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May

Corpus Christi, TX

#1 Apr 10, 2007
If my daughter had sex with a guy, do any of you think that i can file charges if she is pregnate?Oh, please respond!Really need to know!thank you so muches for all you guys willing to help a ladie in need...if yall do awnser.
May

Corpus Christi, TX

#2 Apr 10, 2007
The man that did this,by the way,needs to step up and admit the crime.I dont want to get him in trouble,but he should reveal himself.My daughter wont say anything about who it was.She only said it happened after school when i was at work.
nichchick

Flemingsburg, KY

#3 Apr 10, 2007
If he is over 18 and she is under 18, it is called statutory rape. Then you can file charges, if they are both under 18 or both over 18, then you can't.
rachel

Fairport, NY

#4 Apr 30, 2007
well,i am a mother of a 16 year old daughter and a 10 year old,i would first take her 2 a doctor 2 see if any std was given 2 her,and even thogh it is hard, if she is 15 yeears of age she has a right 2 her privacy,but speak 2 her,noe if the person that had sex with your child is at least 3 year's older tyhan her,if she is not 18,and she consented 2 sex,u still have a right as a parent 2 file charge's,i would make it a point 2 find out,If she is pregnant,i would defantly find out who the father is,any if she is protecting his idenity,why?is she scarred or does she want 2 protect him?i was a young mother,i was 14 when i had my daughter,although i was married 2 my husband at the age of 16,my parents wanted 2 lock him up,i begged and pleded,but now i realize that i was naive,and if it happened 2 my child i would press charges,i know that when it's your own child u feel diffrently about it,but if you or your child need advice plz.feel free to ask,if i can help with anything i will be honered,just stand by your child,i turned out 2 be a great parent,and my children are very well mannered,even thogh i was only 14,it was because my parents stood by my side and understood....
Stephanie Lowe

Murray, KY

#5 Jun 8, 2007
Hell yes. File Charges
AAC

Corpus Christi, TX

#6 Jun 15, 2007
First of all u should talk to your daughter and find out if the guy was close to her age, and if he was older then yes, you should press charges. Also, find out if it is someone she has been seeing. Can I also ask, did the parent know that her daughter was being sexually active, and if so why didn't she talk to her about something like this happening to her.
In texas

Donna, TX

#8 Aug 1, 2007
depends on the age of both,but should not be having sex(pregancy) hello mom at such a young age and unmarried
A DAUGHTER WHO CARES

Spring Valley, NY

#9 Sep 26, 2007
HEY MOMS I DONT THINK ITS RIGHT FOR U TO PRESS CHARGES IF SHE WANTED TO BE SEXUALY ACTIVE WITH HIM.
IM GOING THROUGH THIS RIGHT NOW. MY MOM WANTED TO AT FIRST BUT DIDNT TAKE ANY ACTION. AND SHE WONT!
BUT IF SHE DID I WOULD HAVE SAID SOMETHING IN COURT. IT WAS MY FAULT TO. I WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH MY BOIFRIEND. HE JUST TURED 18 NOT EVEN 2 WEEKS AGO. IM 15 I NO HOW TO MAKE MY OWN DECISION!
---->SO MOM'S PLEASE FIRST LISTEN TO YOUR DAUGHTERS AND SEE WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY. IF SHE SAYS SHE WANTED TO BECAUSE SHE REALLY FELT SOMETHING FOR HIM THEM LET THEM BE BECAUSE ALL YOU ARE GOING TO CAUSE IS
1.THEM LYING TO YOU SO THEY CAN SEE THEIR BOIFRIEND.
2.FAILiNG CLASSES.
3.NOT CARE ABOUT ANYTHING ANYMORE
4.LEAVING THE HOUSE <----- AN EXTREME BUT CAN HAPPEN!!!
PLEASE JUST THiNK AB0UT WAT Y0U ARE AbOUT TO DO.
YOU MIGHT JUST BE DESTROYiNG YOUR DAUGHTERS LiVES.
iM SAYiNG THiS BECAUSE OF WHAT i AM EXPiERiENCiNG RiTE NOW.
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Jon

