child support & lazy females

child support & lazy females

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HARD WORKING HU5TLER

United States

#1 Feb 11, 2013
Why is if that the state of Missouri has court order child support but don't give visitation rights? More like they giving the parent who has the child the option 2 keep the child from the other parent even tho he or she might be paying child support!
I Agree

Jackson, MO

#2 Feb 11, 2013
I know alot of females that do that. The fathers child support is nothing but extra money for them to go tan and go to bars on. They dont spend the money on the children and theres not a damn thing you can do about it. They use the kids against the fathers and the relationship between the father and child is broken. I think the state should withold child support if thr mother denies visitation. After all its suppose to be about the child.
Pro 5

Clearwater, FL

#3 Feb 12, 2013
I Agree wrote:
I know alot of females that do that. The fathers child support is nothing but extra money for them to go tan and go to bars on. They dont spend the money on the children and theres not a damn thing you can do about it. They use the kids against the fathers and the relationship between the father and child is broken. I think the state should withold child support if thr mother denies visitation. After all its suppose to be about the child.
Been through it. As a father paying child support, I recommend u hire an attorney for visitation and to fight for you on modification hearings. If not, the state screws you on every situation. Just saying. Wish I knew them what I know now.
Guest

Farmington, MO

#4 Feb 12, 2013
Well I receive child support my child goes to her fathers and he has nothing to do with her! So she is the one who decided to stop going that is his fault! She is of age to decide! He will continue to pay support he is the one who chooses not to do anything with her not me!
topia
#5 Feb 12, 2013
There wouldnt even have to be child support if the fathers did their part in raising the child in the first place. And yes, their are moms who dont use the money for what its intended use. But the majority of them actually do spend it on the child. Food, clothing nd shelter is very exspensive these days. Both parents need to work together for the benefit of the child.
salt

Advance, MO

#6 Feb 12, 2013
topia wrote:
There wouldnt even have to be child support if the fathers did their part in raising the child in the first place. And yes, their are moms who dont use the money for what its intended use. But the majority of them actually do spend it on the child. Food, clothing nd shelter is very exspensive these days. Both parents need to work together for the benefit of the child.
well does deadbeat mothers who dont have their children pay the dads child support some even give the children to their parent and that parent did not even raise her own just another way to get a government check for the grandparent
topia
#7 Feb 12, 2013
@salt: I did say their are moms who abuse the child support. And putting your child on grandparents to raise is even worse. Its not always about the money, who is better fit to raise the child. Mom or dad can do it. But the non custodial parent needs to help too. Work together nd everybody is happy. Most of all the child will see that you both are getting along. Stability is the key!!
topia
#8 Feb 12, 2013
Truly, if the man doesnt want to pay, he isnt. He will even go to jail, get out, and still not pay. I personally would never put my child off on the dad if he doesnt want to be apart of the childs upbringing. That is that man's loss. And he\she is a total loser. God dont like ugly. He\she will be judged on their final day.
Been There

Saint Louis, MO

#9 Feb 13, 2013
Why do the states make the father support the child and the mother does not have to. She is on welfare a good part of the time and contributes nothing to the child. Some even take food or medicine from the mouths of their children. Many have married now and the so called new fathers want the name but still use the real fathers money to support the child because he is unable or refuses to. If you dont want the real father to be a part of your childs life then let the new so called father take care of them financially if he is able. IF he wants the credit let him take the finanial credit also.
HAHA

Dexter, MO

#10 Feb 13, 2013
If the so called man, father of the child doesn't want to pay. Doesn't know the meaning of being a Daddy and the other man, THE DADDY, the only Daddy the child knows does support the child then sign over your rights and I'm sure the mother would gladly ask for the payments to be stopped. Payments that are only made to keep out of jail. Payments that are not even close to what should be paid because the bio father is a liar and lied about employment. Payments that are taken and I'm sure gladly spent on the child or when not needed put in savings for later years.. So if you don't see your child, even though the option is there has been just not the idea you had in mind so you say oh well.. Well now the child has no clue who you are and wouldn't if they passed you in a store somewhere.. Give it up! Do what is right by the child and move the hell on! Don't be in and out in and out which most mothers will fight till the biter end to prevent a pos messing with the little ones head.. but if you are really that big of a pos and care about only you the take her to court but I bet you LOSE!!!!!
blah

