with someone but want someone else

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confused

Oklahoma City, OK

#1 Nov 30, 2012
What do u do when ur with someone but want someone else? Im not a heartbreaker otherwise id just break it off.
ik not pc

United States

#2 Nov 30, 2012
uhh if you dont break it off...guess what you are?
Beenthere

United States

#3 Nov 30, 2012
If you want to be with someone else then be with someone else. Don't stay and eventually wonder "what if" cause you'll be to late. But be sure that someone else feels the same way you do. Don't be a homewrecker.
confused

Oklahoma City, OK

#4 Nov 30, 2012
Gonna be a heartbreaker ether way. But id rather do it on easier terms.
confused

Oklahoma City, OK

#5 Nov 30, 2012
They feel the same way also. I just dont want to be known as a player or anything like that. Cuz im far from it. But this relationship has been fairly short and weve already had some bad fights. Nearly everyday is a fight. Its hard to love someone like that.
Beenthere

United States

#6 Nov 30, 2012
confused wrote:
They feel the same way also. I just dont want to be known as a player or anything like that. Cuz im far from it. But this relationship has been fairly short and weve already had some bad fights. Nearly everyday is a fight. Its hard to love someone like that.
If a relationship isn't working then it just isn't working. No one can tell you who you can and can't be with. Follow your heart. If someone judges you then oh well it's your life not theirs. Of course I don't recommend taking a new relationship in fast if you break it off with the current person. Be friends for a while and go from there so people don't start calling you a two timer and assuming you was cheating and left said person for the new person.
guest k

Oklahoma City, OK

#7 Nov 30, 2012
Beenthere wrote:
<quoted text>If a relationship isn't working then it just isn't working. No one can tell you who you can and can't be with. Follow your heart. If someone judges you then oh well it's your life not theirs. Of course I don't recommend taking a new relationship in fast if you break it off with the current person. Be friends for a while and go from there so people don't start calling you a two timer and assuming you was cheating and left said person for the new person.
Very well said
New pimp in town

Oklahoma City, OK

#8 Nov 30, 2012
confused wrote:
They feel the same way also. I just dont want to be known as a player or anything like that. Cuz im far from it. But this relationship has been fairly short and weve already had some bad fights. Nearly everyday is a fight. Its hard to love someone like that.
If the one you don't want is not a moron, then pretty sure the fights are because you want someone else. Women are intuitive. Let the keenly perceptive lady go so she can find someone that adores her.

Since: Nov 12

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#9 Nov 30, 2012
confused wrote:
What do u do when ur with someone but want someone else? Im not a heartbreaker otherwise id just break it off.
Being a heart breaker has nothing to do with it.

Listen to your words: What do u do when ur with someone but want someone else?
In pain English that says who you are with is not "the one", most likely they never will be. Now you aware that they aren't the one you are just wasting time, yours and theirs. If their is a heart break it is only a side effect and not the disease eating at the relationship. It will happen down the line anyways unless you systematically tear the person down to the point where they don't even like you.

Which is worse, to break their heart now or make them miserable for a period of time until they tell you to get out of their life? Keep it real. Like what you see in the mirror.
Link

Jacksonville, AR

#12 Nov 30, 2012
Are you married or just in a relationship?
confused

Oklahoma City, OK

#13 Nov 30, 2012
Just a relationship.

Since: Jan 12

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#14 Nov 30, 2012
See them both easy fix;)

“once was blind”

Since: Jul 10

now I see

#15 Nov 30, 2012
confused wrote:
Just a relationship.
Don't be confused. It is clear, you are saying to the one I don't respect you enough to be honest with you and saying to the other I value people's opinion of me more than I value freeing myself up to be with you.
guest

Oklahoma City, OK

#16 Nov 30, 2012
the insight gives me a boner.
me

Oklahoma City, OK

#17 Dec 1, 2012
Any kids?

“NSA”

Since: Jul 10

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#18 Dec 1, 2012
Give her a couple more posts, it'll deflate.
confused

Ballwin, MO

#19 Dec 1, 2012
No kids.

“once was blind”

Since: Jul 10

now I see

#20 Dec 1, 2012
Hungover grouch?

“once was blind”

Since: Jul 10

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#21 Dec 1, 2012
Hey confused, I can see that you are still engaged in this thread because you are willing to give brief answers to what is asked of you. However, do you really have no feedback to the solutions you've been offered.

“once was blind”

Since: Jul 10

now I see

#23 Dec 1, 2012
Kelly Finney wrote:
Seeing that "confused" is breaking the Cardinal rule for relationships anyhow...a "menĂª je twa" seems to be the only answer fitting to your cheating lifestyle. SOUNDS LIKE FUN TOO!!!
lol. How come it's not a 'men ahhh just twaaat.' What?

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