how do i tell my best friend, her bo is not in love with her?

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help

United States

#1 Feb 20, 2013
I love her like a sister, and she's pregnant, but her bo is not in love with her. His is now obligated to her. I don't want her to get sick or do something stupid. I overheard him talking to someone else on his cell. What do I do?
Spill it

United States

#2 Feb 20, 2013
What's his name?
help

Alice, TX

#3 Feb 20, 2013
How is that gonna help?
friend

El Monte, CA

#4 Feb 20, 2013
If ur a truefriend tell her ya its going to hurt her but its better to hear it fromu then anybody else thenlater finding out her bf knew & didn't tell her its like dam if u do dam if u don't but if I was in ur shoes I would tellher hope everything goes ok
Montalvo

Ballwin, MO

#5 Feb 20, 2013
Who r y talking about maybe Rebecca? That girl don't even care bout her dude n cheats on him with a couple guys I know ur talking bout her n changed it around to not make her sound bad but she's a slut becca I'm ur girl bu ur a hoe
Tina

Corpus Christi, TX

#6 Feb 21, 2013
help wrote:
I love her like a sister, and she's pregnant, but her bo is not in love with her. His is now obligated to her. I don't want her to get sick or do something stupid. I overheard him talking to someone else on his cell. What do I do?
Does she have other children? Reason being, you need to think about them too,
Karma

Houston, TX

#7 Feb 22, 2013
all you can do is tell her the truth.. not your thoughts on the subject.. what you have seen with your own eyes. not what you heard or think whats going on, cause is that really the truth.. think of the children as why keep them in a loveless relationship, where both parents are unhappy. is that really going to keep them happy. yeah they are getting taken care of.. but it ruins there mind, keeps them depressed at a young age for life...kids don't need that. personally its there life. who are we to judge... what if you tell & they argue, fight days.. kids seeing this & then she hates you for telling her & ruining her life? & she wants him still... what did you really do.. just think before you do it....
help

Ballwin, MO

#8 Feb 22, 2013
My friend left her husband some months ago,and does have kids. She wasn't planning on getting pregnant by this bo,. But it happened. I know I should tell her, but what if she does not believe me, and she stops being my friend?

“imma come out on top...”

Since: Feb 13

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#9 Feb 26, 2013
that's a risk u gonna have to take... i think every one does it even the faithful ones..if all she thinks bout is taking care of her family then leave her alone... but if its like where her whole life revolves around that guy, then tell her before she stays with him & lets him do it.. they already looking @ her like she blind...
Friendship

Victoria, TX

#10 Feb 26, 2013
help wrote:
My friend left her husband some months ago,and does have kids. She wasn't planning on getting pregnant by this bo,. But it happened. I know I should tell her, but what if she does not believe me, and she stops being my friend?
You will lose her trust and friendship anyway when she finds out and she knows YOU knew all along! Think good and hard about it!
lolo

Alice, TX

#11 Mar 19, 2013
Do not interfere. She and her boyfriend got in this mess (I am thinking they are not married) so both of them should decide what to do. Let them learn on their own. I know you want to tell her but please do not-----and besides someone else will tell her believe me but dont let it be you.

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