White men! Date a woman with bi-racia...

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#43 Oct 21, 2013
i wouldnt do it too many cons to the situation
jania

Grand Prairie, TX

#45 Mar 20, 2014
Why is it that they always want white men back after they have been used by blacks ....?
ThomasA

Birmingham, AL

#46 Apr 9, 2014
jania wrote:
Why is it that they always want white men back after they have been used by blacks ....?
DUUUUUUH!!! The tough guy Black players are all in for the breeding, but not the feeding. Once you're knocked up. their ho's get kicked to the curb as damaged goods and Yo big man goes on to something better, ready, and available without the baby baggage, and child support. Now years ahead, after mother and grandmother raises the child, MR. Macho Man will appear on the scene and want to hook up with his spawn and come up with up with some real deep B.S. why he was absent from his child's life. This human garbage that does this to his children needs to be buried in the local landfill with the local trash!
ThatOneGuy

Elberton, GA

#47 Jun 30, 2015
There is a really cute girl at my job who is also attracted to me. Found out from some pictures on her facebook that she has a half black kid. Totally not attracted to her now. Sorry if that offends some people, but you can't change how you feel.
I'm not going to be mean to her, or treat her any differently; I just won't be pursuing any sort of relationship with her. We will just stay friends. She can live her life any way she chooses, and so can I.
Wealthy by God

Baltimore, MD

#48 Nov 19, 2015
Think different and get someone of a better quality. Look for men with integrity and a diverse group of friends. I bet there were signs that guy wasn't the quality a woman like you would expect. There's so many men who aren't t very worldly and come from a close-minded upbringing. Don't concentrate on their race like you wouldn't want then to focus on yours or your childrens. There's ; black, white, indian, asian, and maybe your best demographicto look into bi-racial themselves. Those individuals may have a unique insight into a multicultural household.
Anonymous

Tallahassee, FL

#49 Dec 26, 2015
LadyDtoosweet wrote:
* PLEASE DO NOT TURN THIS INTO A RACIAL BLACK VS. WHITE THREAD!! That is not my intent and PLEASE save any racist remarks for someone else. i deal enough with that on a daily basis.*
Hello all, I am new to this board and thought I would start a thread of my own after reading various opinions on other websites after googling "will white guys date a woman with bi-racial kids". My brief background: I am white, 35 years old. Recently divorced (husband was black). Have 3 bi-racial (BEAUTIFUL) kids; ages 16, 12, and 8.
I had a friend I worked with several years back. He knew I had kids but didn’t know they were bi-racial. Well once I got divorced, our friendship quickly went to more and eventually we were very close and in love, practically engaged.
Well the more he came around the house and spent time with me AND my kids he started acting strange. One day he told me that most white guys have a huge problem dating white girls that have been with black guys, especially those women that have children with the black guy. He told me that in white guy world is considered "cleaning up a black guys mess".
I couldn’t quite come to terms with that because if my kids were white why wouldn’t he be "cleaning up a white guys mess" if they are indeed cleaning up someones mess? He told me it's an issue because white guys can't go in public with my kids and atleast pretend they are his kids because they clearly aren't.
Needless to say, this caused a lot of problems. Through all of this, he always worded it as " other white guys think this way ". He always made it clear HE doesn't feel that way, it's just the general consensus with white guys.
Well after a while it became clear he DID feel that way and I couldn't take it anymore and we eventually broke up. He has made a few attempts to come back into my life, but I just can't allow it because he didn't only hurt me with his actions, but he hurt my babies.
I do love him alot, and I have no doubt he loves me... but I just don't think he will ever be able to fully 100% accept my kids' skin color, which breaks my heart. He was generally very good with my kids. Never treated them unfairly and certainly never gave them any notion that he had a problem with their skin color. He tried to keep it to himself but after a while it got more difficult for him and became more obvious.
I really just want to get some opinions here of some real men and how they feel about dating a white woman with bi-racial kids? Just as an FYI, I am not one of those girls that thinks she is black and tries to be or talk black. I am the most valley white girl most will ever come across. Not to sound snotty, but just to weed it out, I am attractive and it's not one of those "big girl" things either. They are always shocked to learn my babies are bi-racial. So it's not an issue of I think or want to be black. I would just like to know if I am wasting my time in thinking my options are open when it comes to dating any race. Or am I safer to just realize my situation is what it is and don't even look a white mans way because he will turn away once he finds out I was married to a black guy and my kids are black?
Just look around where you live. How many white women with mixed children with mixed children do you see dating or married to their own race? This should answer your question.
No Mixing

