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Scootyscoot

Salamanca, NY

#43 Jan 16, 2013
SadStory wrote:
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Don'tbe a judgemental ass. She works 60 hours a week and is attending school to better her life for her child. She obviously takes care of her child financially, just is unable to do it medically. Insurance its expensive. Instead of criticizing her for working two jobs, going to school and taking care of her child, why not criticize the obviously dead beat dad?
Well said! That was extremely rude and judgmental! To assume that she was never married to the jerk was way off base. They may have been married and got a divorce. Circumstances change. It does sound like she's trying very hard and so many people can't afford health insurance. That is what Medicare is for. People need to give the girl a break! Climb on the deadbeat daddy's ass.
specks

Salamanca, NY

#44 Jan 17, 2013
coco beans wrote:
Don't like what's said keep it off the PUBLIC site.Dugh ! Whine in private !
I'm thinking a better name for you would be coo coo beans! You sure have some nutty ideas!
Get Real

Salamanca, NY

#45 Jan 17, 2013
Mama wrote:
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Yeah, well my 11/hr job will be a $30 to $35/hr job in less than a year when I finish school, and that is starting. I'm not jealous of anything. I have nice things and I take care of my child. Yeah. My child has NYS health care at the time being, but unfortunately, my current two jobs don't offer insurance. And I'm not going to let my child go with out insurance for a few yrs before I finish my degree. U ever paid medical bills w/o insurance? Yeah, 125 shot? U kno how many shots kids get now a days? 200 dollars per office visit? If I didn't have insurance I wouldnt have food in my house for that month when she needed to go.
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Wow, big talk. Didn't know you had to go to college to be a hoe. And seeing as though you will be making all that money just laying on your back spreading your legs and sucking the big ones, you shouldn't have any problem giving back to the county and state all the money you stole from us working to support you and those bastard children so so hold dear.
Mama

Ilion, NY

#46 Jan 17, 2013
Im not the one that asked about child support. I was sticking up for that women. And I am still with my child's father. We have been together for 3 years. I wouldn't change what happened for anything. I love my child with all my heart. Personally, I think u are Asshole who probably has no friends. Get over it. At least I'm not a person making my career as a welfare recipient. You all who have a problem with it can kiss my nice ass. :)

Since: Oct 10

Salamanca

#47 Jan 17, 2013
Onlooker wrote:
Just because u apply for Medicaid doesn't mean u are on welfare so maybe you should get ur story right.. If you are Seneca they make you apply for Medicaid or the nation won't pay for any outside services... So to say people on Medicaid are using welfare is wrong Seneca members are forced to apply for Medicaid...
LMAO
Yup The Nation makes you use the Tax Payers money before you use your own system...
Now there is one to ponder...
And yes Medicaid is in fact the biggest tax burden on the entire welfare system...
Wonder why ?
LMAO

As far as the child support issue. I know a lot of men paying child support for children because the mothers decided to go another way. One pays $289.00 a week for 2 kids. While the mother gets drunk.. But the law is the law.. I think the whole system of child support should be based on a 50/50 split of responsibility based on true cost of raising a child in the real world..
If a parent is working they are already paying for the medicaid. Don't condem them because they are using something they have and will always be paying for...
But this Native's forced to use Medicaid before they use there own system ???? Now that is just wrong...

Good Luck !
pissedoff

Tonawanda, NY

#48 Jan 17, 2013
timginnery wrote:
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LMAO
Yup The Nation makes you use the Tax Payers money before you use your own system...
Now there is one to ponder...
And yes Medicaid is in fact the biggest tax burden on the entire welfare system...
Wonder why ?
LMAO
As far as the child support issue. I know a lot of men paying child support for children because the mothers decided to go another way. One pays $289.00 a week for 2 kids. While the mother gets drunk.. But the law is the law.. I think the whole system of child support should be based on a 50/50 split of responsibility based on true cost of raising a child in the real world..
If a parent is working they are already paying for the medicaid. Don't condem them because they are using something they have and will always be paying for...
But this Native's forced to use Medicaid before they use there own system ???? Now that is just wrong...
Good Luck !
Deadbeat dad is a bullshit term, I paid support and had full coverage health insurance on my child through my full time job. My ex wife was on welfare and used medicaide rather than my insurance and medicaide tried to get full reimbursement from me. She used all the support money for booze and drugs because it was paid to her in cash. She was sleeping around with everyone everywhere. I had joint custody and liberal visitation rights but she would not let me see my child so I stopped paying the child support and I was a Deadbeat, seems that the only thing enforceable on the divorce agreement concerned support and insurance or I would go to jail and If I didn't have my child back from visitation on time I would be arrested for custodial interference but I could be at her house on time and wait six hours for her to come back plastered from the bar. I don't believe the deadbeat dad bullshit unless I see it happening with my own eyes. Your right there are deadbeat dads but it is also a word used for sympathy rather than based on facts.
pissedoff

Tonawanda, NY

#49 Jan 17, 2013
Sorry Tim for not stating that I agree with your post, you are right, I full agree

Since: Oct 10

Salamanca

#50 Jan 18, 2013
pissedoff wrote:
Sorry Tim for not stating that I agree with your post, you are right, I full agree
Oh trust me. I understand all to well the issues a man or woman faces over child support laws. Not to mention the custody issues or even the visitation issues..

I understand the lady asking why only $25. a month when he is employed as well.. Thus my post on it...

Only real fact on any of it is the children end up paying the real price because of parents using kids to strike out against each other in anger..

That is a price nobody should ever have to pay..

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