL -- Murder suspect Gregory Stokes, accused in the slaying of Pamela Balk and her dog in West Ocean City on Jan. Full Story
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Absolutely Shocked

Bel Air, MD

#1 Jun 7, 2007
The judicial system is amazing. He can do all of that and only get 2nd degree murder and cruelty to animals. He plea bargained to get that and to throw out the other 8 counts they had against him. I hope he at least gets the maximum number of years. I would think that doing this would make him feel like the murderer he is as well as a coward. I am still in shock at the plea bargain, he is one lucky person.
chris

Finksburg, MD

#3 Aug 9, 2007
he was a nice gut. i knew him for 24 years. he was not a killer. he must of been really drunk. drinking changes a person. for all the people talking shit on greg you never really new him. he was a good person. f yall
chris must be trash too

Sykesville, MD

#4 Aug 9, 2007
A nice guy, huh? Apparently you never knew him! Or you must be the same kind of trash that he and his family are, just trying to make excuses for the sick bastard!
He's been in trouble since he was 14. His mom said he was abused from the time he was born... well, mom WHY DID YOU STAY THERE AND LET IT HAPPEN? Or were you part of the problem? Just too f'd up on drugs herself from what I've been told by her friends and family.There have been women's shelters for the past 42 years in Baltimore, there is no excuse for her actions, or lack there of.
He admitted fantasizing about killing another girlfriend also, did you know that, chris?? Maybe you were that girl and just got lucky that he didn't have the balls to do it to you!!
A friend of his was there to explain how he changed after a severe beating he received last year... Was that beating due to the fact that he was working with the police dept.'s narcotics unit, getting his friends busted to keep his smelly ass out of jail??
His nephew's mother was there saying that he was a good uncle.... Why wasn't his brother or father there... Because they are in prison themselves... is what I was told. MUST BE A FAMILY TRADITION!!!
I wish there was a way to stop all the f'ing trash in this world from having babies. You people are ruining our society. You can't even take care of yourselves and you've got to go and bring innocent babies into this world, that you have NO intention of raising to be decent people, just so you can get a welfare check.
You are all a bunch of sick, lazy f*cks.

HEY CHRIS....F*CK YOU!!
Stacie

Waldorf, MD

#5 Aug 9, 2007
Well Chris, you weren't in the court room during his sentencing. He showed no emotion what so ever. He didn't look sad, nervous, scared..nothing. To me someone who is looking at a very long time in prison would at best be nervous of the courts decision. The judge quoted from one of his statements "That's ashame, she was a nice girl". WTF! From what I have heard he was nothing but a waste of space. In & out of trouble, stealing, drug dealing etc etc. He ransacked her parents house, stole money, jewelry and of course her father's gun and two vehicles. You may have known him for 24 years but so what. The excuse that he was really drunk is complete BS! There are plenty of people out there that get really drunk but you don't see them putting 3 bullets in the side of someone's head while they are sleeping. If it makes you feel better to defend him on this site it is your right. However I would have to question your character. Unfortunately one of Pam's worst flaws is that she was a bad judge of character and always gave people the benefit of the doubt. In the end it would be this that ended her life. I have wasted enough of my time responding to your less then adequate comment. For future, if you are going to post something on the internet, learn how to spell and know your grammer. People that can't articulate their thoughts look stupid. AMF!!
hey bel air

Finksburg, MD

#6 Aug 9, 2007
f.u . leave add. ill show u something
JLP in Abingdon

Manchester, MD

#7 Aug 9, 2007
I only wish the sentence was for my uncle to put 3 bullets in this f-er's head. The only difference would be that Stokes would be awake to see it coming. Now that would be true justice !!!!! I also want everyone to know that because of all of this ,,,,,, my aunt died of a broken heart. Can you imagine losing your daughter and wife in a matter of 5 months ?? Imagine losing your sister and mother. I hope he gets what's coming to him in prison!!!
chris must be trash too

Finksburg, MD

#8 Aug 10, 2007
hey bel air wrote:
f.u . leave add. ill show u something
If you're so f'ing brave give me your address!! Then you'll see something. A lot of people are in jail because of greg, I'm sure they'd love to know who supports him...
chris must be trash too

