nice guys do not apply

nice guys do not apply

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country gent

Jackson, TN

#1 Sep 8, 2012
I'm posting this in response to comments and experiences that have taken place here in our area.

I have one question I'd like to have answered. I want to know why nice guys get passed over by the ladies. You pick any venue you want it's the same.

A group of lowlife skanks and a group of regular clean nice guys can be in the same place and it's the skanks who get the attention.

So what is it girls? You tell me I'd like to know why when someone wears nice clothes, treats a woman like a lady, keeps his body clean and well groomed , doesn't use foul language, and doesn't treat a woman like a piece of meat he gets no attention at all. In fact he may as well not exist.

Now is your chance to give an honest answer to this honest question.

One last word, we like girls too we just were raised to respect her as our equal.
deanna

Bellevue, WA

#3 Sep 10, 2012
country gent wrote:
I'm posting this in response to comments and experiences that have taken place here in our area.
I have one question I'd like to have answered. I want to know why nice guys get passed over by the ladies. You pick any venue you want it's the same.
A group of lowlife skanks and a group of regular clean nice guys can be in the same place and it's the skanks who get the attention.
So what is it girls? You tell me I'd like to know why when someone wears nice clothes, treats a woman like a lady, keeps his body clean and well groomed , doesn't use foul language, and doesn't treat a woman like a piece of meat he gets no attention at all. In fact he may as well not exist.
Now is your chance to give an honest answer to this honest question.
One last word, we like girls too we just were raised to respect her as our equal.
just keep stroking haha
country gent

Henderson, TN

#4 Sep 13, 2012
deanna wrote:
<quoted text>just keep stroking haha
Do you not think that is a really crude comment to make to someone who is searching for honest opinions?
yup

Sarasota, FL

#5 Sep 13, 2012
ur looking at the wrong girls. there are girls that love the nice guys. we are the ones that normally stay at home because we've been hurt by the other guys so much that we give up. nice guys are rare. we think we find one...and he turns around and hurts us. its a trust thing I guess.
but don't give up. there are some of us out there that would love for.u to find us.:)
Truth

Jackson, TN

#6 Sep 13, 2012
Look Country,,,listen to your pecker,sometimes that works better than your brain.
yup

United States

#7 Sep 13, 2012
apparently u wont find good advice here!
country gent

Henderson, TN

#8 Sep 13, 2012
yup wrote:
ur looking at the wrong girls. there are girls that love the nice guys. we are the ones that normally stay at home because we've been hurt by the other guys so much that we give up. nice guys are rare. we think we find one...and he turns around and hurts us. its a trust thing I guess.
but don't give up. there are some of us out there that would love for.u to find us.:)
How many times I've been told that same thing. How many times I've seen a nice girl get swept off her feet by someone I knew was really a jerk. I've been told that the wrong guys know the right things to say.

If what you say is true and nice girls are sitting at home wrapped in disappointment and nursing wounded hearts it does me little good unless I go on a door to door campaign looking for that concealed nice girl. Nice guys aren't gifted in the art of seduction , we've had no practice sense no one pays any attention to us. Guess we were finished the day we started.

LOL
Do Dat Damn Thang

Jackson, TN

#9 Sep 13, 2012
Come On Home To The Country Baby! Get you a good old country boy who will do you right and rub your feet at night. Among other things.
yup

United States

#10 Sep 13, 2012
ur negatively and harshness could possibly be a factor in why a nice girl won't give u a chance. I really felt for u. because I am a nice girl that has had a run of bad luck. but u ask for comments and then u act hostile when ur not getting the answer u want.
I am an attractive woman in my 30s most nice guys do not have the balls to talk to me. the arrogant guys do. maybe u should man up
yup

United States

#11 Sep 13, 2012
here's u a challenge....there will b several nice girls at the movies in corinth tonight. I know because they r my friends. if you are really a nice guy and have the guts. go up to any pretty girl there and introduce urself. tell her ur a nice guy and see what she does and says. I guarantee u will b surprised.
country gent

Henderson, TN

#12 Sep 13, 2012
I"m sorry if I sounded negative but this town kinda does that to ya. That being said I'd love to take that challenge but, I have to work tommorrow and 4:00 AM comes really early. No way I could do that tonight. I work very steady and never miss a day.

