do you prefer fat women or skinny women,

do you prefer fat women or skinny women,

Created by Frodoe on Jul 31, 2010

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I like FAT - CURVES

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man

Salem, MO

#1 Aug 1, 2010
Many men love voluptuous, curvy, fleshy women. They just won't admit it because society dictates that only skinny women are desirable, and they want to avoid criticism from their peers. Maybe young kids want thin girlfriends, but once guys mature into men, that's when they want the women with some meat on them.

freebird forever

“Don't Tread on Me”

Since: Feb 09

Salem, Missouri

#2 Aug 3, 2010
Men "like" their women fat, because then they aren't desirable to other men. A guy with a dumpy fatass can treat her like dirt and get away with it, because he knows that there's no one waiting to steal her away. A man with a slender woman who takes care of herself knows better than to treat her badly.

Men are selling out and ending up with less because there's not much to choose from anymore. Nowadays, a normal sized woman who cares how she looks is as rare as they come. Poor young guys! I remember when the girls in school who would be considered average size today were considered fat, and never got a second look from the guys. I guess the guys today are all victims of "Lowered Expectations."
Dom

Jefferson City, MO

#3 Aug 3, 2010
You can't analyze attraction, it's impossible because of millions of ever changing variables. For the most part however, and this is just a summarized theory, I think men are only as loyal to their convictions/attractions as their options will allow.
On a side note, why do some women think they can get by wearing their pajamas out in public? Get your asses out of bed and put on some damn clothes! That's just LAZY! Now there's guys doing it! Mostly just the guys who look like they haven't showered in over a week! I dare the people who dress like that to show up for a job interview in such wonderful fashion as scooby doo pj's.
Actually

Salem, MO

#4 Aug 3, 2010
LOLOLOL I really did have someone show up once in pj's for a job interview. they did NOT get the job. lolol I felt like I was interrupting their nap!

Since: Jun 10

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#5 Aug 4, 2010
Most people that wear their pj's out in public aren't looking for gainful employment anyway.
linda

Cameron, MO

#6 Aug 6, 2010
dont be hatein fat girls

freebird forever

“Don't Tread on Me”

Since: Feb 09

Salem, Missouri

#7 Aug 7, 2010
linda wrote:
dont be hatein fat girls
don't be stuffin' those twinkies and cupcakes in your mouth, linda, and you won't have to worry about it
linda

Cameron, MO

#8 Aug 7, 2010
did i say i as fat, i think it is rude with someone calls someone fat, slow so you will understand, it is not nice to call anyone fat
far from

Lebanon, MO

#9 Aug 7, 2010
"A man with a slender woman who takes care of herself knows better than to treat her badly."
That is the craziest thing I have ever heard. I am slender, medium build. I left my ship because my ex was abusive. We put up with the same amount of abuse if not more....
freebird forever wrote:
Men "like" their women fat, because then they aren't desirable to other men. A guy with a dumpy fatass can treat her like dirt and get away with it, because he knows that there's no one waiting to steal her away. A man with a slender woman who takes care of herself knows better than to treat her badly.
Men are selling out and ending up with less because there's not much to choose from anymore. Nowadays, a normal sized woman who cares how she looks is as rare as they come. Poor young guys! I remember when the girls in school who would be considered average size today were considered fat, and never got a second look from the guys. I guess the guys today are all victims of "Lowered Expectations."
Big Girls

Jefferson City, MO

#10 Aug 7, 2010
Big girls need love too..
Wow

Clinton, MO

#11 Aug 8, 2010
When working it seems like most of the men prefer heavier women, says it makes them feel good, smaller women make them feel insecure.
far from

Lebanon, MO

#12 Aug 8, 2010
About?
Wow wrote:
When working it seems like most of the men prefer heavier women, says it makes them feel good, smaller women make them feel insecure.
What is Wrong with People

