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#1
Dec 9, 2012
 
Didn't want to respond to several different threads at once....Combined them all here.

Not all women lie. Not all men lie. Some do. Some lie unintentionally because they are lying to themselves. Some lie because of denial. Some because of addictions that dominate them, some because of past situations they never dealt with or got over. Some really good people lie out of self preservation. Then of course there are those who lie due to low moral fiber.

To answer specially why someone lies in a general setting is about like trying to nail soup to a wall.

You don't want to know why they lie. You want to know why they lied to you.

You can not force someone to love you. We do not own people we can not control them. It is an illusion. Just like when invasion of the body snatchers came and took over my avatar. Someone pulled my strings and made me do what they commanded.

It was however not a reality. It was short lived and temporary. My free will and free thinking are still intact. We can posses what we do not have. All we really have, all we are really in control of, at the end of the day, are our own thoughts, feelings, actions, decisions, behaviors and that is all we are accountable for.

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Dec 9, 2012
 
the insight wrote:
Didn't want to respond to several different threads at once....Combined them all here.

Not all women lie. Not all men lie. Some do. Some lie unintentionally because they are lying to themselves. Some lie because of denial. Some because of addictions that dominate them, some because of past situations they never dealt with or got over. Some really good people lie out of self preservation. Then of course there are those who lie due to low moral fiber.

To answer specially why someone lies in a general setting is about like trying to nail soup to a wall.

You don't want to know why they lie. You want to know why they lied to you.

You can not force someone to love you. We do not own people we can not control them. It is an illusion. Just like when invasion of the body snatchers came and took over my avatar. Someone pulled my strings and made me do what they commanded.

It was however not a reality. It was short lived and temporary. My free will and free thinking are still intact. We can posses what we do not have. All we really have, all we are really in control of, at the end of the day, are our own thoughts, feelings, actions, decisions, behaviors and that is all we are accountable for.
^^^ cannot ^^^

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Dec 9, 2012
 
People who say All men/ women lie, all men/ women are dogs. All men/ women are any other derogatory term, are really saying this....

I have to believe they are all bad, because if men don't lie to all women, then they only lie to me. Which, in turn makes that person fell unlovable or unworthy, It leads to all forms of depression.

Truth is you may have picked the wrong person for you. You may not have spent enough time getting to know them. You may have a broken picker.

Having been lied to is a reflection on you, but only in the sense of you chose it.

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Dec 9, 2012
 
How insightful lol and where's all ur big words??

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Dec 9, 2012
 
gotta_in it wrote:
How insightful lol and where's all ur big words??
Good morning cute face. I left them in FC, I think. Don't dislike me because I used hmmmmm once. I was only doing it because I don't like it either. It falls under the category of just sayin, k thanks, and big girl panties. They all suck. They are meant to incite and inflame.

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Dec 9, 2012
 
This girl is crazy!! Not crazy in good way! Like Kelly, she crazy in good way! You crazy in crazy way!
Dig deeper

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Dec 9, 2012
 
Montrose Beady wrote:
<quoted text>*They are really saying this? ARE YOU PSYCHIC NOW?
* HOW DO YOU FELL UNLOVABLE?* BEING LIED TO IS NOT A REFLECTION ON YOU. YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER THE ACTIONS OF A PERSON WHO DECIDES TO LIE TO YOU.
I HAVE A DEGREE IN PSYCHOLOGY ...YOU ARE GIVING BAD ADVICE...I KNOW IT!
GO SHOUT AT THE DEVIL, moron. It was a typo.

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Dec 9, 2012
 
Montrose Beady wrote:
<quoted text>*They are really saying this? ARE YOU PSYCHIC NOW?
* HOW DO YOU FELL UNLOVABLE?* BEING LIED TO IS NOT A REFLECTION ON YOU. YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER THE ACTIONS OF A PERSON WHO DECIDES TO LIE TO YOU.
I HAVE A DEGREE IN PSYCHOLOGY ...YOU ARE GIVING BAD ADVICE...I KNOW IT!
You are responsible for the choices you make. If you didn't spend enough time finding out whether you were giving your heart, body-- whatever, to a liar, well then that's on you.

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Dec 9, 2012
 
the insight wrote:
<quoted text>Good morning cute face. I left them in FC, I think. Don't dislike me because I used hmmmmm once. I was only doing it because I don't like it either. It falls under the category of just sayin, k thanks, and big girl panties. They all suck. They are meant to incite and inflame.
U suck

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Dec 9, 2012
 
gotta_in it wrote:
<quoted text>U suck
stfu. I always swallow. Watch stalk prey pounce devour.

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Dec 9, 2012
 
the insight wrote:
<quoted text>stfu. I always swallow. Watch stalk prey pounce devour.
Ooooh....a different side to miss smarty!! Haha

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Dec 9, 2012
 
Them shades distort ur vision! Yuc yuc

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Dec 9, 2012
 
Insight I fu@ kn love you

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Dec 9, 2012
 
b_rad_ wrote:
Them shades distort ur vision! Yuc yuc
No way. You tell Dr. Beady Montrose-Montrose Beady the mental health guru, that even if the other person is 98% wrong, it is what we do with our 2% that counts. It may be only that we are choosing to hang on to it and affect our lives.

You also should respond to your message-- He needs you really bad.

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Dec 9, 2012
 
the insight wrote:
<quoted text>No way. You tell Dr. Beady Montrose-Montrose Beady the mental health guru, that even if the other person is 98% wrong, it is what we do with our 2% that counts. It may be only that we are choosing to hang on to it and affect our lives.

You also should respond to your message-- He needs you really bad.
^^ let it.^^

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Dec 9, 2012
 
TeflonDon1 wrote:
Insight I fu@ kn love you
R olev blf gll

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Dec 9, 2012
 
I do respond...less its kelly..cause thats pointless...i just always forget to check em usually...checking now

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Dec 9, 2012
 
No message...just checked!

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Dec 9, 2012
 
b_rad_ wrote:
No message...just checked!
was referring to the thread. Beady misses you real bad.

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Dec 9, 2012
 
the insight wrote:
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R olev blf gll
duh who say what????i don't know what that means.....

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