Lying men with no respect

[TCIALSOMFS]

Why do men stay in a relationship when the entire premise is based on lies? Why do married men pursue women?

I've been in a relationship with a habitual liar. I had never been around anyone that thought lying was the "new truth". Sometimes it was just a lie to lie. I think it's a sickness. Are some people just born without an honesty gene or do they just not have a conscience? It's very painful to care about someone who lives a life full of lies and has managed to entangle you in their crazy web of lies. No excuses: Should have walked at Lie #1. There's no rescuing or saving these type people, and I've learned that you can't love them through it.

Anybody else have experiences with habitual liars?

[Haha]

Yeah my husband.. And any guy I've ever dated.. I don't understand why they lie about things that dont even matter. And then they're not even good at hiding the truth.

[yes]

I had a boyfriend named Ryan kinsey a few years ago and everything that came out of that mans mouth was a lie. I didn't understand it. Why lie about something especially if it has no meaning!!! I think it's a sickness to!

[Ohyeah]

TCIALSOMFS wrote:

Why do men stay in a relationship when the entire premise is based on lies? Why do married men pursue women?

I've been in a relationship with a habitual liar. I had never been around anyone that thought lying was the "new truth". Sometimes it was just a lie to lie. I think it's a sickness. Are some people just born without an honesty gene or do they just not have a conscience? It's very painful to care about someone who lives a life full of lies and has managed to entangle you in their crazy web of lies. No excuses: Should have walked at Lie #1. There's no rescuing or saving these type people, and I've learned that you can't love them through it.

Anybody else have experiences with habitual liars?

I dealt with a dude that lied about EVERYTHING!!
I believe he suffered from "lil man" syndrome. Guess he felt he had to lie to impress people. It was hilarious when he wud get caught in the lie.
And you could KNOW he was lying and call him out on it and he'd get SO angry!! Like a mad lil leprechaun!
Dude thought he was all that and all the girls wanted him. Haha once they were around him enough time they would learn he's not worth hanging around. He'll tell a girl whatever she want to hear to get in her panties, he'll tell her she's the ONLY one (she won't be-maybe 1 of 5), to hear him talk.. He has had an exciting military career, he can do any job (not so much-he's a lazy whiny baby so it better be easy), he'll say anything to impress a new girl claiming he has things he doesn't, and he'll say he's a fiiiiine southern gentleman that'll open your doors and serenade you.. Hahahahahahahahahaha
If you come across someone like this, RUN!!
They DON'T change!!
You can't love them enough to "change" them.

[b_rad_]

Wheww!! Ladies showing their fangs today! Lol
So these horrible guys you speak of, y'all married to em huh? That's funny! Must not been so bad then huh? Far as waiting on ur knight on shinning armor, not gonna happen!! For 1 if your staying with him till some other guy comes along, then ya might be a gold digger. For 2 when a good guys see you will fck around on ur hubby with him, he gonna know you'll do the same. Member the saying if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you!
And if he is so bad but yet ur still staying with him, you automatically need to just stfu!! Leave already!! It will prolly make his day!! So to you women that's married to them, do you Marry horrible guys? Poor judgement skills maybe. That's a defect on you! Or if he was a good guy when you married him but now isn't, hmmm might be you that turned him like that!!

And to the last poster, if you give up ur puss to a guy cause he says all them things, then u must be a gold digger. So ha! Good for your gold digging azz! But to the guy that says that stuff, grow the fck up!!! Either stop saying that lame sht, or get that sht!! If you got to say all that sht to get some azz, you a lame muh fcker anyhow! Too many chicks around dropping azz to have to live an imaginary life! Thoses are the type guys that ain't got sht, and know they so fckin worthless with no real game that that's the only way they can get some azz.#losers!!

[Ohyeah]

b_rad_ wrote:

Wheww!! Ladies showing their fangs today! Lol
So these horrible guys you speak of, y'all married to em huh? That's funny! Must not been so bad then huh? Far as waiting on ur knight on shinning armor, not gonna happen!! For 1 if your staying with him till some other guy comes along, then ya might be a gold digger. For 2 when a good guys see you will fck around on ur hubby with him, he gonna know you'll do the same. Member the saying if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you!
And if he is so bad but yet ur still staying with him, you automatically need to just stfu!! Leave already!! It will prolly make his day!! So to you women that's married to them, do you Marry horrible guys? Poor judgement skills maybe. That's a defect on you! Or if he was a good guy when you married him but now isn't, hmmm might be you that turned him like that!!

And to the last poster, if you give up ur puss to a guy cause he says all them things, then u must be a gold digger. So ha! Good for your gold digging azz! But to the guy that says that stuff, grow the fck up!!! Either stop saying that lame sht, or get that sht!! If you got to say all that sht to get some azz, you a lame muh fcker anyhow! Too many chicks around dropping azz to have to live an imaginary life! Thoses are the type guys that ain't got sht, and know they so fckin worthless with no real game that that's the only way they can get some azz.#losers!!

