Dear Abby: Neighbor is taken aback by...

Dear Abby: Neighbor is taken aback by block party proposition

There are 11 comments on the SalemNews.com, Salem, MA story from Mar 9, 2011, titled Dear Abby: Neighbor is taken aback by block party proposition. In it, SalemNews.com, Salem, MA reports that:

Disqus Dear Abby: Neighbor is taken aback by block party proposition Dear Abby The Salem News Wed Mar 09, 2011, 12:00 AM EST Dear Abby: I am a 50-year-old gay man.

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“I am happy”

Since: Jul 08

St. Petersburg, FL

#1 Mar 9, 2011
Threesomes with neighbors? Disgusting. I look at what my neighbors look like and it would just make me cringe. I have the rude ass Canadians that live below me and even the man that is there is gross. The people from Ontario, not much better. The Lays are nice people, but hell no and then there are the Timmons family from Australia. Brett is nice looking, but his wife is such a tramp that most men would be turned off by that......

“Your Gods' Rules not mine.”

Since: Apr 07

Indianapolis

#3 Mar 9, 2011
Doesn't this letter belong more to Dear Penthouse than Dear Abby?
Frank Stanton

Omaha, NE

#4 Mar 9, 2011
that's just typical behavior from straight person and their hump-buddies. happened to me all the time in the dance clubs, some cuttie would want to go home with me and in the corner was the hump-buddy. shameless breeders! they're the accountable ones for every known disease, and every imaginable sexual position to man and woman. call them out on their responsibility to cut down or eliminate chancroid, chlamydia, granuloma, gonorrhea, syphilis, tinea cruris, candidiasis, hepatitis B, herpes, hiv, hpv, molluscum contagiosum, crabs, scabies, trichomoniasis. breeders are filthy dirty disease spreading animals.

NO PEACE.

Frank

Since: Dec 07

Location hidden

#5 Mar 9, 2011
Well, I'm a big believer in not fouling the nest, i.e. don't create problems where you live, work or go to school.

In similar situations of unwanted advances, including both sexual and professional, I usually say, "Thanks but I think our relationship is just perfect as it is. I wouldn't change a thing which might endanger it."

That usually does the trick. If they persist, just keep saying, "Thank you but no thank you." Or words to that effect.

Since: Feb 11

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#6 Mar 9, 2011
I have been asked to do a 3-way with a woman and guy couple. My response was 3-ways yuk, a guy yuk, no offense guys but I have never been with a guy and never will for any reason. I told her that I'm not bi strictly lez and never ask me that again or I will claw your "F" eyes out. No I was not nice about it. Yuk,yuk and yuk.

“Marriage=Love+Co mmitment.....”

Since: Oct 07

Location hidden

#7 Mar 9, 2011
Why is it that so many straight people just assume that just because you're gay, you have no moral boundaries and you are only interested in any sex, any where, with anybody? It's just another kind of homophobic I think.

Since: Feb 10

Woodstock, Illinois

#8 Mar 9, 2011
LindaS wrote:
Why is it that so many straight people just assume that just because you're gay, you have no moral boundaries and you are only interested in any sex, any where, with anybody? It's just another kind of homophobic I think.
I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that they asked because they thought he would be without boundaries. "Swingers" are just as apt to ask a straight person to join them as a gay person. Perhaps they did ask him because he is gay as that is what the husband is into.

Since: Feb 10

Woodstock, Illinois

#9 Mar 9, 2011
Jalene in the wild wrote:
I have been asked to do a 3-way with a woman and guy couple. My response was 3-ways yuk, a guy yuk, no offense guys but I have never been with a guy and never will for any reason. I told her that I'm not bi strictly lez and never ask me that again or I will claw your "F" eyes out. No I was not nice about it. Yuk,yuk and yuk.
No need to be rude about your response. Just as if a gay man were to ask a straight man out, I would hope for a simple, no thanks, not interested.

“Son of Abraham”

Since: Aug 07

Natural Deviant

#10 Mar 9, 2011
Wow, welcome to the 50's, people.

I say if he's interested in Tim then go over and have a drink. She must know he's gay and maybe she wants to watch him and Tim get it on. If he goes over there it's not like he's made a commitment to screw both of them.

I could think of worse things when you're 50 than to have a 30 year old couple hit on you.

Since: Feb 11

Location hidden

#11 Mar 9, 2011
Ron431 wrote:
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No need to be rude about your response. Just as if a gay man were to ask a straight man out, I would hope for a simple, no thanks, not interested.
One person asking one person out is very different than asking someone to have a 3-way. I have been asked out by many guys and simply told them sorry I'm lesbian. But to be asked to do something so disgusting by someone you do not even know, give me a break not a time to be polite.

Since: Feb 10

Woodstock, Illinois

#12 Mar 10, 2011
Jalene in the wild wrote:
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One person asking one person out is very different than asking someone to have a 3-way. I have been asked out by many guys and simply told them sorry I'm lesbian. But to be asked to do something so disgusting by someone you do not even know, give me a break not a time to be polite.
My husband and I don't do additional partners, our intimate moments are just that, ours. I have, however, been asked to join in a three way before, I guess I just look at it the same as any other invitation, not for me, thanks anyway. No harm done.

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