Child Support over 21,000.00

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Antonio Lightly of NJ

Sicklerville, NJ

#1 Apr 8, 2013
Why haven't you done your part as a father? You had millions of chances and you blew every single one of them away. You got certified mail. I hope you report and if you don't you will pay either way like it or not. You might be a deadbeat, a has been and a never was but you are going to be paying this until the world ends. You created your own debt and it's time for you to step up and be a man for at least one of your many kids.

You had your fun, you had your time now it's time for you to pay every single cent you owe.

You will be arrested if you fail to appear in court and answer this complaint sign sealed and delivered to your mailbox.

You can NOT avoid it. You can't deny it. You have NO excuses in this matter and it's sad how you left all your kids to suffer.

A real dad(father) would have sent a recycles piece of paper for a birthday card for their child. You reap what you sow. You made your bed now sleep in it and deal with like a REAL man and take care of the debt damage you created.

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Antonio Lightly deadbeat

Sicklerville, NJ

#2 Apr 8, 2013
Pay up or go to jail and do not pass go and do not collect 200.00

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Heather to Patty

Hillsborough, NJ

#3 Apr 8, 2013
I am in child support debt the same amount.......why do men think they have options we do not have? BTW Tony won't answer this...if he even bothers to read it........he yells at me if I mention it

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Patricia to Heather

Sicklerville, NJ

#4 Apr 9, 2013
I hear what your saying but he has no choice, he will have to answer to the judge in court and if he fails to report to court he will be locked up. Also, whether he shows up or not the child support will be increased and taken out his check automatically. I am not playing games especially when it comes to our son.

With all due respect, Tony had 21 years to get his act together, to be frank here (blunt) he still has not got his life together and sadly to say he never will.

Granted our son is 21 now but I sill support him, with college expenses, and everything he needs. I'm a good mother and I always take care of my kids. I would never treat my kids the way he treats his own.

The fact of the matter is we have a son and he needs to step up and do what's right and needed.

We are not getting any younger here and it costs money taking care of kids. Just because our son is 21 does not mean Tony and I are done as parents.

The 21,000.00 debt would have never happened if Tony was working and reporting his income when he did.

I am not doing anything wrong here. This is not personal it's about our son and that's it.

So like I said the court date has already been set up and if he fails to report it's totally out of my hands. No pun intended on him.

Now what really bothers me about him is how he recently tried to jeopardize my freedom by making several phone calls to my PO. That was not cool. especially since our son lives with me and I support him 150%.

It's wrong of him to do what he has done to me and our son. Honestly Heather I don't know how he sleeps at night knowing all these facts.

Well I have to go. It's time for him to buckle down. He had plenty of time to get his child support caught up.

I do not care what excuses he will come up with either. I'm done talking to him and unfortunately so is our son.

Take care of yourself and your kids

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Gordon

Norristown, PA

#5 Apr 20, 2013
You ladies make me sick. My ex wife owes over 30k in back child support going all the way back to 2002. She's been in and out of jail for drug and child support offenses. So the fact you continue to bash "men" for "not being fathers", it's not just deadbeat fathers, but also mothers too.

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At Gordon

Sicklerville, NJ

#6 May 2, 2013
Gordon wrote:
You ladies make me sick. My ex wife owes over 30k in back child support going all the way back to 2002. She's been in and out of jail for drug and child support offenses. So the fact you continue to bash "men" for "not being fathers", it's not just deadbeat fathers, but also mothers too.
Shut the heck up who asked you for your stinking two cent opinion? I never said all men are deadbeats, read it again it's in PLAIN ENGLISH!!

I am a woman of true words and I have spoken shut up!

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whomever

Sicklerville, NJ

#7 May 3, 2013
Gordon wrote:
You ladies make me sick.
Ladies? It's obviously just one lone bimbo talking to herself.

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Now Absolutely hysterical

Maple Shade, NJ

#8 May 3, 2013
Even "whomever" is from Clementon..........This is a multi-personality spazoid I think.....Actually not a funny thing!

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Antonio Lightly

Maple Shade, NJ

#9 May 10, 2013
Patricia, Shut up! Why would I pay child support to you while you were incarcerated?????????? and before that V.G. had him, I only owe her. Just shut up!

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Antonio Lightly

Gloucester City, NJ

#13 Jun 1, 2013
I didn't have my day in court because you had papers served at an non-existing address....now Patty, you got mail ..... Have a Lucky DaY!

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Hetty to patty

Gloucester City, NJ

#16 Oct 28, 2013
my daughters dad owes 17.5 and she is 6.... not 31 stop crying

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“Why am I here?”

Since: Jul 14

Salinas, CA

#17 Aug 20, 2014
As much as I enjoy watching a crazy bitch talk to herself via forums..this is just ridiculous.
Listening in

Gloucester City, NJ

#19 Sep 22, 2014
you CRACK me up
To Antonio Lightly

Voorhees, NJ

#20 Oct 1, 2014
Everyone needs to get a life because Patty "Patricia" had a child support court order on Antonio back in 2002 and Antonio was working at the time in Atlantic City. He failed to report income and failed to pay child support. Patty is not white trash all these comments about her are straight bullshit. Antonio took a gun from a police officer and beat him up and served time in prison and used to write Patty and cried in all his letter like a bitch. He is paying her child support that come right out his Social Security Check your facts people he owes her. Se did raise her son and Antonio was never there deadbeat. Heather tried to get her locked up by calling her parole officer and Patty took Heather to court and Heather acted like she did not know what was going on. So who is the stupid ass now. Keep Patty out your mouth
Listening in

Gloucester City, NJ

#21 Oct 6, 2014
To Antonio Lightly wrote:
Everyone needs to get a life because Patty "Patricia" had a child support court order on Antonio back in 2002 and Antonio was working at the time in Atlantic City. He failed to report income and failed to pay child support. Patty is not white trash all these comments about her are straight bullshit. Antonio took a gun from a police officer and beat him up and served time in prison and used to write Patty and cried in all his letter like a bitch. He is paying her child support that come right out his Social Security Check your facts people he owes her. Se did raise her son and Antonio was never there deadbeat. Heather tried to get her locked up by calling her parole officer and Patty took Heather to court and Heather acted like she did not know what was going on. So who is the stupid ass now. Keep Patty out your mouth
As soon as you keep your hacking zzz outta my pc and my ip address, i will stop bothering you too
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Gloucester City, NJ

#22 Oct 6, 2014
Listening in wrote:
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As soon as you keep your hacking zzz outta my pc and my ip address, i will stop bothering you too
tony doesn't owe you, he owes your mom, cuz u dnt raise your offspring....and u act like tony is such an ass for not being there for Chris, but lets face it (altho I don't condone it) a slut tag teamed and got preg at 16!!!! tony wasn't mature snuff to handle that!

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