United States

#11 Feb 13, 2013
HAHA wrote:
If the so called man, father of the child doesn't want to pay. Doesn't know the meaning of being a Daddy and the other man, THE DADDY, the only Daddy the child knows does support the child then sign over your rights and I'm sure the mother would gladly ask for the payments to be stopped. Payments that are only made to keep out of jail. Payments that are not even close to what should be paid because the bio father is a liar and lied about employment. Payments that are taken and I'm sure gladly spent on the child or when not needed put in savings for later years.. So if you don't see your child, even though the option is there has been just not the idea you had in mind so you say oh well.. Well now the child has no clue who you are and wouldn't if they passed you in a store somewhere.. Give it up! Do what is right by the child and move the hell on! Don't be in and out in and out which most mothers will fight till the biter end to prevent a pos messing with the little ones head.. but if you are really that big of a pos and care about only you the take her to court but I bet you LOSE!!!!!
Or maybe the child's mom is a self centered twat that lies about everything including employment, marital status and even where she lives. Maybe, she should have let the kid see the daddy long ago if she is so worried about it now. Why sign his rights over if he wants to be part of the childs life let him. You have no choice when he takes you to court and gets joint custody. Get a life you're blowing smoke up the wrong persons ass.
Well

Mexico, MO

#12 Feb 13, 2013
Sounds to me ur a bitter lady who is mad because she doesn't get dat check. Call him have him voluntarily signs rights away if u don't want him around but for gods sake quit whining and do something about it. At the end if the day I think alot of women use childsupport and the system rather it be for a check or a way to have leverage but kids grow up and see the truth for themselves . As said before got a prob take it to CORT
Been There

Saint Louis, MO

#13 Feb 13, 2013
HAHA wrote:
If the so called man, father of the child doesn't want to pay. Doesn't know the meaning of being a Daddy and the other man, THE DADDY, the only Daddy the child knows does support the child then sign over your rights and I'm sure the mother would gladly ask for the payments to be stopped. Payments that are only made to keep out of jail. Payments that are not even close to what should be paid because the bio father is a liar and lied about employment. Payments that are taken and I'm sure gladly spent on the child or when not needed put in savings for later years.. So if you don't see your child, even though the option is there has been just not the idea you had in mind so you say oh well.. Well now the child has no clue who you are and wouldn't if they passed you in a store somewhere.. Give it up! Do what is right by the child and move the hell on! Don't be in and out in and out which most mothers will fight till the biter end to prevent a pos messing with the little ones head.. but if you are really that big of a pos and care about only you the take her to court but I bet you LOSE!!!!!
No, the mother was a ho that did not even know who the daddy was until she was about 4 when welfare started making her name all the donors. He has paid child support since finding out but the mom refuses to let him see the child. She has since married but they want the child support but also wants everyone to think he is just the perfect new daddy. If he was a man he would not want the money. One day hey are going to get a big surprise in the mail in the way of a letter from a lawyer with visitation rights demanded. I wont lose aleady talked to the lawyer and I will be granted rights.
Saint Louis

Saint Louis, MO

#14 Feb 13, 2013
Some states do require Mothers to pay support. I know some women who have to pay.
Agree

Jackson, MO

#15 Feb 13, 2013
Been There wrote:
<quoted text>No, the mother was a ho that did not even know who the daddy was until she was about 4 when welfare started making her name all the donors. He has paid child support since finding out but the mom refuses to let him see the child. She has since married but they want the child support but also wants everyone to think he is just the perfect new daddy. If he was a man he would not want the money. One day hey are going to get a big surprise in the mail in the way of a letter from a lawyer with visitation rights demanded. I wont lose aleady talked to the lawyer and I will be granted rights.
Absolutely,a man who wants to fill the bio childs dad shoes,should not accept support from bio dad. Exception being***Every penny of support from bio dad be put in a college fund for child. Furthermore this fund shall not be available to parent or child until childs 18th B/D.This dont settle all the problems however,its a start.
sooo

United States

#16 Feb 20, 2013
You people are saying that just because somebody gets divorced or whatever and the mother remarries then that should free the biological father of financial responsibilities to his children??? That makes no damn sense. But considering you all think signing over rights keeps somebody from paying child support its obvious y'all aren't too educated about this subject anyway.
topia
#17 Feb 20, 2013
The minute that kid turns 18 then the daddy wants to be apart of their life. What a jerk. That kid can now tell you actually what they think of you for not being around. Its not always about the almighty dollar. Kids deserve so much better.
Actually

Mexico, MO

#18 Feb 21, 2013
sooo wrote:
You people are saying that just because somebody gets divorced or whatever and the mother remarries then that should free the biological father of financial responsibilities to his children??? That makes no damn sense. But considering you all think signing over rights keeps somebody from paying child support its obvious y'all aren't too educated about this subject anyway.
when you terminate rights that includes financial responsibility with the exception if the back child support already owed.
topia
#19 Feb 21, 2013
Never asked the father of my child for one dime. And he sure as hell didnt offer anything to give either. Thats why when he runs into her in public, he can hardly speak words. The guilt is killing him now, and he cant handle it.
huum

United States

#20 Feb 21, 2013
I think if u equally put n on the child/children u should equally support them any means nesisary no matter how if the the other parent not duin rite with the money handle it legally or if the child is being took good care of then pay cd cuz I have four kids the little vs u get ain't nothing realt but one child sum shoes or sum like that but a parenty is everyday c period

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