women with ugly men what's the deal

women with ugly men what's the deal

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I am here

Highland, MI

#3 Oct 8, 2012
Money
buck

Carthage, MO

#4 Oct 8, 2012
Bingo

“HE's watching YOU!”

Since: Jan 07

Out in the woods in S. Ill

#7 Oct 8, 2012
We try harder, plus we are plus we are packing.
i am one

West Frankfort, IL

#8 Oct 8, 2012
money. we want to buy nice things. go nice places. have a nice house.

“HE's watching YOU!”

Since: Jan 07

Out in the woods in S. Ill

#10 Oct 8, 2012
Big enough, but I am ugly.
troy

United States

#13 Oct 8, 2012
Name some
firecracker

Tallassee, AL

#15 Oct 9, 2012
Id rather have somebody who is ugly on the outside than somebody who is ugly on the inside. Jealousy is ugly. Whats ugly in your eyes is beautiful in mine.
cracka

Herrin, IL

#16 Oct 9, 2012
I've seen a lot of alleged hot men that women fawn over until they go out with them and find that these men are the biggest self-entred a-holes on the face of the Earth.

Looks are OK to look at. It doesn't make you happy.
Legion

Golconda, IL

#17 Oct 9, 2012
Since when does the physical appearance matter in all the aspects of a long term relationship? Are you gonna stick with the guy who beats you just because he is hot all your life? Wait scratch that, if you're dumb enough to think looks matter, you're probably dumb enough to come up with the excuse "that's just his way of saying "I love you"". Nothing says love like a black eye and broken nose
cracka

Herrin, IL

#19 Oct 9, 2012
If a man has a woman who loves him, treats him like a king, his fears are her fears, his worries are her worries, his dreams are her dreams, but she is average looking, she is GOLD.
blue

Harrisburg, IL

#20 Oct 9, 2012
men need to pay more attention to what you just said.
cracka

Herrin, IL

#22 Oct 9, 2012
Find a woman who makes you happy, who respects you, and does everything she can to help make you the most confident person you can possibly be. Life is too short to go around chasing the ones you think are hot.

I know a couple of men who had high standards in the looks department and passed on some very sweet girls because they were average. Both of them are now in their 40, never married, and childless and getting frustrated that they can't find the "right" one. The right ones came and went. These were too shallow to realize it.
panda

United States

#23 Oct 9, 2012
Cracka you are spot on. Its not the woman who is missing out though its the washed up old guys who thinks he is too good for the average loooking woman. If shes high maintanance dude, she is going to be hard to please, greedy, cheat on you, or all of the above. Find a girl that likes to bake cookies and who spends quality time with her family and a dedicated worker. That is how i found my soulmate and shes beautiful inside and out
cracka

Herrin, IL

#24 Oct 9, 2012
It will suck for the shallow ones, the "players" when they are 73 years old around the holidays and all alone because they never married and never had kids.

When you fall in love with the right one, they will become beautiful to you no matter what standards the world sets.
Firecracker

Tallassee, AL

#25 Oct 9, 2012
Get to know the person you are with, dont go by looks. I LOVE the odd ones, who are quirky, funny and different and I am not considered average looking. Who wants the All American Blonde hair Blue eyed guy, not me. I want somebody different and unique. Somebody who I only love and never have to worry about cheating and being immature. They are beautiful in your eyes, it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks. They are gold to you if you love them and they treat you well.
have to comment

United States

#27 Oct 9, 2012
I dont normally comment on topix...but this is a great conversation to get the opinion of one of the "shallow" guys. Personally, i know a lady who has been getting strung along by a fella for like years when she can do so so so much better. Idk what she is hanging on to, she is pretty, successful, smart, and one of those quarky personalities, but shy. My husband and I have tried setting her up with good guys, but she always backs out. Its not even her boyfriend!?! Can u say insane?
cracka

Herrin, IL

#28 Oct 9, 2012
Sounds like she's hung up on some dude who craps on her. Sadly, there are those who just become more attracted to someone the worse that person treats them.
shallow one

Harrisburg, IL

#29 Oct 10, 2012
I had to find the hard way what it was like without my "friend". I used the excuse I didnt want a gf, but I really miss her now.
becky

Harrisburg, IL

#30 Oct 10, 2012
OH! I also have a friend like that as well pretty, smart, all of the above. I would LUV to know what drives these women to stay committed to men that shit on them. We just shake out heads. I thank the lord I don't have one of those. MY friend is not even seeing the guy. Lets hear it guys? What's the 411, why do you string them along?
becky

Harrisburg, IL

#31 Oct 10, 2012
Cracka you make perfect sense. If only the friend would read it and understand it. I guess we cant blame him too much. She allows herself to be his toy.

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