Why can"t people just be honest

Why can"t people just be honest

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Call me montana

Benton, IL

#1 Jan 4, 2013
You meet someone and think everything is going great. Then the next thing, crap is starting to happen between you. And its not you, your the one being honest, but they try and turn it around. Whats the deal. Why doesn't someone just be totally honest and stop trying to keep you upset.....
self esteem

Fairfield, IL

#2 Jan 5, 2013
Call me montana wrote:
You meet someone and think everything is going great. Then the next thing, crap is starting to happen between you. And its not you, your the one being honest, but they try and turn it around. Whats the deal. Why doesn't someone just be totally honest and stop trying to keep you upset.....
Im going to let you in on a little secret, They just weren't that into you! You are probably a pathetic,desperate person with low self esteem and did whatever they wanted just so they'd be with you! They got what they wanted and dumped you. I'm going to share another secret with you, it will probably happen to you again, because you are pathetic.:)
Truthful

Marion, IL

#3 Jan 6, 2013
Maybe u shouldn't give everyone the option to lie to u. If u just look a little deeper in the beginning u won't run into so many problems. As for the jerk called self esteem I'm sure is very familiar w being dishonest because the honest version probably isn't very desirable. People like this have to talk to u that way because it makes them feel better so keep ur head up & demand honesty u may just be worth it ;)
really

United States

#4 Jan 7, 2013
Here is my outlook...some ppl don't like the truth. So they lie to others cause they don't like or appreciate honesty....I have been branded a bitch for being honest....even being gentle with ones feelings. :)
Legion

Golconda, IL

#5 Jan 8, 2013
self esteem wrote:
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Im going to let you in on a little secret, They just weren't that into you! You are probably a pathetic,desperate person with low self esteem and did whatever they wanted just so they'd be with you! They got what they wanted and dumped you. I'm going to share another secret with you, it will probably happen to you again, because you are pathetic.:)
let's talk about pathetic. part of your statement is true, they may have low self esteem, and the person may not have ever been interested truly. but whats pathetic is that if they do have low self esteem and are desperate, is that some douchebag comes along thinking they can make a jab at somebody's expense to get a laugh for themeselves. probably because they never were loved as a child or loved a little too much by an uncle that like secret tickle time, and they decide to take it out on anybody they think wont fight back. BIG SHOCKER, you are the pathetic one on this. ill laugh when you push and push a person one day and they fight back, you wont be able to do a thing about it. ive seen it before, a woman used men left and right, and she picked a new victim. this guy was used and misled all his life and she thought it would be fun to break his heart. well he caught onto her game, and thought it would be funny to paint his wall with her internal organs.
Legion

Golconda, IL

#6 Jan 8, 2013
so the moral of the above story is stop being a douchebag and save yourself
self esteem

Fairfield, IL

#7 Jan 8, 2013
The moral of my comment was to get some backbone! I wasn't laughing at anyone or at their expense! If you dont want to hear the truth then dont ask!!! Get some balls. Don't let them have that kind of power over you or people will use you and throw you away!
Legion

Golconda, IL

#8 Jan 9, 2013
self esteem wrote:
The moral of my comment was to get some backbone! I wasn't laughing at anyone or at their expense! If you dont want to hear the truth then dont ask!!! Get some balls. Don't let them have that kind of power over you or people will use you and throw you away!
yeah because insulting them will get anywhere. thats like saying to a suicidal person "quit your crying or ill beat you within an inch of your life"

you obviously shouldnt seek a career in helping people. you would be out of business quick

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