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May 9, 2011
 
I have been married to the same man for 35 years, 5 children. January 2011 Joyce Harvey, formally from Sneedville and has 2 children and is widow. She began calling and harrassing my family by calling my Husband throught out the day and night. Of course he fell into her web. I also found that he had two affairs with co workers - Volunteer Blind - also. She has continued to call and harrass to where our 35 year marriage is gone. I have a mentally handicapped son who received her 4:30 phone call in the morning and he lost his being. He was institutionalized for 1 week and continues to have issues. Mothers day morning, I received a text message from Joyce about the dozen roses she received from my husband, understanding no separation or divorce yet. She has known from the beginning of the marriage, but just ignored it.

My reason for all this is that I need to serve restraint papers and since she is no longer employed at Volunteer Blind , I need a street address and of course can't get it.

Can anyone help me put an end to this continual torment. I don't want the man (if he is considered that) I Just want peace for me and my children.

Anybody know where in Morristown she may be located.
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May 10, 2011
 
Good luck to you! Praying for you and your family! God will give you the strength to pull thru this with your head held high!
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May 10, 2011
 
Wife wrote:
I have been married to the same man for 35 years, 5 children. January 2011 Joyce Harvey, formally from Sneedville and has 2 children and is widow. She began calling and harrassing my family by calling my Husband throught out the day and night. Of course he fell into her web. I also found that he had two affairs with co workers - Volunteer Blind - also. She has continued to call and harrass to where our 35 year marriage is gone. I have a mentally handicapped son who received her 4:30 phone call in the morning and he lost his being. He was institutionalized for 1 week and continues to have issues. Mothers day morning, I received a text message from Joyce about the dozen roses she received from my husband, understanding no separation or divorce yet. She has known from the beginning of the marriage, but just ignored it.
My reason for all this is that I need to serve restraint papers and since she is no longer employed at Volunteer Blind , I need a street address and of course can't get it.
Can anyone help me put an end to this continual torment. I don't want the man (if he is considered that) I Just want peace for me and my children.
Anybody know where in Morristown she may be located.
Madam, you are not being rational or truthful. You OBVIOUSLY do want the man; your entire post has been about blaming her- you did mention his two other affairs... about which I am curious. Did you just now find out bout the two other affairs or have you known and just tolerated it? If you just found out and now this woman makes number three... I'd think you'd be talking more about HIM than her. I'd think you would be so furious with HIM that you could not wait to get him out of your sight and solve all your problems at once. Forget about her-- FIRST thing you do is file for divorce and have 'the man you don't want' move out.... that will solve your problem with this current woman- you'll be rid of him and her at the same time.
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May 10, 2011
 

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I know, btrue. The day AFTER I found out, his clothes would have been on her front porch. Then she would have no reason to be harrassing me. She could SOOOOO have him. He "fell into her web?" She rendered him will-less? Hardly. It is so much easier for us to blame third parties; that way we don't have to blame ourselves or our spouses. Doesn't wash though. Anyway, it sounds like a horrible, horrible, painful mess and I hope things get better, wife.
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May 10, 2011
 
Wife wrote:
I have been married to the same man for 35 years, 5 children. January 2011 Joyce Harvey, formally from Sneedville and has 2 children and is widow. She began calling and harrassing my family by calling my Husband throught out the day and night. Of course he fell into her web. I also found that he had two affairs with co workers - Volunteer Blind - also. She has continued to call and harrass to where our 35 year marriage is gone. I have a mentally handicapped son who received her 4:30 phone call in the morning and he lost his being. He was institutionalized for 1 week and continues to have issues. Mothers day morning, I received a text message from Joyce about the dozen roses she received from my husband, understanding no separation or divorce yet. She has known from the beginning of the marriage, but just ignored it.
My reason for all this is that I need to serve restraint papers and since she is no longer employed at Volunteer Blind , I need a street address and of course can't get it.
Can anyone help me put an end to this continual torment. I don't want the man (if he is considered that) I Just want peace for me and my children.
Anybody know where in Morristown she may be located.
I don't know why women always blame the "other woman" when it is your husband that is cheating. The problem with topix is people like to get on here & talk about things but they only tell half the story. Your husband himself told me that Joyce is not what happened to your marriage, by the way Joyce has 4 living chldren & 1 deceased. It seems that you all were already having trouble before she ever came into the picture. I think it all started with his co-worker. But my best advice to you is if you don't want to be harrassed with text messages or phone calls don't be harrassing people yourself....
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May 10, 2011
 
Btru2Urself wrote:
<quoted text>Madam, you are not being rational or truthful. You OBVIOUSLY do want the man; your entire post has been about blaming her- you did mention his two other affairs... about which I am curious. Did you just now find out bout the two other affairs or have you known and just tolerated it? If you just found out and now this woman makes number three... I'd think you'd be talking more about HIM than her. I'd think you would be so furious with HIM that you could not wait to get him out of your sight and solve all your problems at once. Forget about her-- FIRST thing you do is file for divorce and have 'the man you don't want' move out.... that will solve your problem with this current woman- you'll be rid of him and her at the same time.
You are absoutely right. and I did. I had the best years and don't want any more. I found the motel receipts and he admitted to them. Nothing I would put up with, thank you for your support
Wife