Now I have a question? Are you saying you like arrogance or did you mean confidence? I have the balls but I've never been arrogant and nothing reinforces confidence like a little success. So looked at in reverse well******. See what I mean? No hostility just a bit of resignation I guess.

I'm very sure of who I am and what I want.
from experience

Lexington, TN

#13 Sep 13, 2012
i am going to tell you the truth, as far as i know it. we want what we can't have. we want what our mamas have preached against all the time we were growing up. we want to think that we can be the one that will turn that bad boy around. it's a form of rebelling. and it takes some getting burned and some growing up before we realize that we let the good one get away. not all of us are like this, but most of us go through this. it's not right, it's not fair and it doesn't even make sense. but that's what it is.
yup

United States

#14 Sep 13, 2012
arrogant cocky guys have no problems coming up to me and telling me I'm pretty or hitting on me. if I had a nice guy as an option I might take it. but nice guys don't come up to me. I've even had guys say I scare them. Lmbo. its crazy. I'm just a girl. doesn't matter if I'm dressed up or in jeans. I'm just a girl. I would love for a nice guy to come up to me and start a conversation....but yall fall back in the crowd and let the jerks take over. why? I think u defeat urself before u try.
country gent

Henderson, TN

#15 Sep 13, 2012
OK yup, I'll tell what I think about that. The very thing that makes guys arrogant and cocky is what?

They no that all they have to do is ask and you cave and they know no matter how rough they turn out if you leave all they have to do is ask another and they will give. Cockiness comes from knowing you can take what you want regardless of what your intentions are. "She's mine if I want her" .

Nice guys on the other hand are more reserved, respectful, gentlemanly, quiet, less experienced , sensitive, caring, loving, dependable, successful with material things, dedicated, stable, intelligent and capable. We wear it on the inside and not much of this is really seen if you look at us in the phsyical sense.

It's not that we're not attractive or anything it's just that we're quiet and more reserved.
I had a friend tell me once that she thought my problem was that women felt they could not approach me because I was quiet.(I'm not quiet when you get to know me ). What a predicament ha?
yup

United States

#16 Sep 13, 2012
lol. yup. I guess ur danged if u do and danged if u don't. lol.
u seem like a nice guy that just needs a little push. lol. there are plenty nice pretty girls out there. heck some of us are even hanging out at Walmart....instead of,, how did u put it...nursing a wounded heart. lol.
country gent

Henderson, TN

#17 Sep 13, 2012
May I ask a question here? Where was I when these girls were hanging out. I've never seen a group of girls who looked as though they were just hanging around. In fact the only girls I ever see at Wal-Mart are with guys. Seriously!

Maybe I was there at the wrong time. I can tell you something else and u probably already know this. Guys go in there grab what they want and go. m
yup

United States

#18 Sep 13, 2012
lol. me n my friends go in all the time. lol. and we are single....no guys n we aren't ugly. lol. broaden ur horizons. lol
justagirl

United States

#19 Sep 13, 2012
Here's my opinion. If I go into a room with several guys, I usually end up talking to the bad guys. That doesn't mean that I am attracted to them in any way! But the fact that I'm not trying to impress them makes me comfortable around them. I wish I could find me a great nice christian guy around here... Sad thing is that I can become very shy if I'm attracted to someone and the nice guys are apparantly "intimidated" by me and are afraid to talk to me...for whatever crazy reason. However, if you don't talk to me, then I assume you're not interested.. I'm afraid to approach a guy so I prefer them to approach me. If you see a girl out and you're interested, then strike up a convo. I can tell you from experience...the nice girls have the same thought process as you. We wonder why on earth these nice guys we know keep going after the girls who are hateful to them and cheat on them...and why we never get the chances with the nice guys.
yup

United States

#20 Sep 13, 2012
btw ur getting harsh again. lol
country gent

Henderson, TN

#21 Sep 13, 2012
yup wrote:
btw ur getting harsh again. lol
Did not wish to sound harsh I'm like my topic name. Just asking frank questions. LOL

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