How you know when your marriage is over

How you know when your marriage is over

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done

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#1 Dec 2, 2012
When it doesn't bother you to see or think of your ex with someone else

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#2 Dec 2, 2012
done wrote:
When it doesn't bother you to see or think of your ex with someone else
If its your ex, then it was already over! Wow! The simplicity of people that think their deep! Smdh
Searcy swagga

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#3 Dec 2, 2012
done wrote:
When it doesn't bother you to see or think of your ex with someone else
till death does you part ' remember your vowels
no.

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#4 Dec 2, 2012
Marriage is hard work with ups and downs, and times when you feel more connected than others. Like someone said, remember your vows. Find the connection you once had--something at some point made you want to marry him/her. Rekindle it.

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#5 Dec 2, 2012
Searcy swagga wrote:
<quoted text> till death does you part ' remember your vowels
You watch too many movies and read romance novels. Marriage in the US is a Civil Union. You don't need to take any vowels to get married, it is a legal process.

Insofar as directly answering the question, there is no end all, be all answer. But it usually begins with something very simple, i.e. not liking the way they chew food, etc...

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now I see

#6 Dec 2, 2012
Robert Newbie wrote:
<quoted text>You watch too many movies and read romance novels. Marriage in the US is a Civil Union. You don't need to take any vowels to get married, it is a legal process.

Insofar as directly answering the question, there is no end all, be all answer. But it usually begins with something very simple, i.e. not liking the way they chew food, etc...
I concur, I knew it was over when I began thinking to myself. about him... Do you really have to continue to that? It is grating on my last nerve. All that...

Breathing in and out. In and out. ;)

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#7 Dec 2, 2012
It's vows, not "vowels." LOL
just me

Lockhart, TX

#8 Dec 2, 2012
Searcy swagga wrote:
<quoted text> till death does you part ' remember your vowels
A E I O U and sometimes Y
done

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#9 Dec 2, 2012
The vows were broke when the ex had a affair I tried but could not get past it
done

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#10 Dec 2, 2012
We are not divorced yet in the process
done

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#11 Dec 2, 2012
And I took my vows serious
no.

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#12 Dec 2, 2012
done wrote:
The vows were broke when the ex had a affair I tried but could not get past it
Then why even ask the question? If you are in the process of a divorce then it's already over, no need to ask. And it doesn't really make sense that you say in one breath that it doesn't bother you to picture them with someone else, but in the next breath say its over because you can't get past an affair.

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#13 Dec 2, 2012
bookgirl1 wrote:
It's vows, not "vowels." LOL
Neither are taken, given or even matter to meet the legal definition of marriage in the state. If neither exists in the legal process and/or legal definition, it is Idiocracy to say either or either (&#712;&#275;-th&# 601;r or &#712;i-th&#601;r) of them is wrong .

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#14 Dec 2, 2012
the insight wrote:
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I concur, I knew it was over when I began thinking to myself. about him... Do you really have to continue to that? It is grating on my last nerve. All that...
Breathing in and out. In and out. ;)
Thank you for bringing your experience, strength and hope to the community. It really does help other people to understand if you explain what you have been through and they can relate.
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Cabot, AR

#15 Dec 2, 2012
They start makin up bull crap lies bout u if rather go blow ur brains out then carry on another word of a conversation
done

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#16 Dec 2, 2012
[QUOTE who="no. "]<quoted text>Then why even ask the question? If you are in the process of a divorce then it's already over, no need to ask. And it doesn't really make sense that you say in one breath that it doesn't bother you to picture them with someone else, but in the next breath say its over because you can't get past an affair.[/QUOTE]
I am saying I tried to forgive but I couldn't forget it it changed me I lost all respect and love
Be blessed

Searcy, AR

#17 Dec 2, 2012
[QUOTE who="no. "]Marriage is hard work with ups and downs, and times when you feel more connected than others. Like someone said, remember your vows. Find the connection you once had--something at some point made you want to marry him/her. Rekindle it.[/QUOTE]God gives u 2 reasons 2 end it ... death & adultery. If u want to stay married 2 a ho ... go 4 it ... u permit it - you deserve it. Think u deserve better? Get rid of that whore hopper fast. Dont think it wont happen again. It is a matter of character. 3rd time is easier than 2nd. Adultry is terminal. Marriage is over. Forgive, get out & dont look back. Best advice you will ever get for a better life.
no.

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#18 Dec 2, 2012
I guess I still don't understand why the thread was started...if you filed for divorce then you already decided it was over. Not my business though--just making the point that if you are asking then maybe it's really not over in your heart, or you don't want it to be over?
guest

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#19 Dec 2, 2012
Be blessed wrote:
<quoted text>God gives u 2 reasons 2 end it ... death & adultery. If u want to stay married 2 a ho ... go 4 it ... u permit it - you deserve it. Think u deserve better? Get rid of that whore hopper fast. Dont think it wont happen again. It is a matter of character. 3rd time is easier than 2nd. Adultry is terminal. Marriage is over. Forgive, get out & dont look back. Best advice you will ever get for a better life.
. And the people said AMEN!

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#20 Dec 2, 2012
just me wrote:
<quoted text>
A E I O U and sometimes Y
and w . If you are going to correct. Get your ducks in a row.

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