Accident On Ulysses Highway Kills Child

Judged:

To everyone that want to avoid the question Where were the parents? There is a little boy that was killed cause someone wasn't watching him and there should be an out rage of why this is happening and how many more little kids are being let out of whoever is taking care of thems sight.. He is 4 years old who in there right mind would allow him to be out by himself in the first place let alone on a bike by a feaking highway. If none of you get that then you have the same problem that the person that was left with this child. People get busy, you can't watch your kids 24-7 but that is no excuse for a 4 yr old to be out there withot someone watching him at all times. If you can't be with the child make sure someone is or make him go in with you. it is that damn easy. Now every one knows what can happen and look at the lives it desrtoyed not only the parents but the truck drivers. Does anyone get that? or is it cause these parents are good people that everyone is acting like it is no ones fault because they don't want to face reality? Someone is to blame! I will tell you it's not the truck driver!! It is the person that wasn't watching this child.

joe schmoe

Judged:

guerita wrote:

To everyone that want to avoid the question Where were the parents? There is a little boy that was killed cause someone wasn't watching him and there should be an out rage of why this is happening and how many more little kids are being let out of whoever is taking care of thems sight.. He is 4 years old who in there right mind would allow him to be out by himself in the first place let alone on a bike by a feaking highway. If none of you get that then you have the same problem that the person that was left with this child. People get busy, you can't watch your kids 24-7 but that is no excuse for a 4 yr old to be out there withot someone watching him at all times. If you can't be with the child make sure someone is or make him go in with you. it is that damn easy. Now every one knows what can happen and look at the lives it desrtoyed not only the parents but the truck drivers. Does anyone get that? or is it cause these parents are good people that everyone is acting like it is no ones fault because they don't want to face reality? Someone is to blame! I will tell you it's not the truck driver!! It is the person that wasn't watching this child.

go blow it up your ass noone wants to hear your stupidassed opinion anymore

guerita

Judged:

you know joe remember what i told you along time ago? Well maybe some people will listen cause there has been so much tragity their and no one can see how it is happening. I am very sad for the families involed. I hope everyone get it now that you have to protect you kids at all cost...

SarahfromGarden

“Just being me...”

Since: Aug 08

1,058

ISP: Garden City, KS

Judged:

They have three other children, you know that? And, kids can be sneaky. In one place one second in an ENTIRELY different place the next. We know that we have to protect our kids at all times. Heck, even the parents of grown up kids with kids of their own want to protect their children.
Now, you and I get along good, Guerita. We always have. But, please don't ask that question. I am pretty sure that they are asking themselves that every single second.
Sarah

DK Ulysses

Judged:

Ivy & Dustin please do not listen to those that have taken upon themselves to judge you, they do not know you at all. They do not know that you are the most loving & caring parents any child could ever be blessed to have. God took sweet Ethan to his side for reasons we may never understand. I always believe God has a plan for the ones he has taken away at such a tender age. Ethan will always be at your side as your guardian angle. Your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

gh-Hugoton

Judged:

guerita wrote:

To everyone that want to avoid the question Where were the parents? There is a little boy that was killed cause someone wasn't watching him and there should be an out rage of why this is happening and how many more little kids are being let out of whoever is taking care of thems sight.. He is 4 years old who in there right mind would allow him to be out by himself in the first place let alone on a bike by a feaking highway. If none of you get that then you have the same problem that the person that was left with this child. People get busy, you can't watch your kids 24-7 but that is no excuse for a 4 yr old to be out there withot someone watching him at all times. If you can't be with the child make sure someone is or make him go in with you. it is that damn easy. Now every one knows what can happen and look at the lives it desrtoyed not only the parents but the truck drivers. Does anyone get that? or is it cause these parents are good people that everyone is acting like it is no ones fault because they don't want to face reality? Someone is to blame! I will tell you it's not the truck driver!! It is the person that wasn't watching this child.

