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yeah

Elizabethtown, KY

#1 Oct 19, 2012
What to do when you really just want to die, and you wanna kill yourself?

“life is what you make of it.”

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#2 Oct 19, 2012
yeah wrote:
What to do when you really just want to die, and you wanna kill yourself?
From someone who has been there, it's hard not wanting to just end it all. I had a close call about 6 years ago when I just lost total control and thought the was nothing to live for anymore. My only advice to u my friend is to sit down, examine the situation. Is whatever that's running thru ur mind really worth you taking your life and leaving your family behind? I think not. You are just as valuable to yourself and your friends and family as the next person. If you have no one, you have me. So if you're that down and out and have nobody to lean on or talk to, I'll be here for you.:) god bless you my friend
Big Earl

Louisville, KY

#3 Oct 19, 2012
I don't care what the situation you need to call a friend and talk. This is important, you are loved. Talk to those that love you and you will realize how much people care. I am writing this and I don't even know you and I care!

“life is what you make of it.”

Since: Aug 12

Location hidden

#4 Oct 19, 2012
Big Earl wrote:
I don't care what the situation you need to call a friend and talk. This is important, you are loved. Talk to those that love you and you will realize how much people care. I am writing this and I don't even know you and I care!
Totally agree with you! I'm here too
spartan

Louisville, KY

#5 Oct 19, 2012
yeah wrote:
What to do when you really just want to die, and you wanna kill yourself?
Everybody's got at least one reason to live.Perhaps you could try thinking about that,,,and see if it happens to amplify your self-preservation and will to live.Or if you believe in God,you could consider that forfeiting your gift of life and throwing it back at Him,would be the worse way you could possibly ever slap Him in the face.Only an opinion.
worth while

Louisville, KY

#6 Oct 20, 2012
Talk to your family. talk to anyone, go to church, your life is worth saving , why are you feeling like you need to end you life ,let's talk....
yeah

Elizabethtown, KY

#7 Oct 20, 2012
My family don't care, Won't listen, they just blow everything I say off. And I have no one, I just don't know what to so
Scarecrow

Fort Knox, KY

#8 Oct 20, 2012
Don't give up, start doing things for other people. Little things like helping an old person carry their groceries. Remember that God never puts more on a person then they can bear.
yeah

Elizabethtown, KY

#9 Oct 20, 2012
Thanks

“life is what you make of it.”

Since: Aug 12

Location hidden

#10 Oct 20, 2012
yeah wrote:
Thanks
You're very welcome! <3 if you need anything don't hesitate to talk to any of us here!
Just saying

Louisville, KY

#11 Oct 20, 2012
we have all been their at some point or another but only you know how bad it is. think about it, call a crisis line or something
urworthit

Mount Washington, KY

#12 Oct 20, 2012
yeah wrote:
Thanks
You are worth the time it would take to listen to anything you feel was important enough to want to talk about. The weather, latest win by UK basketball, latest Uof L football win or seeing a child ride their bike on your way home or whatever you want to talk about including what is happening in your world. And when there is nobody around you can always talk to God. Pray about what is going on and don't quit praying. If you think he is not listening your wrong. Sorry, don't mean to sound mean, I just know that sometimes it seems as if I am not heard and then when I least expect it the things prayed about seem to be handled by my Lord and Savior. Looking forward to a post from you stating that things are better for you and you are knowing your family and friends do care.
yeah

Elizabethtown, KY

#13 Oct 20, 2012
They will never take time to listen, and I'll just have to deal with that I guess.
worth while

Louisville, KY

#14 Oct 20, 2012
Look back and see when you started feeling the way you do, try to get your thoughts together enough to try to fix the problem, have you lost a loved one ??? Did your spouse leave you, did you lose a job ??? A fight with a best friend ?? all of these are bad, but you are worth trying to work it out, spend time with your loved ones, that for sure will make you feel better...... my prayers are with you, God Bless....
Honey Bee

Campbellsville, KY

#15 Oct 21, 2012
You DON'T give up, EVER!!!! you find people who care and learn to cope.
The worst pain I ever felt in my life is when my brother took his life. It cuts deep in my heart every single day.
I just went to a good friends' brothers funeral, killed himself...it was terrible, words cannot describe the pain. Knowing he felt that desperate, that alone, YET so many there and so much love that their hearts were shattered he hadn't come to them with his pain and let them help......JUST as I feel with my brother...I would move heaven and earth to change that day
I'm willing to bet your family would feel the same way, so give them a chance before they can't.
I've felt this way in life before, many have..., back against the wall, no clue what to do next, just felt totally alone.
Just PLEASE remember this...tomorrow, next week, next month...EVERYTHING changes constantly. Your life will change, do not miss out on the wonderful things in store. You may feel so hopeless you can't think about the future but trust me and know nothing is ever the same long.
I know for a fact my brother did not want to die, he just wanted someone to listen.
WE ARE ALL LISTENING HERE. Please tell us how we can help you. we can all listen and advise and let you KNOW how important you are. You have a purpose in life, we all do. Maybe we can help you figure yours out then you will know NOTHING is worth taking your life and nothing hurts worse than loosing a loved one like that.

