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What would you do if your kid came home and said s/he was gay?

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#1 Apr 24, 2012
Would you call all you family and friends and tell them that little Jack or Jill is either a lesbian or gay? How about the pronounced gay/lesbian siblings; would you tell them? What about if your close to the church you attend would you tell the priest and people who attend or volunteer for/with? Would you tell your co-workers?

Finally; what would YOUR feelings be?
come on now

Salamanca, NY

#2 Apr 25, 2012
It would NOT make a difference. I would not care who knew or didn't know. The bravest thing a person can do in life is dare be themselves.
Are you Kidding

Buffalo, NY

#3 Apr 25, 2012
Well it wouldn't be a surprise , if you raised the child you obviously New it was gay , myself I'm straight , an so are my kids, but if one was gay who cares? Now if 2 were gay , Id half to Pound the old lady wit a blunt stick , No just kiddin, who cares?
come on now

Salamanca, NY

#4 Apr 25, 2012
Are you Kidding wrote:
Well it wouldn't be a surprise , if you raised the child you obviously New it was gay , myself I'm straight , an so are my kids, but if one was gay who cares? Now if 2 were gay , Id half to Pound the old lady wit a blunt stick , No just kiddin, who cares?
good point, a parent already knows.
I am also straight, but figure Just because it's not for me doesn't make it wrong.
(sorry for the double post above. My computer is acting up today.)
hard question

Buffalo, NY

#5 Apr 25, 2012
That really is a hard question to answer. For one thing, I don't think a parent automatically would know if their child is gay. You always want the best for your kids and want them to achieve so much that you don't really see what other people see.

I would accept him or her for whoever they are, even if it took a few hours to straighten out my feelings. It's not about me!
wehaveasadcity

Frisco, TX

#6 Apr 25, 2012
I would be accepting. I believe we are born to be who we were meant to be. That being said, I would be concerned for my child because of how he/she would be treated by others.
Yesit true

United States

#7 Apr 25, 2012
IknowU but Udontknow ME wrote:
Would you call all you family and friends and tell them that little Jack or Jill is either a lesbian or gay? How about the pronounced gay/lesbian siblings; would you tell them? What about if your close to the church you attend would you tell the priest and people who attend or volunteer for/with? Would you tell your co-workers?

Finally; what would YOUR feelings be?
I'd say WELCOME TO OUR FAMILY WE'VE WONDERED WHEN YOUD SEE THE LIGHT and well be glad to pass on our knowledge!
A real white

United States

#8 Apr 25, 2012
I see all the Indians would accept their gay warrior, no wonder the whites kicked your ass and drove u to the Rez.
Are you Kidding

Buffalo, NY

#9 Apr 25, 2012
The whole Deal is people aren't used to it yet but they are getting better, Just like the Blacks and the Whites , they don't accept it YET , its Not a Big Deal anymore , being openly Gay as a child would be really hard on the Kid , I think I'd let them pass through school at a low Key to avoid all the teasing they most likely get. 50 years from now nobody will care.
Yesit true

Buffalo, NY

#10 Apr 25, 2012
Yesit true wrote:
<quoted text>I'd say WELCOME TO OUR FAMILY WE'VE WONDERED WHEN YOUD SEE THE LIGHT and well be glad to pass on our knowledge!
u can never be me but nice i try co quit typin in caps dead give away pederass keep yo van and candy out my town
Yesit true

Buffalo, NY

#11 Apr 25, 2012
IknowU but Udontknow ME wrote:
Would you call all you family and friends and tell them that little Jack or Jill is either a lesbian or gay? How about the pronounced gay/lesbian siblings; would you tell them? What about if your close to the church you attend would you tell the priest and people who attend or volunteer for/with? Would you tell your co-workers?

Finally; what would YOUR feelings be?
just tell your parents sure they dont care
please don't be stupid

Frisco, TX

#12 Apr 25, 2012
I would kick their ass out on the streets like the piece of turd I am!!!!!
Whatever

Frisco, TX

#13 Apr 25, 2012
I had my children to love them no matter what!
Yesit true

United States

#14 Apr 25, 2012
[QUOTE who="please don't be stupid"]I would kick their ass out on the streets like the piece of turd I am!!!!![/QUOTE]

That's not nice they can't help being a gay person it's usually the same as their parents, like me.
dur dur is gay

United States

#15 Apr 25, 2012
I'd send them to a t. O r. I. O. T grainy
Train station to walk in front of a cho cho
Yesit true

Buffalo, NY

#16 Apr 25, 2012
Yesit true wrote:
[QUOTE who="please don't be stupid"]I would kick their ass out on the streets like the piece of turd I am!!!!!"

That's not nice they can't help being a gay person it's usually the same as their parents, like me.
none of u can be me but it is nice to know u have nothin better to do then sit home and pretend u are
Yesit true

United States

#17 Apr 25, 2012
Yesit true wrote:
<quoted text>none of u can be me but it is nice to know u have nothin better to do then sit home and pretend u are
That's right stop trying to be me, we all know there is only one me and that's me, so leave me alone and keep me out of your posting about me; understand
Composed by ME!

Since: Apr 12

Buffalo, NY

#18 Apr 25, 2012
Yesit true wrote:
<quoted text>That's right stop trying to be me, we all know there is only one me and that's me, so leave me alone and keep me out of your posting about me; understand
Composed by ME!
doh
blahblahblah

Buffalo, NY

#19 Apr 25, 2012
why do these threads always have to turn negative. this started out to be a decent thread with someone asking a serious question, and then not even a half hour later it had to turn negative.. how upsetting.

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#20 Apr 25, 2012
Probably because there are a lot of different unregistered Yesit true posters trying to cause trouble.

I would be torn between my child, faith, and the reason(s) why my child has decided to be this way. Is it because something happened within his social life which traumatized him or, in his upbringing, or her sexual education. No mater why I'd reassure my child prior to talking with them that our love and bond is unwavering and that s;he will always have the support of our family! Yes its a difficult question to answer but think of it this way, it could be worse a police officer could come to your door with a notice that your child has been killed in an automobile accident, or your child informs you s/he is an addict, a child molester or murderer. At least there isn't a crime involved with your child's sexuality.

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