terry morgan

[whotheheck]

who is the big girl he has been seen with all the time? he has downgraded. she is always trashed and could use a brush on them nappy roots. hear he has an abusive problem. ole' girl better watch herself. evidentally she is lacking selfesteem in a huge way. i can tell they have some similar traits, lol. just curious if anyone knows either of the two?

[well]

well well I just wonder who this could be??? I think I have heard someone asking these exact questions before!! Leave it alone. He is not with you anymore so why is what he is doing or who he is doing any of your business???

[whotheheck]

well wrote:

well well I just wonder who this could be??? I think I have heard someone asking these exact questions before!! Leave it alone. He is not with you anymore so why is what he is doing or who he is doing any of your business???

fyi "friend", i am male and i do not believe you have EVER heard me ask this question before. i do believe if someone had left him, they would not be worried about who or what he was doing. i certainly dont care about what my ex's are doing, so that was a stupid comment. i would assume they made the right choice and left his a**. i was just wondering if anyone knew of these two people.

[whotheheck]

well wrote:

well well I just wonder who this could be??? I think I have heard someone asking these exact questions before!! Leave it alone. He is not with you anymore so why is what he is doing or who he is doing any of your business???

let me ask again, just wondering if anyone knew them? i do not believe i was ever inquisitive about WHAT they are doing or WHY he is with her. simple question from a simple guy, sorry.

[From one that knows]

Yeah, I knew him. You are right, he does have an abusive nature. I don't know who he is with, or what he is doing these days, because I got out while the getting was good, and really don't care how he finds his happiness these days. Usually, it's in a bottle though. All of his friends probably think he is a really cool guy that really has it going on. So many facts they don't have a clue about when it really comes to knowing him. He is one person in public, and a total other person alone, one and one. Whoever she is, she will discover that soon enough. If she has a self esteem issue, no doubt he is building her up. But it won't be long, before he is tearing her down and telling her how horrible she is (to make him feel better about himself) and spreading it to his friends at the same time. This seems to be a common practice for him. I guess it helps him keep his head high, making everyone think, she has problems and he left her. When in truth, it wasn't the woman that he was with "in some cases" that was the problem. I've seen it personally. He has real issues and doesn't take the blame for anything. He clings to people that make him feel "big" rather than listen to someone that really cares. It's his choice, so I say let him be. Eventually, it will all catch up to him. He has already basically ran off anyone that ever truly cared for him. He prefers to hear "good things" rather than the truth. Last I saw of him, he still had his head stuck in the sand.

As for the other person who posted. How in the world would you "think" you know who made the original post? He has gone through so many women, it could be half the population of Missouri.(See, his friends DON'T know everything about him) That would be like picking the needle out of the haystack, guessing one of them would post here. Give me a break!

[well said]

From one that knows wrote:

Yeah, I knew him. You are right, he does have an abusive nature. I don't know who he is with, or what he is doing these days, because I got out while the getting was good, and really don't care how he finds his happiness these days. Usually, it's in a bottle though. All of his friends probably think he is a really cool guy that really has it going on. So many facts they don't have a clue about when it really comes to knowing him. He is one person in public, and a total other person alone, one and one. Whoever she is, she will discover that soon enough. If she has a self esteem issue, no doubt he is building her up. But it won't be long, before he is tearing her down and telling her how horrible she is (to make him feel better about himself) and spreading it to his friends at the same time. This seems to be a common practice for him. I guess it helps him keep his head high, making everyone think, she has problems and he left her. When in truth, it wasn't the woman that he was with "in some cases" that was the problem. I've seen it personally. He has real issues and doesn't take the blame for anything. He clings to people that make him feel "big" rather than listen to someone that really cares. It's his choice, so I say let him be. Eventually, it will all catch up to him. He has already basically ran off anyone that ever truly cared for him. He prefers to hear "good things" rather than the truth. Last I saw of him, he still had his head stuck in the sand.
As for the other person who posted. How in the world would you "think" you know who made the original post? He has gone through so many women, it could be half the population of Missouri.(See, his friends DON'T know everything about him) That would be like picking the needle out of the haystack, guessing one of them would post here. Give me a break!

sounds like you have your ducks in a row now. good for you!! sorry you had to go thru the torment of that man. noone deserves that treatment. i also agree about someone THINKING they know who started this..lol. out of a ga-zillion people that get on topix..geeze!! get real!! if someone is missing or wanting him back...they have serious problems!!

[guest]

Topix = gaggle of tongue waggars. This thread living proof there of. LOL

[guest]

does he drive a big rig for some company? tall and slender and from charleston?

[yes]

guest wrote:

does he drive a big rig for some company? tall and slender and from charleston?

well, last i knew he was hauling gas. tall, skinny, grey headed.

[lol]

guest wrote:

Topix = gaggle of tongue waggars. This thread living proof there of. LOL

awee...he has ONE fan! LMAO

[well]

the whotheheck.... ok i can say i am sorry for assuming that you were someone else. the person that i thought it was has asked the same questions ans made the same comments to many people as if she was any better for Terry than the one he is with now. Yes Terry has his faults and has done wrong but this still does not give anyone a reason to down the one that has chose to be with him now, maybe she can change him for the better!! good luck with that. but again whotheheck, my mistake

[From one that knows]

well wrote:

the whotheheck.... ok i can say i am sorry for assuming that you were someone else. the person that i thought it was has asked the same questions ans made the same comments to many people as if she was any better for Terry than the one he is with now. Yes Terry has his faults and has done wrong but this still does not give anyone a reason to down the one that has chose to be with him now, maybe she can change him for the better!! good luck with that. but again whotheheck, my mistake

"she is always trashed".. according to the first post. Terry doesn't want to change. That's his words, not mine. He LIKES who he is according to him. Not knowing the woman and never seeing this, it does sound to possibly be correct, because that is the environment he thrives in. Worst thing anyone can do is get into a relationship and "expect that person to change." He is in his mid forties, he is what he is, and the only reason anyone should change is for themselves, not because of someone. I've seen him try. So have others, and when he can't do it, he reminds himself of how much he likes the way he is. I hope she figures it out in time and makes changes for herself and realizes the attention he showers her with now, will come at a high price later. I say good luck to them both.