Manteca, CA

#51 Jan 22, 2016
Fat white women with low self esteem allow themselves to get played by negros and when these women realize what losers those kind of people are, they want you to accept their little boo-rats and act like they have a clean slate! That slate isn't clean, it's a little muddy around the edges.
Mama, I need to know,
Why'd you have sex,
With that negro,
You feelin' bad ,
Cause no white man wants you,
Go to the dark side,
Look what it got you,
A little baby ,
Both black and white,
Goes to school when it's day,
Sells crack at night!!!!!
Disgusted

Manteca, CA

#52 Jan 24, 2016
LadyDtoosweet wrote:
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WOW .. some very ignorant racist responses. I should have known most of the responses would come from the guys that are insecure and fear the old tale of the black man. And usually, those are the ones with the smallest d*cks that believe that stuff-- so go on with your "little" racist ignorant selves! I will find a man that loves me and my kids no matter what color he is and he will be man enough and secure in himself to not think twice about the color of my kids.
Why would it make a man secure because he loves your little bi-racial boo-rats?
Is he insecure because you got played by some Afro wearing Don Juan and were stupid enough to bring these little semi black rappers into the world?
You proved yourself a lousy mother when you decided to breed with a negro. I bet us taxpayers are paying for your little turds, too! If you do find a man that accepts and loves them, he's just another scamming negro!
Tony

Oxnard, CA

#53 Feb 3, 2016
No man of your own race will want you and if he does you'll settle to someone that you don't want but have no other options.
Tony

Oxnard, CA

#54 Feb 3, 2016
It has nothing to do with dick size but about how repulsive black men are and conduct themselves. Any woman attracted to that has other issues a white man or any other race including black men will not want you for a relationship just as a novelty lay. It's the truth look around, I'm sure you've seen that by now.
White guy

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#55 Feb 13, 2016
It really depends on the guy. Some white guys would enjoy being in public with a girl with black kids and actually enjoy the fact that everybody will know their girl has slept with black men.
dontlookthetype

Dayton, OH

#56 Feb 14, 2016
I am a white woman, was married to a good black man, had two beautiful boys and then divorced. I describe myself much like you do, no one can believe that my kids are bi-racial, I don't seem the type. And I am far from fat just fyi. I am a very attractive women and educated as well. But when people get to see me with my children, they get it. My relationship with my ex-husband and his now Black wife has always been a really good one as well. I was single for 16 years and some had to do with this idea that white men have issues with the fact that my kids were bi-racial. I did come across that issue more than I want to admit. And sad to say, it is hard to find a good, honest, loyal, hard working, single black man. But there are very good white men out there that are ok with it. In my years dating I did find a few really good black and white men that were accepting of my situation, but for other reasons those relationships did not work out. I do need to mention that I knew what I was looking for and was very comfortable being single until I found just that. With that being said, My second husband is white, and has 2 daughters and a son. My children were accepted within his family very well. All of his family excepts us, even the distant relatives. I know that your first post was a few years ago but if you are still out there looking, don't think that you will not be able to find a good white man who is accepting. My current husband is a strong christian man and I could not be happier.
KingRich