We always want someone to blame for the bad things that happen in life. After watching the news that evening I think that you should use your so called power of the forem and suggest a stop light be put there at the intersection,or that traffic should be slowed down. Something positive, instead of putting more hurt in these peoples hearts, I think that most people will agree that these parents are hurting enough. And if you got all the answers to you questions would it bring that child back?

ohhhhhhhboy

Wichita, KS

guerita wrote:

To everyone that want to avoid the question Where were the parents? There is a little boy that was killed cause someone wasn't watching him and there should be an out rage of why this is happening and how many more little kids are being let out of whoever is taking care of thems sight.. He is 4 years old who in there right mind would allow him to be out by himself in the first place let alone on a bike by a feaking highway. If none of you get that then you have the same problem that the person that was left with this child. People get busy, you can't watch your kids 24-7 but that is no excuse for a 4 yr old to be out there withot someone watching him at all times. If you can't be with the child make sure someone is or make him go in with you. it is that damn easy. Now every one knows what can happen and look at the lives it desrtoyed not only the parents but the truck drivers. Does anyone get that? or is it cause these parents are good people that everyone is acting like it is no ones fault because they don't want to face reality? Someone is to blame! I will tell you it's not the truck driver!! It is the person that wasn't watching this child.

geez shut up already.. no, theres no one to blame shit happens geez you really how to turn a bad situation into a worse one. get the **** outta here.

Ask a Ninja

Willow Spring, NC

Judged:

When I was five and my brother was four, we stole our parent’s car and drove it three blocks before we ran the car up on the curve.

I did the steering and my brother controlled the gas and the brake peddles...

WHERE THE HELL WERE MY PARENTS!!!!

I'll tell you where they were, in the house watching “Newlywed” game on TV! My brother and I were sneaky little brats!

It was an accident. And if this example isn’t enough to illustrate how sneaky little bratty kids can be, believe me, this is nothing compared to all the crap my brothers and I pulled over the years.

guerita

Judged:

gh-Hugoton wrote:

<quoted text> We always want someone to blame for the bad things that happen in life. After watching the news that evening I think that you should use your so called power of the forem and suggest a stop light be put there at the intersection,or that traffic should be slowed down. Something positive, instead of putting more hurt in these peoples hearts, I think that most people will agree that these parents are hurting enough. And if you got all the answers to you questions would it bring that child back?

Ok I want to say I feel for the parents it is a very sad thing and it should have never happened and no it won't bring the boy back maybe I am alittle harsh by saying what I did but that how I feel. I live by a girl that lets her 3 yr old out in the street all the time cause she doesn't want to deal with him. Like 3 months ago her cusin was 2 yrs old and ran over and killed because he opened the car door as it was moving. I told my neightbor that she need to watch her child more close and I left and when I came back home he ran out in front of me and was almost hit. I went over to tell the mother and she has laying on her boyfriends lap not even know where her child was. So what does that tell you? Who is to blame if that child is killed? Oh according to you people no one cause god forbid that the parents take responsibilty for what happens a LITTLE 4 yr old. As for your stop light thing that wouldn't have stop that child from get there and being hit. Parents need to know what there kids are doing and that mean the little ones.

joe schmoe

guerita wrote:

<quoted text>Ok I want to say I feel for the parents it is a very sad thing and it should have never happened and no it won't bring the boy back maybe I am alittle harsh by saying what I did but that how I feel. I live by a girl that lets her 3 yr old out in the street all the time cause she doesn't want to deal with him. Like 3 months ago her cusin was 2 yrs old and ran over and killed because he opened the car door as it was moving. I told my neightbor that she need to watch her child more close and I left and when I came back home he ran out in front of me and was almost hit. I went over to tell the mother and she has laying on her boyfriends lap not even know where her child was. So what does that tell you? Who is to blame if that child is killed? Oh according to you people no one cause god forbid that the parents take responsibilty for what happens a LITTLE 4 yr old. As for your stop light thing that wouldn't have stop that child from get there and being hit. Parents need to know what there kids are doing and that mean the little ones.

if you ran over your neighbors little kid it would be your fault you stupid biatch, the kid is to little to know any bettter

Me in Uly

Judged:

guerita wrote:

<quoted text>Ok I want to say I feel for the parents it is a very sad thing and it should have never happened and no it won't bring the boy back maybe I am alittle harsh by saying what I did but that how I feel. I live by a girl that lets her 3 yr old out in the street all the time cause she doesn't want to deal with him. Like 3 months ago her cusin was 2 yrs old and ran over and killed because he opened the car door as it was moving. I told my neightbor that she need to watch her child more close and I left and when I came back home he ran out in front of me and was almost hit. I went over to tell the mother and she has laying on her boyfriends lap not even know where her child was. So what does that tell you? Who is to blame if that child is killed? Oh according to you people no one cause god forbid that the parents take responsibilty for what happens a LITTLE 4 yr old. As for your stop light thing that wouldn't have stop that child from get there and being hit. Parents need to know what there kids are doing and that mean the little ones.