What is it they aren't listening to? Why do you feel they don't care?

I have one of the most jacked up families in the world so I can probably relate. I decided tho instead of being like them or letting them take me down,
I would be what I wished they were...kind, considerate, selfless and walk with God and
in the past 10 years, I have shown them its better to be happy than bitter and hateful.
I dont know your situation but I am here to talk if you want, as are these others.
Sometimes families get caught up in themselves and may not realize how important something is to you but trust me, your life is important.
You're never Alone with God in your heart.
I am so sorry you feel this alone, I know its a bad empty feeling, but I also know, this too shall pass. Life is everchanging so give it time.
Open up to us we do care, and are sincere and really want to help so please listen and let us

Another thing to think of...life is precious, I know several people that have been told lately they only have so much time to live (caner, war wounds, etc) they too thought about giving up, but everyday they suffer and fight....for one more day. I'll be praying for you and many others who feel exactly like you do right now
Praying that some happiness can be found to get to tomorrow, next week , next month...I know it will be different.
We have so many men and women that are coming home from this war and can not cope, they all need our prayers and support. I've been leaving my porch light on to show support for PTSD & TBI and the depression. We need to have THEIR backs now.
I have yours if you want!
Honey Bee

Campbellsville, KY

#16 Oct 21, 2012
Scarecrow wrote:
Don't give up, start doing things for other people. Little things like helping an old person carry their groceries. Remember that God never puts more on a person then they can bear.
GREAT ADVICE..helping others always makes you feel better.
I also started visiting nursing homes, sadly, many there have no family or visitors. They absolutely LOVE you and appreciate you. Talk about putting a smile on your face and love in your heart. Also the Veterans Hospitals, sometimes I just go and sit in waiting areas for them to have someone to talk to and appreciate what they've given.
Imperfect person

Mount Washington, KY

#17 Oct 21, 2012
Honey Bee wrote:
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GREAT ADVICE..helping others always makes you feel better.
I also started visiting nursing homes, sadly, many there have no family or visitors. They absolutely LOVE you and appreciate you. Talk about putting a smile on your face and love in your heart. Also the Veterans Hospitals, sometimes I just go and sit in waiting areas for them to have someone to talk to and appreciate what they've given.
ney Bee, my heart goes out to you as I prepare for church this morning. As always I will pray for you and also for this soul who is in need. I have been missing your heartfelt testimonies so please continue to be an example for the rest of us.
Honey Bee

Campbellsville, KY

#18 Oct 21, 2012
Sorry, Imperfect Person, I have been really busy with my friend and the death and funeral for her father. Thanks for your kind words they are very encouraging to me a well and I have missed them!. THANK YOU for your prayers!!! Enjoy your time in the presence of the Lord!! I can't wait to go visit my church again next Sunday. I pray blessings upon you with abundant joy :) <3
yeah

Elizabethtown, KY

#19 Oct 21, 2012
My family has fell apart, mother and father not together, don't see my mother much, the step mother is always putting me down, my father won't stand up for me. I have injury and I'm in pain 24/7 and they do things they know upset me, it's like they don't want me here at all. I used to be a normal person, who was always out doing things, now I stay locked in my bedroom 24/7 doing nothing, all the friends I once had are now on drugs and i don't want to b around that. So I cut all ties with them.

“life is what you make of it.”

Since: Aug 12

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#20 Oct 21, 2012
yeah wrote:
My family has fell apart, mother and father not together, don't see my mother much, the step mother is always putting me down, my father won't stand up for me. I have injury and I'm in pain 24/7 and they do things they know upset me, it's like they don't want me here at all. I used to be a normal person, who was always out doing things, now I stay locked in my bedroom 24/7 doing nothing, all the friends I once had are now on drugs and i don't want to b around that. So I cut all ties with them.
How old are you? It's sad when family do not stand behind their child and a father should step up and be just that, a father. Don't let your step mom just because she wants to put you down be the reason that you want to end it all. That's not fair to you and the life that you can have. There's so much to live for and letting someone eat at you and destroy your personality can make you insane. But when she does, just look at her and smile and tell her it must be really nice to have your moms sloppy seconds.lol that will get at worse than anything you could ever say or do. Don't let her being a b**** cause you to lose faith in anything babe.:)

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