How come Indian boys won't date Black girls?

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HerMajestyQueenI fedunni

Dublin, CA

#1 Jan 3, 2012
I'm not African American. I'm Nigerian. And I'm really not fond of the african american people here in the U.S. But all of my friends are Indian. And I like them a lot. But it seems like none of the boys are interested in me in that way. I'm really good friends with them. In fact, most of my friends are boys. I'm like any regular California girl. Thin, good hair, and I'm really nice. Why won't they step out of their comfort zone?
Joel

Amsterdam, Netherlands

#2 Aug 5, 2012
I'm indian. There could be a dozen reasons. They are probably held back by their culture. Most parents dissaprove if they come home with anything else than an indian girl. They're pretty much bound to it. Not all though. I actually don't care who someone is and where they're from. As long as someone is nice and has something in common, it shouldn't be a problem. Just be more agressive, the indian men does tend to be shy.

veq

Since: Sep 12

Dublin, CA

#3 Sep 9, 2012
HerMajestyQueenIfedunni wrote:
I'm not African American. I'm Nigerian. And I'm really not fond of the african american people here in the U.S. But all of my friends are Indian. And I like them a lot. But it seems like none of the boys are interested in me in that way. I'm really good friends with them. In fact, most of my friends are boys. I'm like any regular California girl. Thin, good hair, and I'm really nice. Why won't they step out of their comfort zone?
Why aren't you found if the black people here
black

Satellite Provider

#4 Mar 28, 2013
Find black or white guys,indians r racist
IgboPrincess

New York, NY

#5 Jun 22, 2013
Look, I'm Nigerian. I too struggled with this idea, but with other groups like Koreans.
I finally realized, now that I'm 17, that the BIGGEST problem here is not them, it's you. Don't choose your "target group" of boys: love should transcend. Because honestly, you're even worse than the people who might dislike you on the ground of your culture (and I say might because, a lot of the time, these boys don't even think "oh, I don't like her because she's black, or african, or whatever" they just haven't thought of you in that way). Not that you're not amazing in your own right, just ... you have to understand that America still has a ways to go, so for a Black girl to be considered mainstream beautiful, she has to go above and beyond. Maybe it has crossed the guys mind that you are black, but honestly, when confronted with a gorgeous black girl/woman, most boys don't ponder "oh, what will my mother think", they think "hot damn, she's pretty!" granted, you do have to be pretty.
It's not fair, but it is what it is.
You can stop whining about it, and either deal, or freaking go back to your own culture where everyone looks like you and you won't struggle so much.
And another thing, don't ever say you are not fond of an ethnic group. It makes you the worst because you KNOW what that feels like and yet you still dare to project that on another group. Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black ...-.- I'm sorry, I meant "calling the kettle african-american."
Lisa

Waterville, ME

#6 Jul 12, 2014
well im biracial and I look more black than white and im dating a indian guy.
Lisa

Waterville, ME

#7 Jul 12, 2014
Im biracial and im dating an indian guy and I look more black than white ,and me and him do want to marry each other.

Since: Oct 10

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#8 Jul 12, 2014
Because most black girls are disgusting, that's why.
I guess even Indian guys have some standards.
statements to a bigo

Gadsden, AL

#9 Sunday Aug 24
The Real Anon wrote:
Because most black girls are disgusting, that's why.
I guess even Indian guys have some standards.
I bet you're not attractive, you're just saying crap because deep down inside you're insecure and like to pick on others because you're afraid everyone can see how fragile your little ego is. You must be a teenager like the rest of us to waste your "adult time." I bet you rape little girls too and say they deserve it.
g

Columbus, OH

#10 Sunday Aug 24
statements to a bigo wrote:
<quoted text>I bet you're not attractive, you're just saying crap because deep down inside you're insecure and like to pick on others because you're afraid everyone can see how fragile your little ego is. You must be a teenager like the rest of us to waste your "adult time." I bet you rape little girls too and say they deserve it.
So based on this you are black, Indian or a mix?

Since: Mar 11

Livermore 94551

#11 Monday Aug 25
I don't know if it's this, but one thing I've noticed is that Indians, more so than other cultures and immigrants, don't assimilate very well. I have a lot of Indian customers at work, and I would say 98% of them are married to another Indian.
g

Cleveland, OH

#12 Monday Aug 25
Ssophiiee wrote:
I don't know if it's this, but one thing I've noticed is that Indians, more so than other cultures and immigrants, don't assimilate very well. I have a lot of Indian customers at work, and I would say 98% of them are married to another Indian.
Lol.........

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