Never equate kindness with being evil or un-G-dly. Your messiah and god was asked to name the greatest commandments. After the Sh'ma he said, "And the second is like it:‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’" Then he said, "All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”<quoted text>
1. I understand.
2. Call it grace.
3. I look forward to the day when you truly repent of all of your evil ways including "KINDNESS"
Therefore, before all other commandments after the Sh'ma, kindness is the next. Because that is to love your neighbor as yourself.