thanks

Dexter, MO

#21 Oct 29, 2013
Not sure who me i is but my cousin end her live so thanks to all who tried to encourage me i not to kill themselves an to the ones that had negative comments that's why people end their live. an no its not always in the paper about some dying.
Stop

New Tazewell, TN

#23 Oct 29, 2013
me1m wrote:
i am barely here i want to the people of the county i care about them i am like most people i have money trouble i am disasbled i just worry about my little grand children having toys for christ####
You have had numerous replies from well meaning people who want to help you. They have given you ways to contact them and told their own personal stories to give you encouragement. No one wants another person to end their life. This is an anonymous site and we can't tell who "me i" is. You have enough money to afford or get to an internet connection. Christmas is spelled C-H-R-I-S-T-M-A-S. You have the sense to spell other words correctly. Money helps in life, but it doesn't solve the problems you are having. Take some of these well meaning poster's advice or use your internet connection to seek professional help. Do it for yourself. No one can make that choice for you on Tazewell topics, even if they wanted to. Do something different or at the end of the day, you're still just barely here. You can do better.
krap

Sugar Grove, IL

#24 Oct 29, 2013
Does anyone know who they are talking to?Or about?

There is the elusive "me i" and then there is "me1m" so what is this forum really about?

Please, this really does seem like a scam of some sort, doesn't it?

Use a little bit of common sense and assume maybe, just maybe you are being used.

Thank you, and God bless.

There are many tricksters in the world,just ask the devil.

Topix is not the place a person would come to seek help to prevent a death,is it?

Really?
perry

Knoxville, TN

#25 Oct 29, 2013
Don't know if it started off as a scam but there was a young mother of 3 that did take her life so sad
Stop

New Tazewell, TN

#26 Oct 29, 2013
perry wrote:
Don't know if it started off as a scam but there was a young mother of 3 that did take her life so sad
Young mother of 3? Do you think she had grandchildren? Please supply more facts before you send a well meaning helpless Tazewell topics poster on a guilt trip. Yes it is sad. People who think of ending their life are mentally ill. Let's not place unnecessary guilt or blame on anyone who could've saved her on a gossip site. Please.
SAD

Tazewell, TN

#27 Oct 29, 2013
Me1m - I don't think you are the same person as me I. Sadly there was a suicide reported Monday in Tazewell. It is so heartbreaking and sad to see post such as this and not be able to help. We will never know the depth of despair and pain that drives someone to take their life. If me I is still alive and still considering taking their life please, please talk with someone! Your life is precious! Please don't leave your family to suffer and forever wonder what they could have done to prevent such a tragedy! As bad as it seems - there are options! Praying for you.
Stop

New Tazewell, TN

#28 Oct 29, 2013
perry wrote:
Don't know if it started off as a scam but there was a young mother of 3 that did take her life so sad
And let me remind all you posters that it is the 3 children that the young mother left behind who are going to suffer from your Tazewell topics comments now that "perry" has drug them into it! THATS what is SAD!
radom

Knoxville, TN

#29 Oct 29, 2013
There seems to be a lot of suicide there where did this woman live why did she do it was she sick?
jelly beans

Knoxville, TN

#31 Oct 29, 2013
Stop wrote:
<quoted text>
And let me remind all you posters that it is the 3 children that the young mother left behind who are going to suffer from your Tazewell topics comments now that "perry" has drug them into it! THATS what is SAD!
think u need to back up don't think perry was saying what you think!!!!! Sounds like they were saying someone really ask for help ( which they did) and someone else turned it into a scam !!!! Please read others peoples comments and keep a open mind before you spit off such mean words!!! How do you know what perry is dealing with in his/her own life ?
me1m

Tazewell, TN

#32 Oct 29, 2013
believer of the truth wrote:
<quoted text>IF you will let me know how to get in touch with you, email, po box, phone number, etc. I will make a small donation of 20 dollars towards the grand kids CHRISTMAS presents... AS, i am poor also, but if 20 dollars breaks me, then i am already broke...
sorry about the extra m it was a mistake thank you for the offer its not about this its going to be hard to make it thouth the holidays i am putting a extra m because my computer says your name must contain at least 3 letters a-z
Stop

