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Oct 30, 2011
 
Well i hate to put it here, but i have slept with my best friends wife. I feel so bad about it because me and him are really close. Now that the guilt has sat in i dont know whether i should tell him or not. Please try and keep your responses real, because families are at stake. The only reason I am asking for an opinion here is because i am looking for an opinion from a neutral party. TY for any help you can give me. I guess the big question is should i forget it and act like it never happened or just tell him. If it makes any difference i have talked to her about it and she says NO dont tell him just let it go. Please help
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I wouldnt say a word!!! Just don't do it again tho.
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Don't tell him, you know you can always hit it again when times get hard. Married women love a man that can keep a secret !!!
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Oct 30, 2011
 
I probably would't tell him but you are going to feel guilty for the rest of your life and so will she. Why did you do it? I feel for you.
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Was it as good as you thought it wasgoing to be? Prick ! If you told me that you had screwd my wife I would put a bullit between your and her eyes.I would hate to know I had a best friend that would even think of something like that. YOU IDIOT

Next you'll be fool'n around with his daughter !Sicko
U Messed UP

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If you tell your friend will hate you & you'll lose his friendship & maybe even your life if he's that type. You never know until it's too late! The wife will no longer want you because you broke up her marriage by telling. You ruin 3 lives (or more if kids involved).Are you married & did you tell your wife? Would you want to know if the shoe was on the other foot?
It may make you feel better to get it off your chest at that moment but believe me it will not be a good thing no matter what! He might even go nuts, kill you, her, himself or totally postal & kill half the neighborhood or his work place.
Under what conditions did you & his wife decide to screw around? Were you drunk, stoned, wtf?
From personal experience let me tell you. Best to keep your mouths shut & unless they divorce for another reason never speak of it again!
shame on u

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If u decide not to tell him, u should distance yourself from him and his wife. You can't carry on like nothing has happened. You no longer reserve the right to be his friend or be in his life. It would be stabbing him in the back twice. You are human and allowed to make mistakes, what u do next will determine what kind of man u are.
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If he's ur friend and care any thing about him u need to man up, no matter what.
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Do what you fill you need to do but the truth ALWAYS comes out one way or the other rather it is in 10 minutes 10 days or 10 years. And if you dont tell him and continue to hang with him then when it comes out later down the road it is gonna be 100x worse because...you stabbed him in the back and then acted like you were his best friend and sorry huney best friends dont do that but anyway it would be just like you tellin him hey i love you bro then spittin dead in his face. But whatever you do i wish you the best of luck but i hate that you jus ruined a good friendship. You never know though he may be a kind hearted person and forgive you afterall...who knows besides him and God! Good luck! P.S. DONT SLEEP WITH HER AGAIN!!!
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who is he
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need to put that shit on Jerry Springer haha!
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It don't matter if you say something or not, You have wrecked there life and It will end cause of it one way or another. Just remember Karma is a ____ and you will get the same done to you. Live with the guilt cause in all honesty you did your friend very wrong and you deserve far more that bad guilt. And it takes 2 to f$#k around so she is just as bad as you. Both of you are sorry mother f#$#$kers
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So why don't you convince his wife to have her start fantasizing possible 3 somes with her and him and someone else. Eventually he will cave in and then you both can bop her at the same time cause he being a best bud would want to share her with you verses another stranger and who knows you both he and you could get kinky that would really turn her own. Can you imagine her on her knees and you both having hard on's as you watch her suck him then you and then alternating? Then you and his wife just do not tell him ever, who knows he may have popped your wife or girlfriend have 4 somes together then.
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Hahahaha
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Oct 31, 2011
 
to the southern song "When the lights went out in Georgia" google it on line. The dud may suspect that you two have slept together and he is in total denial let him stay in that state. If he ever asks you then you need to tell him the truth but if he never does let it go.

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pass her around to all your friends and then he won"t be so mad at you after he finds out ---better yet put her name on here and we all can get it and we can tell him you never did it to her -----who is he going to believe anyway.are you the only one shes doing right now?---we may all be getting it already.
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Ok here is what you do if he's that good of a friend.This will work.. Take your friend on a hunting trip and buy a gallon of good wiskey drank with him till he pass's out right when he's coming to you gobble down his penis yes I mean bite down on it till it brings him out of the coma.This is only fair and you owe it to him.After doing this for several nites break it to him about the affair and I promise that he will never mention it to her.He will feel like its an even swap.This way your friends with the both of them...That's what friends are for.OLE BUDDY
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what do i do now wrote:
Well i hate to put it here, but i have slept with my best friends wife. I feel so bad about it because me and him are really close. Now that the guilt has sat in i dont know whether i should tell him or not. Please try and keep your responses real, because families are at stake. The only reason I am asking for an opinion here is because i am looking for an opinion from a neutral party. TY for any help you can give me. I guess the big question is should i forget it and act like it never happened or just tell him. If it makes any difference i have talked to her about it and she says NO dont tell him just let it go. Please help
Picture you being your best friend. Now you just been told he had rocked your wife, and maybe someone has already rocked your wife for real. How would you react. The Pain, The Hate,the betrayal, The knot in your stomach which is a hurt hard to explain. After you have thought hard about it then decide. The best thing would have NOT let it happen, but here you are. Hey here is a great idea! Go buy a huge life insurance policy, so your family will be OK financially. Then get into you car and drive as fast the car will go. Here's your winning ticket>>>>>Driv e head on into the biggest cherry tree you can find. Everyone gets something good out it. Hey just a thought. You knew the man rule, but you broke it. Be wishes on your decision. Either way I will be seeing you in Hell. Save me a spot by the A/C unit. I here it pretty miserable.
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what do i do now wrote:
Well i hate to put it here, but i have slept with my best friends wife. I feel so bad about it because me and him are really close. Now that the guilt has sat in i dont know whether i should tell him or not. Please try and keep your responses real, because families are at stake. The only reason I am asking for an opinion here is because i am looking for an opinion from a neutral party. TY for any help you can give me. I guess the big question is should i forget it and act like it never happened or just tell him. If it makes any difference i have talked to her about it and she says NO dont tell him just let it go. Please help
All I can say about this is, when you kissed her in the mouth, did you taste me?
Crazy Pete

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Oct 31, 2011
 
Bro's before Ho's !!! I still think if you keep her secret you can hit it anytime you want. I love having married chicks on reserve when times get tough.

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