yesitsL

Shrewsbury, MA

#81 Dec 27, 2012
oh eli, I have my man in mind already honey. xo
lynda

Shrewsbury, MA

#82 Dec 31, 2012
f that was a hot story. Please lord let me experience that soon.
big fan

Shrewsbury, MA

#83 Jan 17, 2013
great story, believeable, even achievable.
bite me

Dallas, TX

#84 Jan 20, 2013
big fan wrote:
great story, believeable, even achievable.
how many names have you posted under in this forum?
what the hell is wrong with you?
Unsexed

Chicopee, MA

#85 Jan 22, 2013
4ULLou wrote:
Hello Friend, I hope you find this advice of help, I sure did. A sexy mature women like yourself trapped in a sexless marriage is a shame. It does not have to be so. Things are not always black and white, this is a truly grey area. If he can not or simply does not want to provide you what you still desire what's a girl to do. Leave him? If he's a jerk then yes. If he's a decent person who's good to you, not so easy. He wants companionship, you may be all he has. Continue to be that companion, that is the decent thing to do. However, your whole life you have done for others, just because that will continue does not mean you cannot also finally do for yourself! An open marriage? No. That is not the route for you, too public, to in his face, probably hurtful to even suggest. This is not a public decision for you, the bar scene or craigslist is not an option. Your husband may actually understand and want this for you but why do that to him, he does not need to know, spare his feelings. You should consider finding yourself a "Friend With Benefits". Look it up on line for further explaination. You may already have someone in mind, trust me someone has you in mind! Think of your life, your circles, your routine. Chances are there are between 1 to 3 men who may fit the bill. A man you trust, have access to, and most importantly are attracted to. Statistics say one of the three will be interested for sure, one is most likely, and the other probably would but will find a reason to decline although he would be honored and secretive. Narrow it down and trust your instincts. Ever flirted even teased, exchanged that look? If ever even once you had that though, that one of those moments occured, that man is the one. If you were not the one who initiated, it is your turn, do not be scared, you only live once. He will reciprocate. Let me share my story as an example that you can copy or alter, I hope you do, he hopes you do as well.
I am 54 and he is 39, he is a neighbors son that I have known since he was 19. We always flirted a bit, exchanged those glances etc., very hot. He would walk over to borrow then return things, always just after my husband would leave. He still visits and helps his mom often and still pays me his visit on occasion. Finally one day while unloading groceries I caught him checking me out while bending over. He walked to me and smiled, said "caught". Then offered to help me carry them in. My luck, up the street comes my husbands car. God I wonder what would have happened once inside. Drove me crazy thinking of it. A month went by and every minute was spent wanting to recreate that moment. So ladies, I took some initiative. I called him over to help remove a limb from my roof, actually a twig I tossed there. When he came I was in my robe tightly wrapped as I "forgot" he was coming. It took him maybe 30 second to remove the "limb". When he came in I had a beer for him and the robe had loosened considerably. I said, thanks for doing that for me otherwise I may have had to of waited for a slight breeze to do it. He said he was glad I hadn't because he had waited long enough to do this, and with that he leaned in to me and kissed me as he slid his hand beneath my robe. That was the most amazing afternoon of my life. I am finally living for me! His mom would be devestated which is why we both know we can trust each other competely, the pefect scenerio. No one gets hurt. It can happen. make it happen for you. All the best!
What an amazing story. And what lucky guy. It has been a year. Is this still the arrangement?
eli

North Grafton, MA

#86 Jan 23, 2013
SO you have him in mind. Why not just go get him. The previous writer is right, it's been a year. Jump on in, the water's fine....and the clck's ticking...
lindy

Shrewsbury, MA

#87 Feb 1, 2013
that clocks ticking for sure, soon, god please soon.
gooforyou

Shrewsbury, MA

#88 Mar 25, 2013
lindy, much gooforyou.
haveher

Shrewsbury, MA

#90 Apr 12, 2013
thinking my wife wrote this, if so, I;ll gladly sign your permission slip...
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaa t

Shrewsbury, MA

#91 Apr 25, 2013
hmmmmmmm, fantasy or reality,one wonders, doesn't care just wonders, as was a very hot read, just wonders. :)
Carlotta shalow

Lowell, MA

#92 Apr 29, 2013
Your a middle aged woman. If your over weight too, then Face it, no guy wants you for sex now. So find other ways to attract Him now. Like being faithfull, being appreciative of all the things he's given you over the years. the children, the house, etc. If you want to be a whore, then divorce him, and go for it. Fat , lazy and ungrateful aren't attractive qualities. I'm not surprised he gets a limp dick when he looks at you. Deal more with reality, and you'll be happier.
Carlotta

Lowell, MA

#93 Apr 29, 2013
I thought marriage was a sacred institution. Maybe Gays should be given the right to get married. Maybe they'd do a better job at being faithful than straight people do.
linder

Shrewsbury, MA

#94 May 6, 2013
i have to say i love this site. Very sexy and helpful. there is still hope.
heyCarlotta

Shrewsbury, MA

#96 Jul 2, 2013
that your back door way of coming out?

“NOT RUSSIAN”

Since: May 08

and not from Russia

#97 Jul 5, 2013
It's pointless to get/be involved with anyone when you don't have a sex drive.

My problems are solved, in my opinion. I have yet to have a relationship that lasted more than 4 years, and considering that pple are only becoming bigger assholes every day in this world, it's safe to say I'm permenantly out of the relationship market. I'd rather be alone than be with someone for the sake of being with them. THAT is what I call 'wearing a raincoat in the shower'.

“NOT RUSSIAN”

Since: May 08

and not from Russia

#98 Jul 5, 2013
As far as FWB is concerned, that kind of behavior always left me feeling cheap and sleazy, simply because I have more respect for myself.
I generally refuse to f^ck anyone I don't have every intention of being in a deep, exclusive and monogomous relationship. Doing so is not unlike giving a good spin of the toilet paper roll after a nice huge morning dump. Meaningless.
And trust me, I get a better orgasm alone. No guesswork in that one, and does the trick perfectly.
Sarah

Wokingham, UK

#99 Sep 9, 2013
I am trapped in a sexless marriage for nearly 13 years. I guess my sex drive was always higher than his however, he doesnt mind doing it via internet chat rooms behind my back which has damaged our relationship completely. Now we would have sex every 2 or 3 month because of course i cant compete with porn stars and fantasy creatures on the internet. My attraction to him is jot the same either because of what i seen he said and pics he sent to other women. I feel trapped and alone with a small child. But i dont want to feel rejected and with that ugly and useless for the rest of my life.
Advice for Sarah

Shrewsbury, MA

#100 Sep 14, 2013
Guy in very similar bind here, love to chat
AnexSIL

Shrewsbury, MA

#101 Oct 5, 2013
Oooooooh wow, very hot! Linda, any ideas!
Leavinlinda

Shrewsbury, MA

#102 Oct 24, 2013
Sweet story, god I need it and soon.

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