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Heartless

Tupelo, MS

#1 Jan 25, 2013
Does anyone else have no feeling? I don't have any emotions. I may smile on the outside but I am numb on the inside. I do not feel love, guilt, pain, etc. I was a very loving and emotional person until around 5 years ago. Truthfully I don't miss it often, but occasionally I just wonder what has cause me to have a heart as cold as ice.
Yes

Bronx, NY

#2 Jan 26, 2013
I do understand
justagirl

Lexington, TN

#3 Jan 26, 2013
I know exactly what you mean. I felt pretty much the same for too long. I had always been a cheerful, happy person and had become rude, deceitful, manipulative... I told myself that my life was great and nothing was wrong, but, as I look back, I realize that I was dying on the inside. I was crying myself to sleep, snapping at my loved ones, becoming someone I swore I never would. I realized that I was unhappy and once I finally stopped the things that stressed me, let go of the friends that hurt me, got away from the liars and cheaters around me...it was then that I was able to find myself again. I started goin back to church and couldn't have made any better choice. I was lost...still finding myself but it's not in the darkness around me anymore. If you'vew changed into someone you don't like...someone who is numb to the life around them..then take a second look at that life. Get back to you.
destroyed

Tucker, GA

#4 Jan 26, 2013
I think you just described my ex. Cold and ruthless!!!
Heartless

Tupelo, MS

#5 Jan 26, 2013
justagirl wrote:
I know exactly what you mean. I felt pretty much the same for too long. I had always been a cheerful, happy person and had become rude, deceitful, manipulative... I told myself that my life was great and nothing was wrong, but, as I look back, I realize that I was dying on the inside. I was crying myself to sleep, snapping at my loved ones, becoming someone I swore I never would. I realized that I was unhappy and once I finally stopped the things that stressed me, let go of the friends that hurt me, got away from the liars and cheaters around me...it was then that I was able to find myself again. I started goin back to church and couldn't have made any better choice. I was lost...still finding myself but it's not in the darkness around me anymore. If you'vew changed into someone you don't like...someone who is numb to the life around them..then take a second look at that life. Get back to you.
Your story is similar but different. I don't cry and if someone tries to hurt or deceive me I could care less. I have no feelings for anybody or anything. I try and put on a good act to love the people in my life such as family and friends. Truly I just have no heart.
Pee Wee

Corinth, MS

#6 Jan 26, 2013
Get off the Prozac...it will ruin your life!!
justagirl

Lexington, TN

#7 Jan 26, 2013
destroyed wrote:
I think you just described my ex. Cold and ruthless!!!
Well...I highly doubt I'm your ex lol. In my case, I wasn't perfect, but the only guy I dated during that period had a larger than life impact on my personality change...not in a good way. I wasn't cold & ruthless... But I had learned how to even the playing field. I learned how to fight. I wouldn't take back that period for anything bc it made me the woman I am today.
justagirl

Lexington, TN

#8 Jan 26, 2013
Heartless... You sound depressed. If you can't have any feelings, then how can you enjoy life? Something has to be making you to where you don't care...don't feel the good emotions. How can you not even care enough to wanna put yourself around people you care about, people who won't hurt you? I don't care if people decieve me now, either. But, for me, it's more because I've quit letting myself worry over those things...I've quit putting myself in those positions. I've learned to forgive...not only those around me but also myselfz.
destroyed

Tucker, GA

#9 Jan 26, 2013
justagirl wrote:
<quoted text>Well...I highly doubt I'm your ex lol. In my case, I wasn't perfect, but the only guy I dated during that period had a larger than life impact on my personality change...not in a good way. I wasn't cold & ruthless... But I had learned how to even the playing field. I learned how to fight. I wouldn't take back that period for anything bc it made me the woman I am today.
No your not my ex. We never had a single fight or argument. She just decided she couldn't be there anymore. Caught me totally off guard. How do you talk about the future one day and dump someone the next? Cub fusing to say the least.
truth
#10 Jan 26, 2013
Heartless wrote:
Does anyone else have no feeling? I don't have any emotions. I may smile on the outside but I am numb on the inside. I do not feel love, guilt, pain, etc. I was a very loving and emotional person until around 5 years ago. Truthfully I don't miss it often, but occasionally I just wonder what has cause me to have a heart as cold as ice.
we should definitely be friends:)
Sosad

