need advice please
deery lou

United States

#1 Dec 27, 2012
I was with him for over a year off and on and now we have a beautiful sweet 3 month old son together. We had our own place for a few months too short of a time when he begin doing the pills and tripping on them again. One morning we had a bad fight and police were called and he got banned from ever coming back there. He had to pack up and move 3 hours away from me and his son. At first he told me he was never coming back again and he didn't want to stay in contact with me. Then he did want to try and work it out even though we were separated. A few days start to go by and he wouldn't answer my calls or texts. Then one morning I wake up to a text from him that read he was taking me to court for full custody of our son and that he already has a new gf and she is willing to help him out on this. I was completely shattered. I panicked knowing I've lost him. I began to call and text him much more sending him pics of the baby and me and even video calls were made yet nothing no text back from him at all. Then it got really bad he began replying to me with very hateful words like calling me a cu*t and a bi**h. Has told me to go and fuc**ng die. Rubbed in my face that he has slept with his new gf and even sent me a pic of the two of them. I really just feel like dying I'm Sorry but my heart is so heavy it hurts. It's becoming more and more unbearable everyday. To end this last night he told me he didn't hate me and that he couldn't talk to me because I had messed with his emotions. And then when he found out I had talked to his best friend for 21 years about what to do regarding the situation he got even more hateful and again told me to go die. What do I do? Please?

Tulsa, OK

#2 Jan 1, 2013
It sounds like you are trying to do right for your son. My advice is to keep taking care of your son, it doesnt sound like you have anything to worry about as far as custody issues. He doesnt support or help train up the son that he has with you. I wouldnt accept calls from him if he doesnt respect you. Hes not even intrested in helping. He just doesnt want his new gf to kno hes a loser so hes pretending to care and prob making up things to make you look like the bad one. You need people around you who care ab your and your son's well-being. Try to find a good church to help you get the strength to raise up your son right.

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