Finksburg, MD

#9 Aug 10, 2007
JLP in Abingdon wrote:
I only wish the sentence was for my uncle to put 3 bullets in this f-er's head. The only difference would be that Stokes would be awake to see it coming. Now that would be true justice !!!!! I also want everyone to know that because of all of this ,,,,,, my aunt died of a broken heart. Can you imagine losing your daughter and wife in a matter of 5 months ?? Imagine losing your sister and mother. I hope he gets what's coming to him in prison!!!
Don't worry, he will. He was informing.. meaning he was getting drug dealers busted, either to keep his own lame ass out of jail or for the money.
I was told how to find him in the dept. of corrections, once he is settled. I also know 2 of the people he had busted and where they are. Hopefully they will meet again... at least he'll be meeting some of their friends.
JLP in Abingdon

Baltimore, MD

#10 Aug 11, 2007
I hope you're right about people hooking up w/ his sorry ass in jail. They ought to pass him around like a Bon-Bon. I never knew I could have such hatred for anyone the way I do for this piece of s--t !! I never knew my family would ever be going through anything like this. Again, I hope he suffers 24/7. And I mean REALLY SUFFER !!! Hopefully, he'll meet who he snitched out,.What comes around, goes around, Baby !!!!!
Jenn

Lancaster, PA

#11 Aug 16, 2007
I was flagged down on I-83 the other day by my first exhusband who yelled his cell number to me through the traffic telling me he had some things to tell me. I called him this evening and am shocked at what he told me. I would've never thought in a million years that this would be it. I came home and googled Pam Balk and read what was so gut wrenchingly sick. I am in shock and feel very numb. Pam and I haven't spoken in about two years due to our lives taking separate turns. This is a person that I grew up with, watched her get married, she watched me get married (twice!). I grew up with her; worked with her; hung out with her; laughed with her; cried with her; shared our love of dogs, cats, and horses, and so much more. I am still digesting what has happened to her. To her family - My prayers go out to you with this tragic loss and the loss of Miss Kathy my heart aches for all of you; to her friends I encourage you to remember how many times Pam made you laugh (I always told her she could be a stand up comedian!) I am very sad right now and ANGRY! I hope Pam comes to me in my dreams, so I can tell her that I wished we never lost touch. To Stokes and his family - what comes around goes around - I've seen it a million times! You cowardly SOB - it seems you've always played that poor pathetic me card and it will catch up to you - you're a poor pathetic excuse of man - oxygen shouldn't even be wasted on you, and I pray to God your genes stopped with you. It's a shame to have to keep you alive - to chicken shit to face a needle prick?! Spineless piece of crap! I hope you get gang-banged in prison, and I would certainly like to beat you and mutilate your sorry ass!
BorlaBitch

Waldorf, MD

#12 Aug 17, 2007
Jenn wrote:
I was flagged down on I-83 the other day by my first exhusband who yelled his cell number to me through the traffic telling me he had some things to tell me. I called him this evening and am shocked at what he told me. I would've never thought in a million years that this would be it. I came home and googled Pam Balk and read what was so gut wrenchingly sick. I am in shock and feel very numb. Pam and I haven't spoken in about two years due to our lives taking separate turns. This is a person that I grew up with, watched her get married, she watched me get married (twice!). I grew up with her; worked with her; hung out with her; laughed with her; cried with her; shared our love of dogs, cats, and horses, and so much more. I am still digesting what has happened to her. To her family - My prayers go out to you with this tragic loss and the loss of Miss Kathy my heart aches for all of you; to her friends I encourage you to remember how many times Pam made you laugh (I always told her she could be a stand up comedian!) I am very sad right now and ANGRY! I hope Pam comes to me in my dreams, so I can tell her that I wished we never lost touch. To Stokes and his family - what comes around goes around - I've seen it a million times! You cowardly SOB - it seems you've always played that poor pathetic me card and it will catch up to you - you're a poor pathetic excuse of man - oxygen shouldn't even be wasted on you, and I pray to God your genes stopped with you. It's a shame to have to keep you alive - to chicken shit to face a needle prick?! Spineless piece of crap! I hope you get gang-banged in prison, and I would certainly like to beat you and mutilate your sorry ass!
Hey Jenn, it's Stacie. I was wondering if you knew. I didnt have a way to get a hold of you when it happened. It is just a terrible thing. I went to her memorial back in February and then went to his sentencing hearing last week. Her dad is doing as well as can be expected and so is her sister. I think they are just glad that all of this is now behind them. Hopefully they can move forward. I remember all of the times you, me, Pam & Alison would go and see the Urge. It seems like it was such a long time a go. Oh and I cant forget the time that you totally slipped and fell at Otter Point Station, in white pants none the less. You guys talked me into callin out sick the next day. Hope you are doing well. Take Care
baltimore sucks

