Review: Kristine Cox Mft

Review: Kristine Cox Mft

Posted in the Sebastopol Forum

David Prentice

Gaffney, SC

#1 Jun 9, 2010
Kristine,
More and more, I am counseling men who have been sexually abused. I have gotten some books called Victims No More & Male Survivors. I only have 180 days with these men. We're not gonna repair years of damage but we can begin to address the issue and lay a foundation for a process they can continue after they leave. I have developed a list of basic goals and my thinking behind them. I think it might need some tweaking and so I'm asking you to take a look and tell me what you think. If you could email me a reply I'd be grateful.(seasonofchaneministr ies@hotmail.com)

Thanks Sis ... David Prentice

STRATEGY FOR OVERCOMING
SEXUAL ABUSE

1) Get it out in the open
> Who & what generally speaking.

2) Allow yourself to feel what you've been avoiding
> Stop stuffing it
> Write letters to the affected parties; don't send them

3) Accept that you were a victim
> Their shame is not your shame

4) See your perpetrator for what they were: broken
> Don't condone ... but understand

5) Take your wounds to Christ
>Hes the one who will ultimately bring healing and change

6) Work towards to goal of forgiveness
> When I forgive ... I let go

7) Move beyond
> Be a victim no more.
> Don't let your past control your future.

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