Common Ground

Powell, TN

#1 Nov 8, 2012
I can only climax when Im by myself. No man has ever been able to do this for me. Is it normal?
Agree totally

Powell, TN

#2 Nov 8, 2012
Yep vibrator is the way to go!!!!!
Medically

Blaine, TN

#3 Nov 8, 2012
Common Ground wrote:
I can only climax when Im by myself. No man has ever been able to do this for me. Is it normal?
Medically speaking, there are actual disorders for that kind of thing. Id start by seeing a sex therapist if you're serious. Work through it, you'll be fine.
Common Ground

Powell, TN

#4 Nov 9, 2012
Medically wrote:
<quoted text>
Medically speaking, there are actual disorders for that kind of thing. Id start by seeing a sex therapist if you're serious. Work through it, you'll be fine.
I have seen a therapist and she claimed the majority of women cant climax during intercourse. My first husband was huge and my current husband is average size, my therapist said that had nothing to do with it and it was completely normal. Just womdering if any other women had this problem.
Wycoffs butthole

Powell, TN

#5 Nov 9, 2012
Whenever my friend Wycoffs penis is having trouble blowing a load I usaually get a finger or two crammed in me. Next thing you know the job is done.
Common Ground

Powell, TN

#6 Nov 9, 2012
Wycoffs butthole wrote:
Whenever my friend Wycoffs penis is having trouble blowing a load I usaually get a finger or two crammed in me. Next thing you know the job is done.
Its a shame grown people cant have a grown up conversation without childish stuff like this.
Medically

Blaine, TN

#7 Nov 9, 2012
I don't know anyone with the issue, mind, my friends and I don't talk in depth about those things often. However, my understanding is that it is quite common. Personally, I think it is a mental thing for most. I think the couple needs to learn how to read each other, or even flatly communicate. And I think, often, men need to remember that the female climax is 90% a mental thing. They need to treat intimate times as such too... focus on her needs and her mentality. Often, I think this might help solve those problems.
Medically

Blaine, TN

#8 Nov 9, 2012
It is also important to remember, the goal of intimacy is together time, not climax. Therefore, there is less pressure to acquire any specific goal, less stress and focus on actually climaxing and more time simply enjoying your partner.
Common Ground

Powell, TN

#9 Nov 9, 2012
Medically wrote:
It is also important to remember, the goal of intimacy is together time, not climax. Therefore, there is less pressure to acquire any specific goal, less stress and focus on actually climaxing and more time simply enjoying your partner.
So true. I thank you for your advice, you are obviously a well educated individual. I read earlier today that 90 percent of women cant climax during intercourse but some could during oral sex.
MorknMindy

Powell, TN

#10 Nov 9, 2012
My wife used to have the same problem until I used a method called "the Shocker". It works everytime. Also try having your husband make love to you from behind you at the same time stimulating your clitorus with his finger, it works!
Cats meow

Powell, TN

#11 Nov 9, 2012
U wanna have a mind blowing orgasm hop into a hot tub and turn the jets on full blast. Press your clitty up to the jets and enjoy!!!!!!
grainger guy

Rutledge, TN

#12 Nov 9, 2012
Agree totally wrote:
Yep vibrator is the way to go!!!!!
You need to meet me. I can make any lady scream in orgasm, not bragging. I just hate when I hear of a lady that is in distress.

I am the magic man, with only my index finger I can make you a true believer.
Medically

Blaine, TN

#13 Nov 9, 2012
Common Ground wrote:
<quoted text>So true. I thank you for your advice, you are obviously a well educated individual. I read earlier today that 90 percent of women cant climax during intercourse but some could during oral sex.
I'm just saying, if it were me, I would work on building more connection during sex and enjoying my partner... easier said than done, but just let it go... and you're welcome.:)
say what

Powell, TN

#15 Nov 9, 2012
Cats meow wrote:
U wanna have a mind blowing orgasm hop into a hot tub and turn the jets on full blast. Press your clitty up to the jets and enjoy!!!!!!
Good lord, why are you giving advice such as this. She would blow her clitty up and off...are you crazy???
Go for it

Knoxville, TN

#16 Nov 9, 2012
The best love is the love you give yourself.
GC, needs to learn self gratification. Oh yes, try a little professional lubricate and go for it...
Any man or woman is better in fantasy.
Expert

Powell, TN

#17 Nov 9, 2012
@ Common Ground. I have never used a vibrator and I have never had problems having an orgasm. Sometimes you can move your body and he can move his in certain ways that help to hit your sensitive spots. Your clit not only provides a possible orgasm, your g-spot inside your vagina does also. You can find the g-spot by having your partner insert his finger upright, and do a "come-here" motion with his finger. He can also hit this spot with his penis if you do it mission style (the regular way) and you raise your hips. This will take some practice but once you get the position down, I promise you will look forward to making love.

It takes time to explore your partner and for each of you to know one another in an intimate way. Always ask what he/she likes, and tell your partner what you like...even if they don't ask.

Sometimes there can be medical issues, but if your having orgasms alone, there shouldn't be any problems having them with someone else. Hope this helps.

“Coaching pos. available ”

Since: Nov 12

Location hidden

#18 Nov 9, 2012
It's all about foreplay and how she really feels about you. Try a samall or even a more expensive gift and a night out made just for her. Then a full body massage and a long passionate kiss/make-out experience. Tell her how important she is to you and you love everything about her. Make her feel sexy and beautiful. Then be a "giver" in bed. Make your desires secondary to her needs at the right time. Afterward, stroke her hair and talk about how lucky you are to have her and that you love her (and mean it). I promise she will think you are wonderful for at least a few days and your relationship will improve.*women like a confident (not cocky) man. It works wonders for me!
Cats meow

Powell, TN

#19 Nov 10, 2012
say what wrote:
<quoted text>
Good lord, why are you giving advice such as this. She would blow her clitty up and off...are you crazy???
Im telling you this is this most intense way to have an orgasm. I found out about it from a friend of mine while we were at thet beach in a condo with a jacuzzi. Needless to say when my husband and I built our new house I made sure we installed a tub with jacuzzi jets.
taylorswiftfan

Powell, TN

#20 Nov 10, 2012
i love to find new ways to get off. i think the hot tub idea sounds great! and i cant get off during sex either
Common Ground

Powell, TN

#21 Nov 10, 2012
I have read alot about this problem today. I also talked to 5 friends about it. All 5 said it was almost impossible to climax during sex for them. Only 1 said she could during oral stimulation. I feel better, dont feel like I have a major problem now.

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