I hear what your saying but he has no choice, he will have to answer to the judge in court and if he fails to report to court he will be locked up. Also, whether he shows up or not the child support will be increased and taken out his check automatically. I am not playing games especially when it comes to our son.
With all due respect, Tony had 21 years to get his act together, to be frank here (blunt) he still has not got his life together and sadly to say he never will.
Granted our son is 21 now but I sill support him, with college expenses, and everything he needs. I'm a good mother and I always take care of my kids. I would never treat my kids the way he treats his own.
The fact of the matter is we have a son and he needs to step up and do what's right and needed.
We are not getting any younger here and it costs money taking care of kids. Just because our son is 21 does not mean Tony and I are done as parents.
The 21,000.00 debt would have never happened if Tony was working and reporting his income when he did.
I am not doing anything wrong here. This is not personal it's about our son and that's it.
So like I said the court date has already been set up and if he fails to report it's totally out of my hands. No pun intended on him.
Now what really bothers me about him is how he recently tried to jeopardize my freedom by making several phone calls to my PO. That was not cool. especially since our son lives with me and I support him 150%.
It's wrong of him to do what he has done to me and our son. Honestly Heather I don't know how he sleeps at night knowing all these facts.
Well I have to go. It's time for him to buckle down. He had plenty of time to get his child support caught up.
I do not care what excuses he will come up with either. I'm done talking to him and unfortunately so is our son.
Take care of yourself and your kids