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May 10, 2011
 
Who Are You Kidding wrote:
<quoted text>I don't know why women always blame the "other woman" when it is your husband that is cheating. The problem with topix is people like to get on here & talk about things but they only tell half the story. Your husband himself told me that Joyce is not what happened to your marriage, by the way Joyce has 4 living chldren & 1 deceased. It seems that you all were already having trouble before she ever came into the picture. I think it all started with his co-worker. But my best advice to you is if you don't want to be harrassed with text messages or phone calls don't be harrassing people yourself....
The problem is that I asked her to give us time to work things out. She wouldn't. Thank you for your support. I am much better off.
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May 10, 2011
 
Why would ask another woman to give you & your husband of 35 years time to work things out. It seems to me that would be up to your husband not the other woman. Like I said if you don't want to be harrassed I would advise you to stop your harrassing.
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May 10, 2011
 
Wife wrote:
I have been married to the same man for 35 years, 5 children. January 2011 Joyce Harvey, formally from Sneedville and has 2 children and is widow. She began calling and harrassing my family by calling my Husband throught out the day and night. Of course he fell into her web. I also found that he had two affairs with co workers - Volunteer Blind - also. She has continued to call and harrass to where our 35 year marriage is gone. I have a mentally handicapped son who received her 4:30 phone call in the morning and he lost his being. He was institutionalized for 1 week and continues to have issues. Mothers day morning, I received a text message from Joyce about the dozen roses she received from my husband, understanding no separation or divorce yet. She has known from the beginning of the marriage, but just ignored it.
My reason for all this is that I need to serve restraint papers and since she is no longer employed at Volunteer Blind , I need a street address and of course can't get it.
Can anyone help me put an end to this continual torment. I don't want the man (if he is considered that) I Just want peace for me and my children.
Anybody know where in Morristown she may be located.
If you would like to get a message to your husband RJ you need to find another way & stop texting me asking me to give him messages..........
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May 10, 2011
 
Ugh! Class.Pride. Dignity.Discretion. And all that.
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May 10, 2011
 
Who Are You Kidding wrote:
<quoted text>I don't know why women always blame the "other woman" when it is your husband that is cheating. The problem with topix is people like to get on here & talk about things but they only tell half the story. Your husband himself told me that Joyce is not what happened to your marriage, by the way Joyce has 4 living chldren & 1 deceased. It seems that you all were already having trouble before she ever came into the picture. I think it all started with his co-worker. But my best advice to you is if you don't want to be harrassed with text messages or phone calls don't be harrassing people yourself....
I Was given the address. Thank you for the information.
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May 10, 2011
 
Joyce wrote:
<quoted text>If you would like to get a message to your husband RJ you need to find another way & stop texting me asking me to give him messages..........
You acknowledge that he is my husband. You have blocked my number and messages from his phone. I was able to get your street and apt # so all is well.... Thank you
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May 10, 2011
 
Who Are You Kidding wrote:
Why would ask another woman to give you & your husband of 35 years time to work things out. It seems to me that would be up to your husband not the other woman. Like I said if you don't want to be harrassed I would advise you to stop your harrassing.
I was able to get the information I needed. He gave me her number for contacting him. She is the one called my home and talked to my mental disabled son and put him in lakeshore for a weeek. I have my info and am donel
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May 10, 2011
 
Joyce wrote:
<quoted text>If you would like to get a message to your husband RJ you need to find another way & stop texting me asking me to give him messages..........
Joyce also said he his living with her now....Good Luck to them both.
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May 10, 2011
 
Hmmm wrote:
Good luck to you! Praying for you and your family! God will give you the strength to pull thru this with your head held high!
Believe me, he is in my life and has helped tremendously. Thank you for your support
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May 10, 2011
 
Thank you for all the support and information. Just what I needed.

I am done.
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May 10, 2011
 
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<quoted text> Joyce also said he his living with her now....Good Luck to them both.
This is Joyce & who did I did I tell he was living with me????? Someone needs to get their story straight.
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May 11, 2011
 
When a person cheats, or is involved with others, let them GO. Run, don't walk away from them. Encourage them to go. Its hard, but its much worse if you allow them to continue staying with you. People use that as an excuse not to move out formally. Don't worry about the other woman. Ask him to leave. People do not change. Let him go and be grateful the other woman has him. Send her a thank you card, not a restraining order. Thats insane. You are not being rational.
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#20
May 11, 2011
 
What is your major malfuncation?A man does you wrong and you sit around crying and whining. Shut up allready.Are you wanting soneone to tell you it's ok for you to go get you some?Or do you like to talk about it?
No one cares about your love life or lack of it.Buy your self a viberator and move on.
Get a life or end it .One of the other will make this world spin one more day.
Quit pissing and moaning.
Wife

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May 11, 2011
 
Joyce wrote:
<quoted text>This is Joyce & who did I did I tell he was living with me????? Someone needs to get their story straight.
I am not getting into a pissing contest. I just called the law and had him removed from my resident. But before then, I showed him the printed text of him living with you along with our number and also showed him the Mothers Day Text thanking him for the dozen roses again with your number. You wanted him, you got him. We will see you on this topix before to long because he still has the two other women. It took a while to get over a man that you loved all your life, but I got there with your help. For that only, thank you. There is no need to reply as I am not in your gutter.

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