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imy

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Dec 14, 2012
 
i have known him for about two years we have been on and off. Suddenly this time he's really done with me. He doesn't answer my phone calls and he doesn't reply to a text. I'll send him pictures to remind him what he's lost and still nothing. I also hear he is doing great without me because he's with other women. I need some advice. What should i do keep trying until he decides to want me back or should i move on and show him I'm happy without him.HELP!!!
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Dec 14, 2012
 
Im going threw the same thing but weve have been on and off for 9yrs but he is the one who cheated and lies to me...Ive seen his phone with him and other girls...and forgave him plenty he will never change I dont bother him he will regret what he has lost..he send me a text 2weeks ago that he was letting me go since he cant make me happy..but he will do the same to the other b*tches! Move on is the best answer they do it why cant we!
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#3
Dec 14, 2012
 
Let him do his thing, U cant make someone love u. If it was meant to be he will be back,just give him the space he needs. & if it doesn't work out there's plenty of other guys/men out there who will appreciate u!
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#4
Dec 14, 2012
 
He was my second love it felt like a first because no one has loved me the way he did. He lost everything to me i was his first girlfriend. I still leave him a text almost everyday. but Maybe you're right i want someone who can appreciate me. All i asked from him was love.

And the reason he broke my heart was because i was accused of cheating. Which i would have never done to hurt him.
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Dec 14, 2012
 
me too wrote:
Im going threw the same thing but weve have been on and off for 9yrs but he is the one who cheated and lies to me...Ive seen his phone with him and other girls...and forgave him plenty he will never change I dont bother him he will regret what he has lost..he send me a text 2weeks ago that he was letting me go since he cant make me happy..but he will do the same to the other b*tches! Move on is the best answer they do it why cant we!
I really do want to move on. I just feel like it wouldn't be the same loving someone else.
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Dec 14, 2012
 
imy wrote:
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I really do want to move on. I just feel like it wouldn't be the same loving someone else.
Stop already!! Haven't ur parents already told u this. I can see why he doesn't reply because you can't stop. Please get professional help.
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Dec 14, 2012
 
imy wrote:
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I really do want to move on. I just feel like it wouldn't be the same loving someone else.
I hear you but with in time you can learn to love that person...Me too I need to move on and find somebody that will appreciate me..
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Dec 14, 2012
 
me too wrote:
<quoted text> I hear you but with in time you can learn to love that person...Me too I need to move on and find somebody that will appreciate me..
Everyone deserves to be happy. So i guess since he's happy i have to prove to him that he isn't putting me down anymore.
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Dec 14, 2012
 
Gambler wrote:
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Stop already!! Haven't ur parents already told u this. I can see why he doesn't reply because you can't stop. Please get professional help.
My parents stay out of my love. And i am an adult going through a love situation. They know it is none of there business. This forum is just for peoples advice.
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#10
Dec 14, 2012
 
True but men attend to find it easier then girls...But we just have to be strong and move forward...They will regret it trust me and when they want to come back to look for us it will be too late we will have someone that does appreciate us...
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#11
Dec 14, 2012
 
Moving on might be the hardest thing you'll ever do but in the long run it's for the best because life goes on! If they can do it, so can u!!!
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#12
Dec 14, 2012
 
He will realize what he lost. He always ends up coming back but I'm going to be strong this time. And most people that would see us together always told me i was making a mistake because there are plenty more guys/men out there who will treat me better than he would.now here is my chance on finding out if they were right.
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Dec 14, 2012
 
imy wrote:
He will realize what he lost. He always ends up coming back but I'm going to be strong this time. And most people that would see us together always told me i was making a mistake because there are plenty more guys/men out there who will treat me better than he would.now here is my chance on finding out if they were right.
we are in the same situation...Dont text him nor call show him you mean it this time thats what I do...
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Dec 14, 2012
 
That's probably the best thing to do.
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Dec 14, 2012
 
imy wrote:
That's probably the best thing to do.
yes remember its a new year need to start it fresh..
Big daddy

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Dec 14, 2012
 
And move on and we need to move on and it's a new year to move on ! Who are you trying to convince ? Her or yourself ?
Just thought I'd ask ! Cuz for some reason we Dnt have all the details , like what DID you do ? NOTHING ! Of course you 2 are perfect in every way , I bet !
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#17
Dec 14, 2012
 
It doesn't matter what she or he did.. This person is simply asking for advice, & what else can u do when ur in a situation like hers? Nothing more than just let it go & move on!
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Dec 14, 2012
 
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And move on and we need to move on and it's a new year to move on ! Who are you trying to convince ? Her or yourself ?
Just thought I'd ask ! Cuz for some reason we Dnt have all the details , like what DID you do ? NOTHING ! Of course you 2 are perfect in every way , I bet !
Nobody is perfect never did we say we are perfect but hey some men dont appreciate it when they have a good women at home they prefer trash. f*king around with other b^tches!!
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#19
Dec 14, 2012
 
I think all men apreciate that , but remember that men like to do outdoor activities (fishing,hunting,golf,softball ect) and most men work there butt off so there families can have the best so when they come home and no one is there or there's no dinner or there having one of there lets yell at the top of our lungs "discussion" w the kids it kinda puts a dent on your expectations ! all week we had been waiting for Friday to go to the hunting lease so the quicker the better , and then we have to receive the ugliest texts known to man cuz you all get pissed . Most men Dnt cheat , but they tend to be flirtatious , very few will actually go snd sleep around but they feel good flirting cuz they get some thing you don't provide any more (a conversation ) a back and forth discussion about anything ! Rather than be talked at ! In a discussion you can't get a word in side ways ! And if your man did cheat why did u wait 9 years ? Cuz u have a doubt ! You know he didn't but he was flirting around ! And made you look like a fool !

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