New Tazewell, TN

#33 Oct 30, 2013
jelly beans wrote:
<quoted text>think u need to back up don't think perry was saying what you think!!!!! Sounds like they were saying someone really ask for help ( which they did) and someone else turned it into a scam !!!! Please read others peoples comments and keep a open mind before you spit off such mean words!!! How do you know what perry is dealing with in his/her own life ?
wasn't being mean. You make a very good point. How do you know what anyone is dealing with in life? That's why I feel so strongly that anyone thinking of ending it should seek professional help. If your able to afford an Internet connection, you can get free professional services somewhere. My encouragement is meant to helpful by guiding others to a source that can truly help rather than to open themselves up to scammers and mean comments. I have an open mind but, like you, I don't personally know any poster. That in itself limits my ability to help. Please reach out to professionals , prayer can help, and good luck. Find good help in the right places.
Stop

New Tazewell, TN

#34 Oct 30, 2013
jelly beans wrote:
<quoted text>think u need to back up don't think perry was saying what you think!!!!! Sounds like they were saying someone really ask for help ( which they did) and someone else turned it into a scam !!!! Please read others peoples comments and keep a open mind before you spit off such mean words!!! How do you know what perry is dealing with in his/her own life ?
If "perry" reads again, please refrain from mentioning minors. Those children have enough to deal with without someone telling them they are a discussion on Tazewell topics. If you need help, perry, you can talk about yourself. Others will give you sympathy, advice and words of encouragement, just like me. My advice is to seek professional help.
SAD

Tazewell, TN

#35 Oct 30, 2013
Me1m - there are many resources to help your grandchildren have a Christmas. There are also many resources for you, as stated above to get help. Despair is a lonely thing but think of your grandchildren and what you would be doing to them. If you really want someone to help you you must go to someone, call, send a note - and you will get help. I still feel you are not Me i - I think it's too late for her and it's such a terrible tragedy. She left 3 kids, no grandchildren, that must now live with the memory of that terrible day. Prayers are so very needed for this small family! Wished we could have helped her, now it's too late!
Stop

New Tazewell, TN

#36 Oct 30, 2013
me1m wrote:
<quoted text>sorry about the extra m it was a mistake thank you for the offer its not about this its going to be hard to make it thouth the holidays i am putting a extra m because my computer says your name must contain at least 3 letters a-z
Holidays are a very difficult time for many people for a variety of reasons. Please seek professional help to talk about your personal circumstances and help you put things in perspective. You don't want to do that on a gossip site. You will get just as much bad from doing that as good. You're wasting valuable time that you could be doing something different in your life instead of explaining to others that your computer says your name must contain at least 3 letters a-z. Tackle your problems with someone who can help. Previous posters have offered to send you money and come visit you if you will tell them how to find you. Take your pick of "help" and do something different. Killing ones self shouldn't be an option. It hurts too many people.
SAD

Tazewell, TN

#37 Oct 30, 2013
Sometimes you are so desperate you really don't know where to turn to for help. I agree with Stop this is certainly not the place to be posting. I never visit Topix but for some reason I did this week. It's difficult to help someone on here but if you truly need help I will post a PO Box # that you can reply to and will do my very best to help you get the help you need. If you don't want to do that please contact any of the pastors in the area and they will help. I will provide names of a few that I personally know and will let them that you will be getting in touch with them and I assure you they will help. There is help out there but we must know who you are to be able to help! Praying for you!
Stop

New Tazewell, TN

#38 Oct 30, 2013
me1m wrote:
<quoted text>sorry about the extra m it was a mistake thank you for the offer its not about this its going to be hard to make it thouth the holidays i am putting a extra m because my computer says your name must contain at least 3 letters a-z
Consider killing yourself a copout, me1m. If you're struggling financially, mentally or emotionally, your children and grandchildren may be too. You shouldn't get to check out on them. Take better care of yourself and get help if you truly care about them and I think you do.
jelly beans

Knoxville, TN

#39 Oct 30, 2013
Stop I am sorry but yes your words to perry were mean and still continue to be!!!! You said to perry to refrain from mentioning children. Well that's odd this is a gossip site right I reread Perry's comment not a name one was mentioned, however if your town is like the one I live in its all people are talking about, now with that said let me tell u my feelings on some of your comments!!!! Get help yes that's great but please tell me how anyone gets to this point and no family or friends see any signs of a person needing help? When things like this happen get on topix,Facebook,ect. And look at how many people will have post of how they was such a great friend and loved them so much yet I can't help but wonder if they cared so much did they truly try to help???? Let's go just a little further your right you do not know the posters of any as you stated neither do I but you choose to pick perry out and rip them apart u stated perry tried to make a poster feel guilt then you turned right around in one of your post and tried to make perry feel guilt unnecessary comment !!!!" But I guess you are one that thinks a innocent comment posted no names mentioned does more harm than your whole town running around giving their option on whatever this situation is ! God bless you
Stop