Uttoxeter, UK

#10 Oct 18, 2007
She wanted to have sex. She had sex.
Keep out of her life.
Focus on your own.
Face the facts

United States

#11 Dec 4, 2007
If your daughter doesn't want to tell you who he is then she is protecting him. If your daughter wanted to have sex then all you can do now is get her the help she needs if she is pregnate. If she is not get her on birth control because she will be SEXUALY ACTIVE. Don't go crying RAPE if it wasn't.
TSM

Corpus Christi, TX

#12 Jan 7, 2008
YALL SHOULD GET A LIFE BITCHES...
jzr

Great Cacapon, WV

#13 Jan 10, 2008
I just found out my 16 yr. old daughter had sex with her boyfriend, what do i do? what should i say? I've already exploded...
Betty boop

United States

#14 Feb 28, 2008
What were you doing at her age and what would have helped you ????
Betty boop

United States

#15 Feb 28, 2008
It is not about you and how you feel it is about her and what you can do to make her feel loved. She is searching for someone to love her and if you turn against her now you will really lose control of the situation!!!
Mom catches daughter

United States

#16 Apr 28, 2008
My 18 yr old virgin daughter and 22 yr old son are living in my home; I told my daughter all her life, no boys in her bedroom and no boys/men in my house if I'm not home.
She did not listen and this morning I walked in on my naked daughter and the b/f hiding in the shower(who snuck in and spent the night). This guy is a BIG LOSER!! He is living with his father, grandfather, uncle and a two other people, has no job - won't look for work, etc.etc.etc. I told my daughter she has 30 days to pack her shit and get out. Did I go overboard? Anyone else have this experience, if so, what did you do?
Thankx
this guy here

Benavides, TX

#17 Jun 11, 2008
If they are having sex, then you have to find out if she did it to her will and not just the guy's will. If it was her will, then you shouldn't press charges, but I do suggest you ground your daughter harshly for disobeying and keep a closer eye on her. But, most important don't stop talking to her. The minute you stop talking to her, it gets worse. And don't yell, even if she yells, keep the conversation calm, or else you will get no where.

Speaking from experience, they only need to be talked to. And if the guy is young, and after the grounding, and they are still hanging around. You might as well get to know the guy a little bit, because he could be hanging around.

Hope this helps.
amy

Austin, TX

#18 Jun 16, 2008
maybe you guys should have been a little more involved in these kid's lives before they started having sex at 15 or 16 years old! These kids have to have something in their lives or they will sleep with everyone!! Life sucks in Corpus and there is nothing to do and nothing to strive for. Making the kids feel worthy of working towards something or letting them know you care is a big thing. They need to understand the consequences to their actions.
anonymous

AOL

#19 Jul 15, 2008
My daugther is only 11 years old. First of all I cant believe that Im writing this. I just found out today that one of the neighborhood kids whois only 11 years old and goes to her school. Tried to force himself in her. My daughter is 11 but has the mentality of an 8 yr old. This supposedly h appened in the backyard. You worry about pedophoiles hurtin your kids but not your friends.. Now my daughter ahs decided to be op en and honest with me and I dont want to ruin that. I assured her she wasnt in trouble . Is there any way to bring legal action against this boy. last summer he showed my both my kids a porn at his house and when I fo und out I hit the ceiling.. This kid is allowed to run the neighborhood I had banned him from my house so reawlly not sure on what to do.. I have done everything I thought I could do as a parent to teach right fron wrong ...Any advice... I feel like I ahve failed her somehow.
nunya

Iselin, NJ

#20 Sep 2, 2008
that is just wrong i kick the kids fathers ass for rasing him like that and trying to do that stuff to your kids where did he get the porn anyway and what his mother say he sick
Mom

Corpus Christi, TX

#21 Sep 4, 2008
It depends on the boy's age. If he is 18 are older, press charges.

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