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me

Oklahoma City, OK

#1 Dec 30, 2012
I don't fall very easy but I was instantly his. Whatever we were didn't start out right & we both knew it but in the midst of it all we became great friends. We drifted & then he looked me up again. It was as if we'd never lost time & this time we had a chance to get things right. He had the oppurtunity anyway but gave that to another girl that obviously meant more to him than me. Only hitch is, he still wants me too. Now I'm not stupid & know that if I give in that I'm only goin to get used so I haven't. I wish he'd find himself & be truly happy. Just hope that while he's doin that, that I meet someone that replaces him in my heart.:'(
Kenzie

Searcy, AR

#2 Dec 30, 2012
This sounds vaguely familiar. As someone that was strung along by a man I considered my best friend and love of my life, I can tell you that I absolutely regret allowing it to go on for so long. All I got was constant heartache and I lost a lot of time that I can't get back. Life is short.. You will find a guy worthy of your time who wants no one but you.. Good luck!
me

Oklahoma City, OK

#3 Dec 30, 2012
Kenzie wrote:
This sounds vaguely familiar. As someone that was strung along by a man I considered my best friend and love of my life, I can tell you that I absolutely regret allowing it to go on for so long. All I got was constant heartache and I lost a lot of time that I can't get back. Life is short.. You will find a guy worthy of your time who wants no one but you.. Good luck!
Thank you! I know, really I do. The heart doesn't understand it as well. Lol! I'll get there though. Thanks for bein sweet.
me too

Oklahoma City, OK

#4 Dec 30, 2012
Let him go for sure. Sounds like someone who wasted several years of my life. If he can't devote himself to just you now he never will. Don't do what I did!! Some men require way to much attention from many to be happy. They are unhappy with themselves and will drag you down with them and leave you broken. If he can do this to you now just imagine what would happen if you gave all to him.
Kenzie

Searcy, AR

#5 Dec 31, 2012
me wrote:
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Thank you! I know, really I do. The heart doesn't understand it as well. Lol! I'll get there though. Thanks for bein sweet.
You are welcome! I just know how hard it can be
Kenzie

Searcy, AR

#6 Dec 31, 2012
me too wrote:
Let him go for sure. Sounds like someone who wasted several years of my life. If he can't devote himself to just you now he never will. Don't do what I did!! Some men require way to much attention from many to be happy. They are unhappy with themselves and will drag you down with them and leave you broken. If he can do this to you now just imagine what would happen if you gave all to him.
Preach it!! Everything you said is so true. And that's a good point- talking about what could happen if she gave it all to him. As much as I loved the guy I was with and as hard as our break up and post break up was, I thank God we never got married. I can't imagine how much worse it would've gotten. It took a long time to realize it, but our break up was truly a blessing in disguise.
Happy Sonic Girl

United States

#7 Dec 31, 2012
Y'all are taking this "Love Thing" way to seriously! Why can't everyone just have fun with your relationships while they last...but, NOOO!!! You feel the need for complete monogamy ;.(... If your love is true and meant to be ...you wont have a need to suffer us with your woes of discontent.
Good Luck! ;)))))
Kenzie

Searcy, AR

#8 Dec 31, 2012
Happy Sonic Girl wrote:
Y'all are taking this "Love Thing" way to seriously! Why can't everyone just have fun with your relationships while they last...but, NOOO!!! You feel the need for complete monogamy ;.(... If your love is true and meant to be ...you wont have a need to suffer us with your woes of discontent.
Good Luck! ;)))))
I'm 28. I've had the short "fun" relationships. Now I'm ready for something more. And if you don't like what is posted on this thread, don't read it. It's that simple.
Happy Sonic Girl

United States

#9 Dec 31, 2012
Kenzie...rarrr.! J/S
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I just deleted my original post. Ughhh, why am I always rubbing folks the wrong way. Sorry!
Kenzie

Searcy, AR

#10 Dec 31, 2012
Kelly, is that you??
Kenzie

Searcy, AR

#12 Dec 31, 2012
Well.. I had a feeling it was you, then I saw your post on the other thread. You are the master of disguise
Kenzie

Searcy, AR

#14 Dec 31, 2012
Kelly Finney wrote:
Kenzie...you asked me if the person you responded to was me...yes?
Like a fleeting glimps I saw us as being in a dimension of absolute darkness.
Blind except for the silent voices we know eachother by here on this forum.
Like being dead...and we search for eachother in the darkness. We speak without moving our lips, and feel without touching eachother. I see you with my mind and hear you the same way. Kenzie! We are ...we have something in common. Something that joins us together as one! We are unique by virtue of the way ...by who and what we are. We are all just souls waiting to be released into the dimension of eternity. I feel love for you ...my fellow human!
Your sentiments brought a tear to my glass eye!
me

Oklahoma City, OK

#15 Dec 31, 2012
Kelly Finney wrote:
Kenzie...you asked me if the person you responded to was me...yes?
Like a fleeting glimps I saw us as being in a dimension of absolute darkness.
Blind except for the silent voices we know eachother by here on this forum.
Like being dead...and we search for eachother in the darkness. We speak without moving our lips, and feel without touching eachother. I see you with my mind and hear you the same way. Kenzie! We are ...we have something in common. Something that joins us together as one! We are unique by virtue of the way ...by who and what we are. We are all just souls waiting to be released into the dimension of eternity. I feel love for you ...my fellow human!
And y'all have totally made me forget about "what's-his-name!! Lol, not really but I did laugh. Thanks y'all!:)
Kenzie

Searcy, AR

#16 Dec 31, 2012
me wrote:
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And y'all have totally made me forget about "what's-his-name!! Lol, not really but I did laugh. Thanks y'all!:)
Well, you can usually get a few sincere replies on here before the thread takes a downward spiral! Lol
Kenzie

Searcy, AR

#18 Dec 31, 2012
Lmao

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#19 Dec 31, 2012
sounds like a easy move you want love and he wants you but if you continue your way happy he won't be and love you won't find and he is in your heart because that's where he belongs.sounds like a real love story good luck!

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#20 Dec 31, 2012
Don't set him free you'll never see him again
me

Oklahoma City, OK

#21 Dec 31, 2012
TeflonDon1 wrote:
sounds like a easy move you want love and he wants you but if you continue your way happy he won't be and love you won't find and he is in your heart because that's where he belongs.sounds like a real love story good luck!
I'd give anything to be happy with him but without sharing him, that won't happen & I won't do that. But thanks

Since: Dec 11

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#22 Dec 31, 2012
me wrote:
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I'd give anything to be happy with him but without sharing him, that won't happen & I won't do that. But thanks
why would you have to share if your all he wants do you not trust him?
Happy Sonic Girl

United States

#23 Dec 31, 2012
CRITERIA FOR THE 'NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER':

* Feels grandiose and self-important (e.g., exaggerates accomplishments, talents, skills, contacts, and personality traits to the point of lying, demands to be recognised as superior without commensurate achievements);

* Is obsessed with fantasies of unlimited success, fame, fearsome power or omnipotence, unequalled brilliance (the cerebral narcissist), bodily beauty or sexual performance (the somatic narcissist), or ideal, everlasting, all- conquering love or passion;

* Firmly convinced that he or she is unique and, being special, can only be understood by, should only be treated by, or associate with, other special or unique, or high-status people (or institutions);

* Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation or, failing that, wishes to be feared and to be notorious (Narcissistic Supply);

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