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question asker

Glasgow, KY

#1 Nov 27, 2012
I know this lady that lives in scottsville, well i guess she still lives there.im married and she is not. we had a extra marital fling and was wanting to tell her again i am sorry things couldnt work out like she wanted. Should i try to talk to her again just to let her know i love her as a friend or should i just finally let it alone. I really do miss talking to her, but im afraid to try talking to her again. Just wondering what some of you would do..........If she just happens to see this post an she thinks this post may be about her and she would like to send me a hello, whats going on email I still have the yahoo email address i just hope you havent forgot it.......

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#2 Nov 27, 2012
I think you should ask your wife for her opinion...opposed to asking everyone on here.
gofigure

Duluth, GA

#3 Nov 27, 2012
I think its a question you should be asking your wife. Do you honestly think she would be happy with you and this other woman now being "friends"? If the roles were reversed, would you allow her to be friends with her ex lover?
Anonymous

Bellevue, WA

#5 Nov 27, 2012
lmbo wow yea lets see if your wifes had an extra marital affair and then we can see if youll let her send a friendly email lmbo

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Since: Apr 09

FARTSBURG

#6 Nov 27, 2012
question asker wrote:
I know this lady that lives in scottsville, well i guess she still lives there.im married and she is not. we had a extra marital fling and was wanting to tell her again i am sorry things couldnt work out like she wanted. Should i try to talk to her again just to let her know i love her as a friend or should i just finally let it alone. I really do miss talking to her, but im afraid to try talking to her again. Just wondering what some of you would do..........If she just happens to see this post an she thinks this post may be about her and she would like to send me a hello, whats going on email I still have the yahoo email address i just hope you havent forgot it.......
Uh huh, she wanted you to ditch wifey-poo didn't she? So, in fear of ditching wifey-poo you cut a trail, now you are afraid ms. hot pants will tell wifey-poo and wifey-poo will beat the schitt out of you. I think she should. Just friends my boney arse, you want your cake and eat it too. You might pay the girlfriend off to keep your hind in tact and her mouth shut. Man, you are up schitt creek without a paddle. Oh, I'm sure she hasn't forgotten your secret email account. Next time you want some strange, put on a rubber glove and spank your weasel. LMAO.

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sure

Morgantown, KY

#7 Nov 27, 2012
question asker wrote:
I know this lady that lives in scottsville, well i guess she still lives there.im married and she is not. we had a extra marital fling and was wanting to tell her again i am sorry things couldnt work out like she wanted. Should i try to talk to her again just to let her know i love her as a friend or should i just finally let it alone. I really do miss talking to her, but im afraid to try talking to her again. Just wondering what some of you would do..........If she just happens to see this post an she thinks this post may be about her and she would like to send me a hello, whats going on email I still have the yahoo email address i just hope you havent forgot it.......
I also know what you are going thru. I cared for someone , and lost their friendship by caring too much. What I would give just to speak with them again. Just to clear up so much , and find out if they really were just being mean to me and using me. Best of luck to you , but honesty is not always the best thing , so I understand a little , but think of your wife..
Anonymous

Bellevue, WA

#8 Nov 27, 2012
lmbo spanking the weasel omg im rolling thats the best advice

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Since: Apr 09

FARTSBURG

#9 Nov 27, 2012
sure wrote:
<quoted text> I also know what you are going thru. I cared for someone , and lost their friendship by caring too much. What I would give just to speak with them again. Just to clear up so much , and find out if they really were just being mean to me and using me. Best of luck to you , but honesty is not always the best thing , so I understand a little , but think of your wife..
Oh believe me dear one, he is thinking about his wife NOW. A day late and several Humpty Dumptys to late. Now that little one eyed brainless willie of his is about to get his next door neighbor the Butt kicked. He better be thinking up some new stories to tell wifey-poo. A few more lies won't hurt him, that much more. Those willies can be hard hearted little devils sometimes.