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#57 Feb 19, 2016
dontlookthetype wrote:
I am a white woman, was married to a good black man, had two beautiful boys and then divorced. I describe myself much like you do, no one can believe that my kids are bi-racial, I don't seem the type. And I am far from fat just fyi. I am a very attractive women and educated as well. But when people get to see me with my children, they get it. My relationship with my ex-husband and his now Black wife has always been a really good one as well. I was single for 16 years and some had to do with this idea that white men have issues with the fact that my kids were bi-racial. I did come across that issue more than I want to admit. And sad to say, it is hard to find a good, honest, loyal, hard working, single black man. But there are very good white men out there that are ok with it. In my years dating I did find a few really good black and white men that were accepting of my situation, but for other reasons those relationships did not work out. I do need to mention that I knew what I was looking for and was very comfortable being single until I found just that. With that being said, My second husband is white, and has 2 daughters and a son. My children were accepted within his family very well. All of his family excepts us, even the distant relatives. I know that your first post was a few years ago but if you are still out there looking, don't think that you will not be able to find a good white man who is accepting. My current husband is a strong christian man and I could not be happier.
If you ladies like black men, why go back to white men, when you have kids? Oh yeah you ladies, are just looking for your own race of men to support you, and your kids, while you gaw at black men. Exactly why the ladies here claiming to have bi racial kids, don't have kids with their current white husbands. I feel bad for your current white husbands, because they being used by white women for financial reasons. White women like you ladies, is why more, and more white men are going with asian, and black women.
Paul

Houston, TX

#59 Mar 27, 2016
Why don't you want to continue dating black men ? It's funny how all this used up mudsharks want to go back once things don't work out with the negro. If only it was true once you go black you can't go back. It will take some strong white man to overcome the thought that you sleeping with monkeys and spawn their seed and other people's opinions. Negro leftovers.
Paul

Houston, TX

#60 Mar 27, 2016
Shelly wrote:
I have found a wonderful white man who loves my biracial little princesses. They are out there. We are getting married next year and he treats them like his own to everyone!
Must have been desperate. Cleaning up a negro's garbage. Why couldn't you find a successful black man ? I swear every time I will see a desperate white man with a white woman with a black kid I will laugh in their faces and say how it takes a negro to plough that bitch
Paul

Houston, TX

#61 Mar 27, 2016
KingRich wrote:
<quoted text>
If you ladies like black men, why go back to white men, when you have kids? Oh yeah you ladies, are just looking for your own race of men to support you, and your kids, while you gaw at black men. Exactly why the ladies here claiming to have bi racial kids, don't have kids with their current white husbands. I feel bad for your current white husbands, because they being used by white women for financial reasons. White women like you ladies, is why more, and more white men are going with asian, and black women.
I always wonder why can't this women just stay with black men ? Used up mudsharks always want to come back and their desperates that will accept them. If most white men would reject this women they would think twice about laying with a monkey. Am pretty sure it wouldn't be hard to find another black man as a white woman.
Paul

Houston, TX

#62 Mar 27, 2016
dontlookthetype wrote:
I am a white woman, was married to a good black man, had two beautiful boys and then divorced. I describe myself much like you do, no one can believe that my kids are bi-racial, I don't seem the type. And I am far from fat just fyi. I am a very attractive women and educated as well. But when people get to see me with my children, they get it. My relationship with my ex-husband and his now Black wife has always been a really good one as well. I was single for 16 years and some had to do with this idea that white men have issues with the fact that my kids were bi-racial. I did come across that issue more than I want to admit. And sad to say, it is hard to find a good, honest, loyal, hard working, single black man. But there are very good white men out there that are ok with it. In my years dating I did find a few really good black and white men that were accepting of my situation, but for other reasons those relationships did not work out. I do need to mention that I knew what I was looking for and was very comfortable being single until I found just that. With that being said, My second husband is white, and has 2 daughters and a son. My children were accepted within his family very well. All of his family excepts us, even the distant relatives. I know that your first post was a few years ago but if you are still out there looking, don't think that you will not be able to find a good white man who is accepting. My current husband is a strong christian man and I could not be happier.
You admit it's a hard to find a good black hardworking yet you lay with one and spawn half chimps.You knew most likely it wouldn't work out and you would have a higher success rate with white men. You got used up and now you want white men to take care of your ugly half chimps. Your husband must be desperate. White men why are you so weak ? Their was a time in history where you wouldnt even talk to a negro bedding white woman. Men with children from previous relationships usually are desperate. I hope all you white men that accept this n##g loving bitches test them for HIV if you are that desperate.
Needing