Nope. Not married to him. Dated him. He wasn't as obvious in the beginning. And I didn't give up the y pie right off either. As far as thinking I'm a gold digger, kinda hard to dig for gold when all he's got is manure. Wait.. Take that back. He doesn't have much of anything. I just THOUGHT he was a good guy.
Luckily I opened my eyes and quit falling for the bull.:)
Happily single now!

[fact]

Guest wrote:

<quoted text>Like we don't know who said this one

nope

[Guest]

Oh but yes we do there are a few that know but it's k kinda cute

[b_rad_]

Guest wrote:

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Like we don't know who said this one

Im guessing like "we" don't know who said this one lmao

[truth]

Women lie and pout off bs too. My ex couldn't tell the truth to save her life. And even after we broke up she still runs her mouth with a bunch of lies.

[Super_Chick_]

b_rad_ wrote:

Wheww!! Ladies showing their fangs today! Lol
So these horrible guys you speak of, y'all married to em huh? That's funny! Must not been so bad then huh? Far as waiting on ur knight on shinning armor, not gonna happen!! For 1 if your staying with him till some other guy comes along, then ya might be a gold digger. For 2 when a good guys see you will fck around on ur hubby with him, he gonna know you'll do the same. Member the saying if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you!
And if he is so bad but yet ur still staying with him, you automatically need to just stfu!! Leave already!! It will prolly make his day!! So to you women that's married to them, do you Marry horrible guys? Poor judgement skills maybe. That's a defect on you! Or if he was a good guy when you married him but now isn't, hmmm might be you that turned him like that!!
And to the last poster, if you give up ur puss to a guy cause he says all them things, then u must be a gold digger. So ha! Good for your gold digging azz! But to the guy that says that stuff, grow the fck up!!! Either stop saying that lame sht, or get that sht!! If you got to say all that sht to get some azz, you a lame muh fcker anyhow! Too many chicks around dropping azz to have to live an imaginary life! Thoses are the type guys that ain't got sht, and know they so fckin worthless with no real game that that's the only way they can get some azz.#losers!!

Well you know I left my lying husband. And it about killed me. But just cause I hate letting go. But man, let me tell ya, he'd tell a lie when the truth was better! I mean I'd hear him lie to his friends and family, and for a while, I was a dummy and was convinced he wasn't lying to me.
But the rope sucker was! And I'm talking 5-10 lies a day!!! Just the most stupid, littlest things.

The first post said, should have left at lie #1. SOOOO TRUE!!!! I even warned him before we got together, "Don't ever lie to me. That will be a deal breaker." I put up with it way too long, then he started lying about his addictions and we started fighting... Yada yada yada.... Now we're divorced and he's telling everyone I beat him up last night. Lmbo.

[lm]

b_rad_ wrote:

Wheww!! Ladies showing their fangs today! Lol
So these horrible guys you speak of, y'all married to em huh? That's funny! Must not been so bad then huh? Far as waiting on ur knight on shinning armor, not gonna happen!! For 1 if your staying with him till some other guy comes along, then ya might be a gold digger. For 2 when a good guys see you will fck around on ur hubby with him, he gonna know you'll do the same. Member the saying if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you!
And if he is so bad but yet ur still staying with him, you automatically need to just stfu!! Leave already!! It will prolly make his day!! So to you women that's married to them, do you Marry horrible guys? Poor judgement skills maybe. That's a defect on you! Or if he was a good guy when you married him but now isn't, hmmm might be you that turned him like that!!

And to the last poster, if you give up ur puss to a guy cause he says all them things, then u must be a gold digger. So ha! Good for your gold digging azz! But to the guy that says that stuff, grow the fck up!!! Either stop saying that lame sht, or get that sht!! If you got to say all that sht to get some azz, you a lame muh fcker anyhow! Too many chicks around dropping azz to have to live an imaginary life! Thoses are the type guys that ain't got sht, and know they so fckin worthless with no real game that that's the only way they can get some azz.#losers!!

New the hole topics. Just got the app because my name comes across here these days but its funny when you get past all the shit talking and lds on here you find so much real advice and true people who would have thunk it..........

[Super_Chick_]

lm wrote:

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New the hole topics. Just got the app because my name comes across here these days but its funny when you get past all the shit talking and lds on here you find so much real advice and true people who would have thunk it..........

Welcome new person :)
Yes, there is still advice and info on here.

[lm]

Super_Chick_ wrote:

<quoted text>Welcome new person :)
Yes, there is still advice and info on here.

Thank you and good night all

[Brady Black]

I'm a new guy too. Anyone wanna welcome me?

[b_rad_]

lm wrote:

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New the hole topics. Just got the app because my name comes across here these days but its funny when you get past all the shit talking and lds on here you find so much real advice and true people who would have thunk it..........

Yea, I'm trying to seperate myself from usual blah blahing. Still hard to not put in a lil crap talk. But it's a working process:) baby steps!! Lol

[Super_Chick_]

Brady Black wrote:

I'm a new guy too. Anyone wanna welcome me?

Welcome to the Searcy topix forum.... Home of the greatest :)

@ b_rad_, baby steps is right. And ur doin great.