First of all, you can't spell or write. You don't really know what happened. Do you know who was with him??? No.
But, you are so smart that you think you can judge his parents. It's a given- you don"t have any children or you would know that you can't keep an eye on them 24/7. And if you have children you have been lucky that nothing has happened to any of them. Those who run their mouth the most will one day eat their own words.

InColdBlood

Riverside, CA

Judged:

OMG what a tragedy, Whats more unbelieveable are some of the comments made from Liberal, Ks. Quit trying to be Dr. Phil, or some dumd ass investigative reporter.

guerita

Judged:

No it would be the parents fault cause they are to damn busy doing god only knows what with who to watch there kids.

So if anyone runs a child over it is the drivers fault again where in the hell was the parents and why was the child allowed to be out of the house without an adult with them? Why is it no one wants to say the parents of any small child that is kill cause they were not watching them are at fault? All way lay the blame on everyone else....

Mammy

Judged:

Guerita, Do you have anything better to do then fight with everyone on this forum? You defend Jennifer on one thread and call it an accident but come on this thread and bad mouth two parents who will never be the same again. Why can't this be an accident too? I know that one can NOT watch a child 24/7 and when one has several children running in different directions.....well, it's impossible! Get off your high horse - this community is in pain and NO one needs your nonsense. I'm sorry to come down on you like this but PLEASE stop rubbing salt into an open wound. I pray that nothing bad happens to you or yours !!

guerita

Judged:

Ok yes I defend jennifer cause that was an accident. I never said that this is not an accident but it is also a 4 yr old that was some how left alone and no one cares all they care about is that no one says that the parents wasn't watching the child, are you for real? This IS a 4 year old not a teenager or an adult. You guys are basicly saying go a head and let the little kids out in front of cars,simis exc. cause we won't say the parents should have been watching the children because that means wow the parents or whoever was suppost to be watching this child was irresponsible and now there is a child dead and a community coveing up for the parents. I can't believe that no one is upset that this child was left to be out side alone that is freaking crazy. But that does explain why the comments are put on here from people that don't give a damn what happens in their community and always scared to say what the truth is.

OK Ok

Syracuse, KS

Judged:

My question is how do you know that they left him outside by himself? How do you know that the Mom was not in the shower or whatever and he "snuck out". If you do not know what happened for sure I think you just need to back off. Ivy is a good Mother and no one knows what happened forsure but them. Stop pointing fingers please. I do understand what you are saying but before you point fingers you need to find out what really happened.

guerita

Judged:

Well it is clear he was outside alone. I never said they weren't good parents. But it doen't take a genius to figure out that at some point this child was alone and no one knew where he was and no one was watching him. If you can't figure that out then you have some serious problems...

Please explain

Sarah from Garden wrote:

Just pray for the families. Keep the blame and finger-pointing to yourselves for once!
Sarah

Ive read all the post and I need to apologize for taking away from a post that started out with the best of intentions in consoling one another and being a topic that maybe the family could come to later and see how much support they had.All though there is posting that should not be here I had no right to respond to something I didn't agree with esp.at this time.UB thank you! Im not saying all this for approval or disapproval I am just truly sorry Uly. cant come together and morn instead of defending this poor family. If I could I would erase some of these out of towners,myself included.The family should not have to deal with all of this ugliness.Sarah is so right.My prayers go out to all of Uly.When your from a small town your everybody's mom,dad,brother and sister and you take joy or morn as one

ohhhhhhhhhhhhboy

Wichita, KS

guerita wrote:

Well it is clear he was outside alone. I never said they weren't good parents. But it doen't take a genius to figure out that at some point this child was alone and no one knew where he was and no one was watching him. If you can't figure that out then you have some serious problems...

and yet you still dont know that? you were there?? No one is at fault here no one. there is no reason to make people feel like shit here. none what so ever. they lost their little boy dont think they guilty enough with out you egging it on? come on seriously. things happens. you would not being saying this shit if it happened to you. We all need to do support these people. Not tell them about parenting skills.. you dont know what happened. and you will never know unless you have been there. geez people come on.

Susan Mason