United States

#11 Jan 28, 2013
I'm just disappointed in people in be general. But someone I love destroyed me. Told me I was everything to them, and only a couple of weeks later is in another relationship. How am I supposed to believe anyone again. I thought we were the absolute best together. I don't think I'll ever get over this.
Missy R

Bowling Green, KY

#12 Jan 28, 2013
I know the feeling. I am angry, sad, confused & heartbroken for what I let someone do to me. I never in my life was so good to someone who turned around & treated me like I never meant anything.
Heartless

United States

#13 Jan 28, 2013
justagirl wrote:
Heartless... You sound depressed. If you can't have any feelings, then how can you enjoy life? Something has to be making you to where you don't care...don't feel the good emotions. How can you not even care enough to wanna put yourself around people you care about, people who won't hurt you? I don't care if people decieve me now, either. But, for me, it's more because I've quit letting myself worry over those things...I've quit putting myself in those positions. I've learned to forgive...not only those around me but also myselfz.
No not depressed. Not sad, not happy, not angry I just am here. I have no bad thoughts of doing anything to myself or anyone else. I just go through the motions of day to day life. On the outside I appear to be the happiest person in the world, but I have become good at pretending. No one would ever guess that truly down deep I just have no feelings or compassion for anyone or anything.
destroyed

United States

#15 Jan 29, 2013
I was with someone who was the same way. I never knew. I was absolutely head over heels for her. Did everything in my power to show her how much she meant to me. Then, out of the blue, she was done with me. I've never experienced so much pain. From what I've heard, she's going about her life like I never even exsisted. How can someone be that heartless? If you others out there are in that kind of relationship, you should end it before someone gets devastated. Go find a hole, jump in and pull the dirt in on top of you. Don't destroy someone else because you can't get your head straight!
Missy R

Bowling Green, KY

#16 Jan 29, 2013
destroyed wrote:
I was with someone who was the same way. I never knew. I was absolutely head over heels for her. Did everything in my power to show her how much she meant to me. Then, out of the blue, she was done with me. I've never experienced so much pain. From what I've heard, she's going about her life like I never even exsisted. How can someone be that heartless? If you others out there are in that kind of relationship, you should end it before someone gets devastated. Go find a hole, jump in and pull the dirt in on top of you. Don't destroy someone else because you can't get your head straight!
You are exactly right! If someone's head isn't straight they should've warned me before they had me give up everything to be with them! This person has no idea & does not care what he has done to me in the past 14 months. I try my best to make it thru each day. I fear of not knowing what is going to happen from one day to the next, the stress from everything alone I know is affecting my health. People would rather live a lie than the truth.
Sosad

Tucker, GA

#17 Jan 29, 2013
I'm seeing posts about this new relationship the love of My life is in. I'm crying nonstop
destroyed

United States

#18 Jan 29, 2013
Sosad wrote:
I'm seeing posts about this new relationship the love of My life is in. I'm crying nonstop
The best advise I can give you is to cut all ties. No contact. All you're doing is reliving the pain. Delete them from your Facebook, MySpace or whatever. In order to move on, you have to let go first. You can't change their minds. That's what I'm trying to do. If I minimize the contact, I seem to get through the day better.
Sosad

United States

#19 Jan 29, 2013
I guess I wonder why he didn't love me like this new girl says he does her. I'm just torn up , I'll never be the same .
truth

Lexington, TN

#20 Jan 29, 2013
so sad, close that door and in time someone better will open it. you have to hurt some in order to heal. been there, it does get better. heartless, if you want your emotions back please talk to a doctor about it. it does sound like depression. when i became depressed i would feel sorry for happy people because they didn't realize there was absolutely nothing to be happy about. i thought they were wrong when it was really me. good luck to all of you.
USMale

UK

#21 Feb 2, 2013
Sosad, how did you break up? were they having a long term affair? how do you know they are in new relationship? have you talked tot hem about it, to gain closure?

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