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Wife

Tucker, GA

#1 Mar 12, 2013
I cheated on my husband an he found out now he's gonna divorce me but I don't want one how do I stop him he's loosing his mind
Pappy

Brentwood, TN

#2 Mar 12, 2013
Good for him been there took wife back and she cheated again I got a divorce and got my children and raised them by myself now they have their families and there inm their forties if you cheated once you'll probably do it again.I truly hope that if you have children you stay together either way you've got a tough road ahead goodluck
Wife

Tucker, GA

#3 Mar 12, 2013
I admit I screwed up an Ive learnt my lesson I'll never do it again but how do I show him am make him believe it ?
fred!!!!

United States

#4 Mar 12, 2013
It's gonna be tough for him!!! My wife cheated on me almost a year ago,with a friend of mine!!! It's been very hard on me!!! I am still trying to understand why she did it!!!! Maybe in time I can forgive her for all the times she has done this to me!!! I'm really trying but it's tough!!! Hang in there!!!
Wife

Tucker, GA

#5 Mar 12, 2013
I wish he had never found out
Cheater!!!

Ardsley, NY

#6 Mar 12, 2013
Let me make sure I got that right.... U cheated on ur husband, he wants a divorce ( which I totally agree with him ) but u ( the one who had the affair ) do NOT want a divorce? Not down grading u but actions speak A LOT louder then words. For instance ( true story ) my soon to be EX-husband has/had a problem with escorts.... Now personally I don't know if he ever hired one but I do know he searched and called them and exchanged photos. That's an action.... Considered having an affair in my book whether its an attempt or an accomplishment and grounds for a divorce. It's proven, anyone who attempts or accomplishes their affairs will repeat their actions in near future. Maybe u should just let him go... Not being rude but u cheated on him so ur obviously not happy in the relationship proven by ur actions.
tough one

United States

#8 Mar 12, 2013
Don't give up. Don't ever give up. Put him above all else. If you want to do what's best for your kids love your husband. In other words if you want to love your kids you must first and foremost love your husband. Communicate with him be completely honest don't try to hide or cover anything up. You have got to build trust back up which will take a lot of time and effort on your part. Divorce ....... yea you deserve it but if we all got what we deserved we be done for. Speaking as one who has been in his shoes and still together and happy.
A Man

United States

#9 Mar 12, 2013
My wife cheated on me and yes i divorced her. She didn't only cheat once but this was an ongoing affair that was mental and physical.
How could i forgive something so hurtful? She betrayed me in the worse way.
I couldn't fathom the thought of another man being with her making love to her. That drew the live for me! Yes i still care for her because of our children and will help her in anyway possible. Though i cannot be with her as husband and wife anymore doesn't mean i hate her.
Her life has been awful since our seperation but that's what happens when you step out.
I don't wish her unhappiness i wish for her to be happy it's just not with me.
You cannot love your spouse to do that type of thing. It's just not common sense and anyone who stays in a marriage where this has taken place. Your better than me. I deserve someone who will not do that to me.
tough one

United States

#10 Mar 12, 2013
Oh yea its obvious but should be said completely cut off communication with the other Guy. Not one more call text letter secret meeting... nothing.
If I think of anything else ill post but right now don't be defensive in any way admit fault and be honest.
jennifer

Union City, TN

#11 Mar 12, 2013
You were so unhappy with your marriage that you cheated, now hes suppose to trust you!!! I am sorry but dont stay together because of kids they will know you hate eachother. I have a friend that cheated on her husband, it happen awhile ago but he cant let it go and reminds her everyday. He will never trust you again
Anonymous
#12 Mar 12, 2013
Wife wrote:
I cheated on my husband an he found out now he's gonna divorce me but I don't want one how do I stop him he's loosing his mind
Is this Bambi?
Wife

Tucker, GA

#13 Mar 12, 2013
Thanks for all the responses I know I deserve what ever I get but I hate to lose him he really is a great guy I just screwed up
tough one

United States

#14 Mar 12, 2013
Yea I know people that's marriage didn't work out either but it was because they chose that. They chose resentment over forgiveness.
Forgiveness doesn't just come on his part, you have to forgive him as well.
The weak can't forgive. Can't its a word for the weak. The strong can and will forgive.
Your going to get some crappy advice from people here. Its a sewage dump of gossip and the people who frequent here and give their opinions aren't in the right frame of heart to do so.
Anonymous
#15 Mar 12, 2013
Wife wrote:
Thanks for all the responses I know I deserve what ever I get but I hate to lose him he really is a great guy I just screwed up
A lot of people screw up. It's a part of life.
A Man

United States

#16 Mar 12, 2013
I take it (a tough one) must not have much self esteem or pride?
Or obviously never been cheated on.
It takes a brave man not to go beat the crap out of the man that was having sex with my ex wife and leading her on with fairy tales.
I have forgiven her that being said i don't have to stay with an adulteress.
tough one

United States

#17 Mar 12, 2013
I could have kept my pride and let the marriage fail. I chose not to.
Kimmi

United States

#18 Mar 12, 2013
I admit I cheated on my husband with a married man. We both got a divorce from our spouses and r together now. Its not all I thought it would b. we can't trust each other. Its something I fight with. But I just can't let him go. The thing is I'm not sure I should b with him anymore
What

Cookeville, TN

#19 Mar 12, 2013
Any woman interested in talking 2 a 26 year old guy?
really

Lexington, TN

#20 Mar 12, 2013
What wrote:
Any woman interested in talking 2 a 26 year old guy?
Come on man!
bartender

United States

#21 Mar 13, 2013
You know the old saying when you play you pay good luck

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