New Tazewell, TN

#40 Oct 30, 2013
jelly beans wrote:
Stop I am sorry but yes your words to perry were mean and still continue to be!!!! You said to perry to refrain from mentioning children. Well that's odd this is a gossip site right I reread Perry's comment not a name one was mentioned, however if your town is like the one I live in its all people are talking about, now with that said let me tell u my feelings on some of your comments!!!! Get help yes that's great but please tell me how anyone gets to this point and no family or friends see any signs of a person needing help? When things like this happen get on topix,Facebook,ect. And look at how many people will have post of how they was such a great friend and loved them so much yet I can't help but wonder if they cared so much did they truly try to help???? Let's go just a little further your right you do not know the posters of any as you stated neither do I but you choose to pick perry out and rip them apart u stated perry tried to make a poster feel guilt then you turned right around in one of your post and tried to make perry feel guilt unnecessary comment !!!!" But I guess you are one that thinks a innocent comment posted no names mentioned does more harm than your whole town running around giving their option on whatever this situation is ! God bless you
Jelly bean, both yours a perrys comments appear under a town in north Carolina. I'm sure a suicide is all people are talking about. My defense is of any child who suffers the loss of a parent that way. I consider it a very personal experience, one that is theirs to post about for the public to read if they choose. I can't make perry feel guilt. I apologize if the shoe doesn't fit. These comments make my point. I'm in no way saying a person contemplating suicide shouldn't ask for help. The original poster has received some excellent advice from this site, and if he/she doesn't grab on to a lifeline being thrown, there's very little anyone else can do. Life is for the living and carrying guilt for someone else's poor choices leads to more despair and helplessness for future generations. This is an anonymous site. It's very hard to make yourself clear. Perrys comments may have been innocent, but for every 1000 anonymous posts, you have 1000 different perceptions and opinions. We want to avoid dime store therapy and direct people to other means of help with sympathy, compassion, and realistic thinking. If you've read this entire thread and attempt to weed out the scams and devilish posts, I think that has been very well done. Suicide strikes anguish in the hearts of many. If we struggle to decipher the good from the bad on an anonymous gossip site, why are we surprised? God bless you, too.
Stop

New Tazewell, TN

#41 Oct 30, 2013
jelly beans wrote:
Stop I am sorry but yes your words to perry were mean and still continue to be!!!! You said to perry to refrain from mentioning children. Well that's odd this is a gossip site right I reread Perry's comment not a name one was mentioned, however if your town is like the one I live in its all people are talking about, now with that said let me tell u my feelings on some of your comments!!!! Get help yes that's great but please tell me how anyone gets to this point and no family or friends see any signs of a person needing help? When things like this happen get on topix,Facebook,ect. And look at how many people will have post of how they was such a great friend and loved them so much yet I can't help but wonder if they cared so much did they truly try to help???? Let's go just a little further your right you do not know the posters of any as you stated neither do I but you choose to pick perry out and rip them apart u stated perry tried to make a poster feel guilt then you turned right around in one of your post and tried to make perry feel guilt unnecessary comment !!!!" But I guess you are one that thinks a innocent comment posted no names mentioned does more harm than your whole town running around giving their option on whatever this situation is ! God bless you
I want to try to clarify one more thing. This is a small town. People do gossip terribly and the suicide Perry mentioned is no doubt now well known. It will be easy for those children to be identified by any nosy person. Children have less ability to make sense of what gets posted here. If adults struggle, you can imagine how a young person feels. I hope they have good support and get the help they need now. They need to be able to identify exactly who they are talking to and that won't happen here. That was my objection to perry's well meaning comment. If you perceive it as mean, there's a solution for us all not to get offended or upset by someone's else's anonymous comments, including myself. It's called the off button.
Just Saying

Monroe, NC

#42 Oct 30, 2013
Stop wrote:
<quoted text>
I want to try to clarify one more thing. This is a small town. People do gossip terribly and the suicide Perry mentioned is no doubt now well known. It will be easy for those children to be identified by any nosy person. Children have less ability to make sense of what gets posted here. If adults struggle, you can imagine how a young person feels. I hope they have good support and get the help they need now. They need to be able to identify exactly who they are talking to and that won't happen here. That was my objection to perry's well meaning comment. If you perceive it as mean, there's a solution for us all not to get offended or upset by someone's else's anonymous comments, including myself. It's called the off button.
I don't know who passed away but my thoughts and prayers are with their family. Losing a family member is hard enough without people talking about it on topix. People should have respect. Everyone has opinions but people should keep them to theirselves instead of hurting others especially when it comes to private matters that's none of their concern.

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