Silver Spring, MD

#13 Aug 17, 2007
chris must be trash too wrote:
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If you're so f'ing brave give me your address!! Then you'll see something. A lot of people are in jail because of greg, I'm sure they'd love to know who supports him...
Lots of people in jail because of this piece of sh!t? Ever think maybe they deserve to be there? Tell us what all your good friends are in for. Such good people. Ha!
baltimore sucks

Silver Spring, MD

#14 Aug 17, 2007
chris must be trash too wrote:
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Don't worry, he will. He was informing.. meaning he was getting drug dealers busted, either to keep his own lame ass out of jail or for the money.
I was told how to find him in the dept. of corrections, once he is settled. I also know 2 of the people he had busted and where they are. Hopefully they will meet again... at least he'll be meeting some of their friends.
Drug dealers deserve to be in jail, and this guy should have been given death for murder one. There is no justice, the system sucks.
abc

Waldorf, MD

#15 Aug 24, 2007
hey bel air wrote:
f.u . leave add. ill show u something
1313 Mockingbird Lane
john

West Chester, PA

#16 Aug 27, 2007
alot of my friends or ex-friends are or were involved with dope and lived horrible lives. they either sold and spent much time involved with the criminal justice system or were abusers that over time the dope controlled them and lost their houses and kids. they were jealous of me because i chose a different route. what i've noticed about them and others is that they have one thing in common. they never had ambitions. they either quit high school or graduated and went right into construction. they never thought of doing anything. they never left their home towns. they never tried anything like the military or college or anything. by the time i was 26, i traveled the world in the military and got a college degree and a high paying job and it wasn't all that hard. when i read this type of stuff i can see that these are people that never had ambitions. dope is for losers. they are where they should be, either in jail or living under a picnic table somewhere.
Darin

Gwynn Oak, MD

#17 Aug 31, 2007
Jenn wrote:
I was flagged down on I-83 the other day by my first exhusband who yelled his cell number to me through the traffic telling me he had some things to tell me. I called him this evening and am shocked at what he told me. I would've never thought in a million years that this would be it. I came home and googled Pam Balk and read what was so gut wrenchingly sick. I am in shock and feel very numb. Pam and I haven't spoken in about two years due to our lives taking separate turns. This is a person that I grew up with, watched her get married, she watched me get married (twice!). I grew up with her; worked with her; hung out with her; laughed with her; cried with her; shared our love of dogs, cats, and horses, and so much more. I am still digesting what has happened to her. To her family - My prayers go out to you with this tragic loss and the loss of Miss Kathy my heart aches for all of you; to her friends I encourage you to remember how many times Pam made you laugh (I always told her she could be a stand up comedian!) I am very sad right now and ANGRY! I hope Pam comes to me in my dreams, so I can tell her that I wished we never lost touch. To Stokes and his family - what comes around goes around - I've seen it a million times! You cowardly SOB - it seems you've always played that poor pathetic me card and it will catch up to you - you're a poor pathetic excuse of man - oxygen shouldn't even be wasted on you, and I pray to God your genes stopped with you. It's a shame to have to keep you alive - to chicken shit to face a needle prick?! Spineless piece of crap! I hope you get gang-banged in prison, and I would certainly like to beat you and mutilate your sorry ass!


Hey, Jenn
I FEEL REALLY BAD BECAUSE I COULD'VE TRIED TO CONTACT YOU THROUGH YOU'RE SECOND HUSBAND'S PARENTS. I DON'T KNOW IF THEY KNOW HOW TO CONTACT YOU THOUGH.
FEEL FREE TO STOP BY NEXT TIME YOU'RE IN BEL AIR. I THINK YOU KNOW WHERE, OURS IS THE SECOND DRIVEWAY ON THE RIGHT IN THE COURT ACROSS FROM YOUR EX IN-LAWS.
I'M STILL IN CONTACT W/ EVERYONE, STACIE & I WENT TO THE SENTENCING TOGETHER.
I'D BE HAPPY TO GO OVER THE DETAILS YOU CAN'T GET HERE.