United States

#63 Mar 30, 2016
Paul wrote:
Why don't you want to continue dating black men ? It's funny how all this used up mudsharks want to go back once things don't work out with the negro. If only it was true once you go black you can't go back. It will take some strong white man to overcome the thought that you sleeping with monkeys and spawn their seed and other people's opinions. Negro leftovers.
All I can say is black babies are not to blame. They didn't ask to be here. Don't call them monkeys. Its just not right. They're made from God just as we are
ThomasA

Birmingham, AL

#64 Apr 7, 2016
White guy wrote:
It really depends on the guy. Some white guys would enjoy being in public with a girl with black kids and actually enjoy the fact that everybody will know their girl has slept with black men.
OMG!!!!!! What have you been smoking???? Why would a man be proud of being at the very end of a well worn trail????? NASTY!!!! Hope you've used protection from day one and to the next seven years. If not, her past may be a real killer,(no pun intended,just reality).
Same
#65 Apr 19, 2016
LadyDtoosweet wrote:
* PLEASE DO NOT TURN THIS INTO A RACIAL BLACK VS. WHITE THREAD!! That is not my intent and PLEASE save any racist remarks for someone else. i deal enough with that on a daily basis.*

Hello all, I am new to this board and thought I would start a thread of my own after reading various opinions on other websites after googling "will white guys date a woman with bi-racial kids". My brief background: I am white, 35 years old. Recently divorced (husband was black). Have 3 bi-racial (BEAUTIFUL) kids; ages 16, 12, and 8.

I had a friend I worked with several years back. He knew I had kids but didn’t know they were bi-racial. Well once I got divorced, our friendship quickly went to more and eventually we were very close and in love, practically engaged.

Well the more he came around the house and spent time with me AND my kids he started acting strange. One day he told me that most white guys have a huge problem dating white girls that have been with black guys, especially those women that have children with the black guy. He told me that in white guy world is considered "cleaning up a black guys mess".

I couldn’t quite come to terms with that because if my kids were white why wouldn’t he be "cleaning up a white guys mess" if they are indeed cleaning up someones mess? He told me it's an issue because white guys can't go in public with my kids and atleast pretend they are his kids because they clearly aren't.

Needless to say, this caused a lot of problems. Through all of this, he always worded it as " other white guys think this way ". He always made it clear HE doesn't feel that way, it's just the general consensus with white guys.

Well after a while it became clear he DID feel that way and I couldn't take it anymore and we eventually broke up. He has made a few attempts to come back into my life, but I just can't allow it because he didn't only hurt me with his actions, but he hurt my babies.

I do love him alot, and I have no doubt he loves me... but I just don't think he will ever be able to fully 100% accept my kids' skin color, which breaks my heart. He was generally very good with my kids. Never treated them unfairly and certainly never gave them any notion that he had a problem with their skin color. He tried to keep it to himself but after a while it got more difficult for him and became more obvious.

I really just want to get some opinions here of some real men and how they feel about dating a white woman with bi-racial kids? Just as an FYI, I am not one of those girls that thinks she is black and tries to be or talk black. I am the most valley white girl most will ever come across. Not to sound snotty, but just to weed it out, I am attractive and it's not one of those "big girl" things either. They are always shocked to learn my babies are bi-racial. So it's not an issue of I think or want to be black. I would just like to know if I am wasting my time in thinking my options are open when it comes to dating any race. Or am I safer to just realize my situation is what it is and don't even look a white mans way because he will turn away once he finds out I was married to a black guy and my kids are black?
How did this ever work out for you? I'm in the same situation. I'm white and ivorced from a biracial man with 2 kids who look white. Just now ending an year and a half relationship with a white man who has shown his true colors to me now one too many times when drunk. He called my kids half-breeds. I can't believe this level of racism still exist or that I am dating someone so stupid.

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