White men with Asian women.
cute

Atlanta, GA

#25 Jan 29, 2012
pete98146 wrote:
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You guys that are the 1% are considered happy :)
Nobody beliefs that tho, in the eyes of most of people (whites, blacks, asians, arabs, etc) white men that go for asian women are losers.

:)

Since: Feb 09

Seattle, WA

#26 Jan 30, 2012
cute wrote:
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Nobody beliefs that tho, in the eyes of most of people (whites, blacks, asians, arabs, etc) white men that go for asian women are losers.
:)
Really depends on where you live. Here on the west coast, we have such a HUGE asian population and it's viewed with an entirely different set of eyes. It's become so commonplace that you wouldn't look at WM/AF twice.

If a guy can get a pretty, slender, smart asian lady (with a good job I might add), why would he be considered a loser? My wife is asian. In fact the typical reaction is quite the opposite as in my friends always want to know if she has any sisters or friends lol.

People need to grow up. Quit judging people based upon the color of their skin. Just makes you look like a small human being :)
KangAri

New York, NY

#28 Feb 2, 2012
heres something to consider, t hat hardly ever comes up.. i just want to give a spin on this. im Chinese born here but I have spent time in mainland china and hong kong.. and also observing the asian community here.

a few reasons i think many asian women are so open to western men

asian culture yep thats right, asian culture discriminates against women in alot of ways, wich i think may push asian women away. for instance, being very fair/pale is valued. having "sharp" features, and big eyes too, being very thin.

even a beauty like Zhang Ziyi is not really considered attractive in China. there are a great many asian women who are not fair/ or a size 0 or 2, and who have rounded noses or broader features. and considered "ugly"

alot of the westerners don't find alot of them ugly, they think their almond eyes are beautiful, and their tan skin. maybe if some aspects of what is beautiful about women will change, Asian women wont feel such pressure to conform to European beauty standards! after all, Asian men arent held to these same standards

Since: Feb 09

Seattle, WA

#29 Feb 2, 2012
KangAri wrote:
heres something to consider, t hat hardly ever comes up.. i just want to give a spin on this. im Chinese born here but I have spent time in mainland china and hong kong.. and also observing the asian community here.
a few reasons i think many asian women are so open to western men
asian culture yep thats right, asian culture discriminates against women in alot of ways, wich i think may push asian women away. for instance, being very fair/pale is valued. having "sharp" features, and big eyes too, being very thin.
even a beauty like Zhang Ziyi is not really considered attractive in China. there are a great many asian women who are not fair/ or a size 0 or 2, and who have rounded noses or broader features. and considered "ugly"
alot of the westerners don't find alot of them ugly, they think their almond eyes are beautiful, and their tan skin. maybe if some aspects of what is beautiful about women will change, Asian women wont feel such pressure to conform to European beauty standards! after all, Asian men arent held to these same standards
Here in Seattle, you see white men dating both darker skinned and lighter skinned asians. The subset that tends to be the most popular is the conservative Boeing engineer who met and married his college sweetheart who is typically Japanese. You also see a lot of white U of Washington male students with gfs from Singapore, China, Korea and again Japan. I'd say asian ladies from North Asia are the most preferred.

Then you have guys like me that absolutely LOVE the SE Asian ladies and their darker skin. I'm Scandinavian so I get tired of looking at pale skin. I'm married to a lovely filipina that has a lot of Spanish blood. To me, she looks very exotic. My wife looks much like the popular actress Heart Evangelista.
KangAri

New York, NY

#30 Feb 2, 2012
pete98146 wrote:
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Here in Seattle, you see white men dating both darker skinned and lighter skinned asians. The subset that tends to be the most popular is the conservative Boeing engineer who met and married his college sweetheart who is typically Japanese. You also see a lot of white U of Washington male students with gfs from Singapore, China, Korea and again Japan. I'd say asian ladies from North Asia are the most preferred.
Then you have guys like me that absolutely LOVE the SE Asian ladies and their darker skin. I'm Scandinavian so I get tired of looking at pale skin. I'm married to a lovely filipina that has a lot of Spanish blood. To me, she looks very exotic. My wife looks much like the popular actress Heart Evangelista.
yes you probably have more diversity out there on the west coast. thats exactly what i mean, white men in general,are more open to the diversity of asian women,w hile too many asian cultures brand a darker woman as "ugly" or undesirable, and she has to deal with feeling/ knowing she is not wanted. of course women are going to go where they feel they will be desired, wanted. I am not saying Asian guys dont date darker asian women or women who have broader features, but as a whole they are not seen as desirable, hence the stigma attached to SE asians. btw i think Filipinas, Isaan Thais, Cambodians, etc. are generally very pretty
Manguy