IT'D BE NICE TO SEE YOU AND TALK ABOUT THE OLD DAYS, MAYBE IT WILL HELP US DEAL WITH THIS. I'M STILL HAVING A HARD TIME WITH IT.

REMEMBER "THANKS FOR CALLING THE DOPE FACTORY, MAY I HELP YOU?"
Jenn

Lancaster, PA

#18 Sep 4, 2007
Darin wrote:
<quoted text>
Hey, Jenn
I FEEL REALLY BAD BECAUSE I COULD'VE TRIED TO CONTACT YOU THROUGH YOU'RE SECOND HUSBAND'S PARENTS. I DON'T KNOW IF THEY KNOW HOW TO CONTACT YOU THOUGH.
FEEL FREE TO STOP BY NEXT TIME YOU'RE IN BEL AIR. I THINK YOU KNOW WHERE, OURS IS THE SECOND DRIVEWAY ON THE RIGHT IN THE COURT ACROSS FROM YOUR EX IN-LAWS.
I'M STILL IN CONTACT W/ EVERYONE, STACIE & I WENT TO THE SENTENCING TOGETHER.
I'D BE HAPPY TO GO OVER THE DETAILS YOU CAN'T GET HERE.
IT'D BE NICE TO SEE YOU AND TALK ABOUT THE OLD DAYS, MAYBE IT WILL HELP US DEAL WITH THIS. I'M STILL HAVING A HARD TIME WITH IT.
REMEMBER "THANKS FOR CALLING THE DOPE FACTORY, MAY I HELP YOU?"
Hey Darin, The only way they would've been able to contact me would be through my work. And to be honest with you, I don't take my ex's calls. This is all still very fresh to me. I think about her everyday - whether it's the funny things Pam did or I can't believe she's gone. I remember where you live, and I will take you up on that offer.
Chris

United States

#19 Sep 18, 2007
Jenn wrote:
I was flagged down on I-83 the other day by my first exhusband who yelled his cell number to me through the traffic telling me he had some things to tell me. I called him this evening and am shocked at what he told me. I would've never thought in a million years that this would be it. I came home and googled Pam Balk and read what was so gut wrenchingly sick. I am in shock and feel very numb. Pam and I haven't spoken in about two years due to our lives taking separate turns. This is a person that I grew up with, watched her get married, she watched me get married (twice!). I grew up with her; worked with her; hung out with her; laughed with her; cried with her; shared our love of dogs, cats, and horses, and so much more. I am still digesting what has happened to her. To her family - My prayers go out to you with this tragic loss and the loss of Miss Kathy my heart aches for all of you; to her friends I encourage you to remember how many times Pam made you laugh (I always told her she could be a stand up comedian!) I am very sad right now and ANGRY! I hope Pam comes to me in my dreams, so I can tell her that I wished we never lost touch. To Stokes and his family - what comes around goes around - I've seen it a million times! You cowardly SOB - it seems you've always played that poor pathetic me card and it will catch up to you - you're a poor pathetic excuse of man - oxygen shouldn't even be wasted on you, and I pray to God your genes stopped with you. It's a shame to have to keep you alive - to chicken shit to face a needle prick?! Spineless piece of crap! I hope you get gang-banged in prison, and I would certainly like to beat you and mutilate your sorry ass!
Jenn
I'm sorry we couldn't find you to tell you about Pam when it happened. I didn't even know where to start and when Stacie or Darin didn't know how, I was at a loss as to where to start. I am sorry you had to find out the way you did. It was a shock and then to lose my mom 3 months later. She never cried or talked about it. I believe she gave up her fight with cancer because of a broken heart. My dad is having a hard time -losing both of them the way we did. The whole thing is like a bad dream. The memorial for Pam was really nice. The people she worked with and for couldn't have done or said anything better. She was very well liked and respected at work. In fact after she was gone, her boss commented that it took 3 of them to do her job. Anyway, I'm sorry about how you found out, but I am glad someone finally found you. Dave came up for the memorial - he was a mess. Too bad they couldn't have worked out their problems, maybe she would still be here. Take care! Chris
mom in pa

Baltimore, MD

#20 Sep 18, 2007
Wow, somehow i missed this happening.
I tried to pull it up on the dispatch. but it is too old..I dont know all the details, but sounds like this guy is a real "winner". I hope justice prevails, and he does pay for what he did.
michelle

Roseland, FL

#21 Sep 18, 2007
HE IS A PIECE OF CRAP.............

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