my husband and i have been married 12 yrs, we found out he has a child from before we were together. i was a widow with a 2 yr old daughter when we got together that he has adopted. he is a great father to our daughter and we are all excited an happy that he had a child, since his son has been comin to visit he has been causing problems with my inlaws telling them my daughter and i are being mean to him and treating him bad when my husband isnt around. now my inlaws belive him and have disowned my daughter. this has hurt her badly. what do i do to fix this ? i dont wont to come between him and his son but my daughter is paying the price ?? i am at a loss !! someone please give some good sound advice !! thank you