United States

#31 Feb 2, 2012
You guys are so full of donkey muffins. My wife is a good white pure bred American woman and I am just an old red neck boy. 25 years we have been married and we have made it just fine. Guys...find a woman that loves you. If she loves you she will treat you just fine but you must not treat her worse than you would treat your own mother. If you have this going she will let you slap that thang, cook for you and be happy around the house. Just don't disrespect her.
cute

Atlanta, GA

#32 Feb 4, 2012
pete98146 wrote:
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Really depends on where you live. Here on the west coast, we have such a HUGE asian population and it's viewed with an entirely different set of eyes. It's become so commonplace that you wouldn't look at WM/AF twice.
If a guy can get a pretty, slender, smart asian lady (with a good job I might add), why would he be considered a loser? My wife is asian. In fact the typical reaction is quite the opposite as in my friends always want to know if she has any sisters or friends lol.
People need to grow up. Quit judging people based upon the color of their skin. Just makes you look like a small human being :)
lol false, you are clearly showing your age. Younger people think of white guys with asian woman as losers more than older people do. Im 17. Also every race is more segregated now.
cute

Atlanta, GA

#33 Feb 4, 2012
pete98146 wrote:
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If a guy can get a pretty, slender, smart asian lady (with a good job I might add), why would he be considered a loser?
Also this almost never happens, i have seen countless asian couples and pretty much always the white guy is ugly/average and the asian girl is ugly too.

Since: Feb 09

Seattle, WA

#34 Feb 4, 2012
cute wrote:
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Also this almost never happens, i have seen countless asian couples and pretty much always the white guy is ugly/average and the asian girl is ugly too.
Wrong

Since: Feb 09

Seattle, WA

#35 Feb 4, 2012
cute wrote:
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Also this almost never happens, i have seen countless asian couples and pretty much always the white guy is ugly/average and the asian girl is ugly too.
Maybe in Georgia but certainly not here. Let me elaborate. The University of Washington is a magnet for tens of thousands of Asia's finest students. The attend college and graduate. Many of them find work here in Seattle. So there is a large influx of smart, pretty and available women to choose from IF you have the qualifications that they are seeking. Trust me, they are not looking for creepy old men to date/marry.

Plus Asians assimilate very well into the community. Unlike other ethnic populations, there isn't a us verses them mentality.

Do realize this tends to be more the case on the west coast of the US. Go to UCLA and you'll see 50% of the students to be asian.

I'm in my 40s and I'm 6'4 and 220lbs, have a good job and a good head on my shoulders. Not to brag but I've always had pretty women on my arm since I first started dating. Nothing has changed except the pretty woman on my arm now happens to be asian. Again, it's no big deal and I don't know why people get worked up on this issue because it's just skin color. Seems petty to me.
larry Stewart

Port Orchard, WA

#36 Feb 4, 2012
I would enjoy loving a Asian women
in lingerie
cute

Atlanta, GA

#37 Feb 5, 2012
pete98146 wrote:
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Maybe in Georgia but certainly not here. Let me elaborate. The University of Washington is a magnet for tens of thousands of Asia's finest students. The attend college and graduate. Many of them find work here in Seattle. So there is a large influx of smart, pretty and available women to choose from IF you have the qualifications that they are seeking. Trust me, they are not looking for creepy old men to date/marry.
Plus Asians assimilate very well into the community. Unlike other ethnic populations, there isn't a us verses them mentality.
Do realize this tends to be more the case on the west coast of the US. Go to UCLA and you'll see 50% of the students to be asian.
I'm in my 40s and I'm 6'4 and 220lbs, have a good job and a good head on my shoulders. Not to brag but I've always had pretty women on my arm since I first started dating. Nothing has changed except the pretty woman on my arm now happens to be asian. Again, it's no big deal and I don't know why people get worked up on this issue because it's just skin color. Seems petty to me.
I dont know about georgia that much because i've only been one year here but I can talk about NY and that has way more diversity than seattle. And don't try to paint the west coast as something different because it's not.

