abused and refused

Shafter, CA

#1 Oct 24, 2008
I am a single mother of a fifteen year old son, who is a great kid. I am lucky that he is a good boy. I finally got the courage to leave his abusive father, who used to provide for us, though through the time he did provide a home and food, he verbally abused us daily, and often would kick us out of the house, because I did not want to have sex with him. Every day my son and I lived with this man was hell, and we lived on pins and needles, but stayed because we have no other family, or friends that could help us. I have tried to work several times, only for him to force me to quit, by tearing up my belongings, while I would be working, or tearing into my sons emotions, while I'd be working. So I chose not to work, and to try to make this man as happy as I could, while he was the provider for our family. This man thinks that if I do not have sex with him when he wanted,(and the more sex i gave him the more he wanted) that he could be as mean and abusive as he wanted. Last christmas, my son walked up and down foothill blvd, for hours, until we couldnt walk any more, and went home and faced the abuse anyway. My son did not get any thing for christmas, well we did get something, the home that we lived in was foreclosed on because, this man refused to pay the mortgage, I had stopped having sex with him, because I thought I had cancer of my uterus, it was to painful. so he quit paying the mortgage and we are living on the street, well I finally tried to seperate from this man, and I went to the dept of public social services, to apply for homeless assistance, only to find out that the voucher everyone else gets, is for a thousand dollars or more I thought I would get the same, the welfare people told me that since I only have one child that I only qualify for five hundred dollars a month plus food stamps, I love that part. I also love the part that they are going to help me to become self sufficient, and provide for my child and myself. Since I will only be getting five hundred dollars for cash aid, I only qualify for a four hundred dollar a month homeless voucher, does any one out there know where I can find a home for my son and I for four hundred dollars a month? I cannot even find a room for rent for that cheap. so back to the beginning, this is why women do not have the courage to leave when they are being abused, every one claims there are people who will help, where are they? I have never been arrested in my life and my son is a good kid also. I see all of these criminals with a bunch of kids living in nice homes on homeless vouchers. So this is why people take their childrens lives before commiting suicide themselves. Never did I think that would be an option, but what else is there? We have been living on the streets, and I mean literally on the streets, in vacant houses, or wherever we can settle in for a night or two. Then while my son is in school, I do what I can to be able to have a safe place for us to go at night, sometimes he gets to spend the night with a friend, and thankgod because then he gets to shower. I hate being a single white mother with no police record trying to escape abuse, the part I hate most is that I told my son my only option is to give him to soscial services for adoption, but then he says he will kill himself. so why not kill ourselves any way. hmmmmmmmmm
Idontcare

Shafter, CA

#2 Oct 24, 2008
Some one get me a friging tissue so we can wipe away this crybaby
oh well

Shafter, CA

#3 Oct 24, 2008
Idontcare, you are the meanest person ever to comment on this forum how can you be so cruel? this lady is going to kill herself and her child because the state of california has their priorities screwed up. I dont see any homeless illegal immigrants they in fact are living high on the hog
bone girl

Shafter, CA

#4 Oct 24, 2008
I wonder where her childs dad lives now? hopefully in some cell, and I hope that the other inmates are giving him all of the sexual satisfaction that he wanted when he did this to this lady and her boy. wake up california look at what we are doing to americans who deserve to have a safe home, we are giving all of the available help to the immigrants, I hate illegal immigrants
go ahead

Shafter, CA

#5 Oct 24, 2008
I am with idont care, go ahead lady if you got the guts to kill your self and your child then do it do not come to the forums to try to get sympathy from us we all have homes get yourown
alabama man

Shafter, CA

#6 Oct 24, 2008
yeah looks like you lose lady
pleasereadthis

Shafter, CA

#7 Oct 25, 2008
this is a devestating thing to read, this lady went through years of abuse, and you all treat her as if she was a piece of dirt, what is wrong with you all. I hope she does not go through with her ultimate plan to keep her child from suffering. This reminds me of the child who just killed himself last week because of all the kids teasing him, then after he died all of the students came to memorialize him, and some of them regreted not helping him. What if she kills herself and her child to keep them from suffering then you all will say what a horrible person this world is screwed up
BLUNT

Shafter, CA

#8 Oct 26, 2008
boo hoo homeless go tell someone wh0 cares
whitelady

Compton, CA

#9 Nov 1, 2008
even though it is not a clear case of discrimination, this is one. the state of california knew when they passed the law that mexicans would be getting the majority of the welfare funds and our state is not about to let illegal immigrants and their families be homeless so they have fixed it to make it more homeless white and black families. show me one illegal immigrant familiy that is homeless

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