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Since: Apr 09

FARTSBURG

#10 Nov 27, 2012
sure wrote:
<quoted text> I also know what you are going thru. I cared for someone , and lost their friendship by caring too much. What I would give just to speak with them again. Just to clear up so much , and find out if they really were just being mean to me and using me. Best of luck to you , but honesty is not always the best thing , so I understand a little , but think of your wife..
Sorry, it sounds like they used and dumped you toots. They aren't worth it. Just say good riddance. Everyone blows it out their butt ever now and then, no big deal.
question asker

Glasgow, KY

#11 Nov 28, 2012
Una, Your Da Uno!! thanks for your words.. i didnt get to finish my post. the lady and i had know each other for years and our fling lasted just a week but we were with each other every day. Im sorry it happened because even though we enjoyed being with each other very much in that week i enjoyed her friendship even more. i wish it could have stopped before it started. i see her often in passing and speak a few words to her at the supermarket when i see her, but just feel like i should try and let her know i miss our friendship and that im not looking for anything else in return? just advice is all im looking for. if you would rather cut me to pieces and make fun of my post go ahead but you cant make me feel any worse than i do for doing my wife the way i did and hurting a friend that ive know for years.
gofigure

Duluth, GA

#12 Nov 28, 2012
Then u must understand "question". You gave already given urself the answer u r seeking.
onezeroseven

Bowling Green, KY

#13 Nov 28, 2012
question asker wrote:
Una, Your Da Uno!! thanks for your words.. i didnt get to finish my post. the lady and i had know each other for years and our fling lasted just a week but we were with each other every day. Im sorry it happened because even though we enjoyed being with each other very much in that week i enjoyed her friendship even more. i wish it could have stopped before it started. i see her often in passing and speak a few words to her at the supermarket when i see her, but just feel like i should try and let her know i miss our friendship and that im not looking for anything else in return? just advice is all im looking for. if you would rather cut me to pieces and make fun of my post go ahead but you cant make me feel any worse than i do for doing my wife the way i did and hurting a friend that ive know for years.
You shoud know people on here on going to cut you to pieces, because you are married. Sounds like you are in an unhappy marriage & if you are I suggest you get out of the marriage. I am not being mean or nasty, yes people should try & work it out if they can, but sometimes we just can't & we owe the spouse the right & respect to find someone that loves them whole heartedly. If you are thinking of this other person like you are, then you can't love your wife the way a husband should. Everyone deserves to be happy & staying out of obligation isn't always the right thing to do. In the long run you will have regrets & life is to short to waste.
tinponyrider

Scottsville, KY

#14 Nov 28, 2012
Sounds like he wants a friend with benefits.
Soul Brother

Scottsville, KY

#16 Nov 28, 2012
Next door? Hmmm He forgot the first rule of getting some strange... never crap too close to the nest...

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Since: Apr 09

FARTSBURG

#17 Nov 28, 2012
question asker wrote:
Una, Your Da Uno!! thanks for your words.. i didnt get to finish my post. the lady and i had know each other for years and our fling lasted just a week but we were with each other every day. Im sorry it happened because even though we enjoyed being with each other very much in that week i enjoyed her friendship even more. i wish it could have stopped before it started. i see her often in passing and speak a few words to her at the supermarket when i see her, but just feel like i should try and let her know i miss our friendship and that im not looking for anything else in return? just advice is all im looking for. if you would rather cut me to pieces and make fun of my post go ahead but you cant make me feel any worse than i do for doing my wife the way i did and hurting a friend that ive know for years.
Listen well, Asshopper. Ancient Chinaman Long Dong Wong say, stiff willie and hot spot have no consience. Ah so. John Wayne Bobbitt learn hard way. Wife cut off willie and feed to Poodle. Then you send emails, wife not care. Ah so.

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Since: Apr 09

FARTSBURG

#18 Nov 28, 2012
Soul Brother wrote:
Next door? Hmmm He forgot the first rule of getting some strange... never crap too close to the nest...
Long Dong Wong couldn't have said it better himself. LMAO.
wrong one

United States

#19 Nov 28, 2012
I think you should give me her info so i can go hit it too!!
question

Lafayette, TN

#20 Nov 28, 2012
ok lets here it who better in the sack wife or fling?????

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Since: Apr 09

FARTSBURG

#21 Nov 28, 2012
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ok lets here it who better in the sack wife or fling?????
Great idea. As they say, the proof is in the puddin'. Or was that puddin'-tane?
question asker

Glasgow, KY

#22 Nov 29, 2012
happened to run into her last night at kmart. we talked for about 25 minutes. I told her about this post and wondered if she had seen it. She said she did see it but it didnt click that it could have been about her. we both said we were sorry things happened like it did. she did say it wouldnt happen again because she missed all if us being friends. we forgave each other for our mistakes......... Thanks all of you for being so predictable.

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