btw this discussion is pointless because still Only 1% of white men and 1% of white women marry other races (check the census). You stay being freaky. and it's already proven by the census that interracial marriages are slowing down mainly because asians and hispanics are starting to prefer people of their own race. which is the natural thing to do.=)
cute

Atlanta, GA

#38 Feb 5, 2012
pete98146 wrote:
Plus Asians assimilate very well into the community. Unlike other ethnic populations, there isn't a us verses them mentality.
That's in your head. All ethnicities/races prefer, hang out more, etc, with people of their own race. As much as you don't want to believe it whites prefer whites, asians prefer asians, blacks prefer blacks. latinos prefer latinos.

Only a few are weird and go mixing around or they don't have any option like when they are very few people of their own race where they live but as I already said before the census agrees with me, interracial marriages between asians and hispanics with whites have slowed down. why? because they are starting to marry people of their own race.
Ingrid H

Los Angeles, CA

#39 Feb 11, 2012
pete98146 wrote:
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Maybe in Georgia but certainly not here. Let me elaborate. The University of Washington is a magnet for tens of thousands of Asia's finest students. The attend college and graduate. Many of them find work here in Seattle. So there is a large influx of smart, pretty and available women to choose from IF you have the qualifications that they are seeking. Trust me, they are not looking for creepy old men to date/marry.
Plus Asians assimilate very well into the community. Unlike other ethnic populations, there isn't a us verses them mentality.
Do realize this tends to be more the case on the west coast of the US. Go to UCLA and you'll see 50% of the students to be asian.
I'm in my 40s and I'm 6'4 and 220lbs, have a good job and a good head on my shoulders. Not to brag but I've always had pretty women on my arm since I first started dating. Nothing has changed except the pretty woman on my arm now happens to be asian. Again, it's no big deal and I don't know why people get worked up on this issue because it's just skin color. Seems petty to me.
Actually, Pete, the reason that more than 75% of students at UCLA are Asian is the fact that the ones who COME here from Asia (not the ones who are born here), pay way HIGHER FEES. Believe me, I know this for a fact, as I personally know people who work in the UCLA Admissions Office. It's a fact that's well known all over the UCLA campus and other campuses, for that matter. It's not because they're smarter. It's because money talks (especially Chinese money). It's very unfair, in my opinin.
Asian female Invaders

San Jose, CA

#40 Feb 16, 2012
Asian females are invading America from Canada.

Since: Feb 09

Seattle, WA

#41 Feb 16, 2012
Ingrid H wrote:
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Actually, Pete, the reason that more than 75% of students at UCLA are Asian is the fact that the ones who COME here from Asia (not the ones who are born here), pay way HIGHER FEES. Believe me, I know this for a fact, as I personally know people who work in the UCLA Admissions Office. It's a fact that's well known all over the UCLA campus and other campuses, for that matter. It's not because they're smarter. It's because money talks (especially Chinese money). It's very unfair, in my opinin.
I agree with you on this Ingrid. Sadly money does talk. Seems like it's not fair that we are using our universities to educate the rest of the world.
Jeff

Louisville, KY

#42 Feb 27, 2012
The White "men" who date Asian women are race traitors. It's disgusting and highly offensive.
FLAT FACE

Hamburg, Germany

#43 May 7, 2012
I am from phillippines I need VISA to America. Some white man please help me. You are most accepted race in my country. Asian, Black, or Hispanic is looked down on unless they are very rich! Any White man will do with decent income. I will marry you, cook for you, do anything you say in bed, as long as I get green card and have your white children that will look more like me than you so i end up winning in the end. Someone help plz
FLAT FACE

Hamburg, Germany

#44 May 7, 2012
promise i dont smell like noodles or garlic! measurements are 4'11 30a-20-22 just like you like them white boyz!
Large Unit

West Palm Beach, FL

#45 May 21, 2012
Do you swallow, Jeff?

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