[From one that knows]

One last thing, and then I will post no more. For someone like Terry, I will say this. "If they could ever wake up and see how much they hurt the ones that really care about them, by their actions, they may have a chance to change. But, they usually excuse away everything and make personal resolutions as to why things happen, failing to ever take the blame." Maybe reading the way others think about him will cause him to stop and think. Probably not, but, if even one post on topix could cause that, then maybe it's a good thing. I never write to trash someone, we all have our faults. His just seem to involve and hurt the people that care the most about him. Even whotheheck admits it to some degree. You can't care about someone and sit back and watch them keep doing wrong, without feeling something, if that's the case, then you are not a true friend.
That's all I have to say about this.

[wondering]

well wrote:

the whotheheck.... ok i can say i am sorry for assuming that you were someone else. the person that i thought it was has asked the same questions ans made the same comments to many people as if she was any better for Terry than the one he is with now. Yes Terry has his faults and has done wrong but this still does not give anyone a reason to down the one that has chose to be with him now, maybe she can change him for the better!! good luck with that. but again whotheheck, my mistake

because the last one i knew him to be with was too good for him, so im not sure who you would be referring to. the last one tried her dangdest to make things work, but again, like someone else stated..he puts it all off on other people. im sure if you are his friend, it was all her fault. two sides to every story! she was easy on the eyes also. dont know what she was thinking with him. she has a great man now and a very happy life. doesn't have to deal with bs anymore. sorry, but sometimes you need to look at the whole picture there. doesnt bother her anymore, heck she has spoke to his new "love" now. she is just the type of person no matter what someone has done, she has a forgiving heart, i guess. i cant say that i would!

[amber]

well wrote:

the whotheheck.... ok i can say i am sorry for assuming that you were someone else. the person that i thought it was has asked the same questions ans made the same comments to many people as if she was any better for Terry than the one he is with now. Yes Terry has his faults and has done wrong but this still does not give anyone a reason to down the one that has chose to be with him now, maybe she can change him for the better!! good luck with that. but again whotheheck, my mistake

go there by assuming the last one he was with was not a good person. well, if it was the last girl i knew of, because she is an extremely awesome person that got suckered in. dont go there. btw, where is YOUR name? funny how people hide behind a fake name.
u evidentally didn't know her very well, so i would not talk about things u know nothing about! i know nothing of michelle, just from seeing them out all the time together. if he is happy, good. best of luck. please dont drag someone else into it, that is innocent.

[i know u didnt]

well wrote:

the whotheheck.... ok i can say i am sorry for assuming that you were someone else. the person that i thought it was has asked the same questions ans made the same comments to many people as if she was any better for Terry than the one he is with now. Yes Terry has his faults and has done wrong but this still does not give anyone a reason to down the one that has chose to be with him now, maybe she can change him for the better!! good luck with that. but again whotheheck, my mistake

try and say the last one (which could be wide variety-take your pick) was not any better! LOL fyi, just because someone asks these questions, doesn't mean they think they are any better. just means they are being inquisitive. have you not ever asked questions about any one of your x's in the past? your post was stupid from the get-go!

[an old old friend]

Dang terry looks people have figured you out over in sikeston too !!shoulda done everybody a favor n moved to columbia with your brother phil.That way ya'll could drink/drug n abuse women together away from your home town.

[an old old friend]

old town as in charleston just like ur brother phil use to beat sue on a daily

[an old old friend]

WOW ! I read this more closely and you do know him very,very well. Doesn't take long to figure him out does it??by the way i should have posted as an old old X-friend

From one that knows wrote:

Yeah, I knew him. You are right, he does have an abusive nature. I don't know who he is with, or what he is doing these days, because I got out while the getting was good, and really don't care how he finds his happiness these days. Usually, it's in a bottle though. All of his friends probably think he is a really cool guy that really has it going on. So many facts they don't have a clue about when it really comes to knowing him. He is one person in public, and a total other person alone, one and one. Whoever she is, she will discover that soon enough. If she has a self esteem issue, no doubt he is building her up. But it won't be long, before he is tearing her down and telling her how horrible she is (to make him feel better about himself) and spreading it to his friends at the same time. This seems to be a common practice for him. I guess it helps him keep his head high, making everyone think, she has problems and he left her. When in truth, it wasn't the woman that he was with "in some cases" that was the problem. I've seen it personally. He has real issues and doesn't take the blame for anything. He clings to people that make him feel "big" rather than listen to someone that really cares. It's his choice, so I say let him be. Eventually, it will all catch up to him. He has already basically ran off anyone that ever truly cared for him. He prefers to hear "good things" rather than the truth. Last I saw of him, he still had his head stuck in the sand.
As for the other person who posted. How in the world would you "think" you know who made the original post? He has gone through so many women, it could be half the population of Missouri.(See, his friends DON'T know everything about him) That would be like picking the needle out of the haystack, guessing one of them would post here. Give me a break!

[HMMM]

an old old friend wrote:

old town as in charleston just like ur brother phil use to beat sue on a daily

didn't know phil was like this. it is sad. evidentally runs in the family. how pitiful!