Sibley, MO

#14 Aug 8, 2010
What is wrong with people? Your fat, you need to lose weight… These are the reason that people have eating disorders and low self esteem. Would you tell your daughter she is fat? Then how can you tell someone else that they are fat. IT is downright WRONG. I know someone who has struggled with an eating disorder for those reasons. Because one person told her she was fat. And she wasn’t she was a healthy weight for her height. It’s so stupid. Yes there are people that are overweight but I would never think about telling them that they are fat. So instead of calling people names like we are in Grade school encourage them to eat healthy & exercise. And as for skinny girls get treat good by a guys shit my friend just left her boyfriend because she was getting abused…. Now last time I checked that is not being treated well. I know many guys that will tell you that sex is better with a girl with curves.....
Linda

Osceola, MO

#15 Aug 9, 2010
i am with you whats wrong with people, alot of people cant help their weight.
Haha

Dallas, TX

#16 Aug 9, 2010
Tis is tooo funny ! I'm a chunky girl and I know it ain't true about men just liking skinny girls,, cuz my man luvs his woman and is super good to meh!!!!!!!!!!
Linda

Osceola, MO

#17 Aug 9, 2010
Haha wrote:
Tis is tooo funny ! I'm a chunky girl and I know it ain't true about men just liking skinny girls,, cuz my man luvs his woman and is super good to meh!!!!!!!!!!
that is so cool, we see not all men are jerks about it.

freebird forever

“Don't Tread on Me”

Since: Feb 09

Salem, Missouri

#18 Aug 10, 2010
linda wrote:
did i say i as fat, i think it is rude with someone calls someone fat, slow so you will understand, it is not nice to call anyone fat
I don't hate fat girls, linda, but I am disgusted with anyone that is so weak that they cannot exert control over their own lives. Anything that you allow to control you, especially if it is bad for you is a weakness, and should be defeated. If I'm ever involved in a lethal confrontation, I certainly don't want a fat person there to "cover my back." Being overweight ranks right up there with drug addiction and alcholism when it comes to being weak.

freebird forever

“Don't Tread on Me”

Since: Feb 09

Salem, Missouri

#19 Aug 10, 2010
far from wrote:
"A man with a slender woman who takes care of herself knows better than to treat her badly."
That is the craziest thing I have ever heard. I am slender, medium build. I left my ship because my ex was abusive. We put up with the same amount of abuse if not more....
<quoted text>
And you had the will and the guts to leave the sonofabitch. Most fat girls know that they are pretty much stuck with the abuse. If you are taking care of yourself, you can find someone that respects you.

freebird forever

“Don't Tread on Me”

Since: Feb 09

Salem, Missouri

#20 Aug 10, 2010
Big Girls wrote:
Big girls need love too..
Big girls need to stop shoving the mountains of godd*mned food down their throats. Your "obesity lifestyle" is a combination of laziness and me-ology. You think that you actually DESERVE to eat as much as you want, because you are "special." Big girls need to lose weight, because being overweight causes heart disease, kidney disease, diabetes and cancer. On top of being left out of a lot of the "love" stuff, you are setting yourself up for an early death. Is it really worth it?

freebird forever

“Don't Tread on Me”

Since: Feb 09

Salem, Missouri

#21 Aug 10, 2010
Wow wrote:
When working it seems like most of the men prefer heavier women, says it makes them feel good, smaller women make them feel insecure.
Yes, and WHY do "smaller women make them feel insecure?" Could it be that they can't be cocky, hateful jerks, and treat these "smaller women" like dirt, because they know that some other guy will take them away from them?

Fat women usually suffer the same fate as the "bald headed women" in the old song. I'll change the words a little, and you will see:

"But a really fat woman, she'll love you each day. You can beat here and whip her, but she'll always stay.'Cause she knows no one's comin' to take her away. Hurray for really fat women!!!"

I know about this firsthand, because my ex-husband was a drunk and a womanizer. I lost the extra weight that I had allowed to take over my body, bought some clothes and makeup, and I left him for someone who appreciates me. I've been with my new husband for several years now, and he tells me that loves me, and he calls me "beautiful."

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