why are men so ruthless

[Blondie]

Been with a man for a year. One day he walks away never to look back. I never seen it coming. Tells me to deal with it. I mean WTF Why don't men have hearts?

[brad falcone]

Blondie wrote:

Been with a man for a year. One day he walks away never to look back. I never seen it coming. Tells me to deal with it. I mean WTF Why don't men have hearts?

Blondie, you simply haven't met the right guy yet. Men do have hearts, correction, "REAL" men have hearts.

[Bottle rocket]

Women made us that way. And I'm a real man.

[Beautiful]

Blondie wrote:

Been with a man for a year. One day he walks away never to look back. I never seen it coming. Tells me to deal with it. I mean WTF Why don't men have hearts?

You are picking the wrong men. Good luck, move on dear.

[Robert]

Blondie wrote:

Been with a man for a year. One day he walks away never to look back. I never seen it coming. Tells me to deal with it. I mean WTF Why don't men have hearts?

You drive us away when you play games. You drive us away when you hold back sex. You drive us away when you don't do oral. You drive us away because some other girl does what you don't!!!

[Just a girl]

My brother is a great guy and real man. I see the way singles here treat guys like him. He's become so jaded and yes ruthless. It breaks my heart to see him act like that because he's just the opposite.

[Blondie]

Sad, not even a phone call to check and say hey you ok . To the man who stated I cut him off That wasn't the case. I took very good care of him. That's why I didn't see it coming. He told me the night before he loved me How stupid am I. When I get over the shock and devastation I'm certain I'll be fine. For now I'll beat myself wondering what I did. How can men turn in and off so suddenly ? Not to call someone you were intimate with to check on them after they devastated you. Oh well I will find the right guy someday.

[Beautiful]

Blondie wrote:

Sad, not even a phone call to check and say hey you ok . To the man who stated I cut him off That wasn't the case. I took very good care of him. That's why I didn't see it coming. He told me the night before he loved me How stupid am I. When I get over the shock and devastation I'm certain I'll be fine. For now I'll beat myself wondering what I did. How can men turn in and off so suddenly ? Not to call someone you were intimate with to check on them after they devastated you. Oh well I will find the right guy someday.

Honey, been there, done that....some men are just never satisfied no matter what they got. Don't beat yourself up.. get a hobby, a pet, don't call him, move on. Life isn't fair sometimes. Good luck.

[LOL]

Blondie wrote:

Sad, not even a phone call to check and say hey you ok . To the man who stated I cut him off That wasn't the case. I took very good care of him. That's why I didn't see it coming. He told me the night before he loved me How stupid am I. When I get over the shock and devastation I'm certain I'll be fine. For now I'll beat myself wondering what I did. How can men turn in and off so suddenly ? Not to call someone you were intimate with to check on them after they devastated you. Oh well I will find the right guy someday.

He went about it the wrong way.... I have also walked away from things that weren't going to work long term in my mind. 1st I would've never told you i loved you until i knew i did. Second I would make it very clear that I was giving it a go but that i wasn't serious yet. It works first to not leave anyone pissed and hurt, also being honest doesn't give you a bad name to be smeared. Don't worry it'll work out, don't go looking for a new guy just let it happen. On another note if your looking for a quick rebound i mean......

[Same ole same ole]

Had a similar experience with someone.Why bother telling someone you love them if you don't really mean it? What comes around goes around so when he comes back & they always do make sure you kick him to the curb !

[Other foot]

Same ole same ole wrote:

Had a similar experience with someone.Why bother telling someone you love them if you don't really mean it? What comes around goes around so when he comes back & they always do make sure you kick him to the curb !

Because some men like women will say anything to get what they want. No balls

[Lori]

Blondie wrote:

Been with a man for a year. One day he walks away never to look back. I never seen it coming. Tells me to deal with it. I mean WTF Why don't men have hearts?

Was his initials JDH?

[Blondie]

Lori wrote:

<quoted text>Was his initials JDH?

nope jg

[Less is More]

Because there are very few women named Ruth any more.