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Lonely and sad

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Oct 2, 2012
 
I totally screwed up today.I had a person in my life that held a special place in my heart.This person wanted me to come and visit them today and I didn't because I had a very good reason.Much to my surprise and disappointment this person no longer wants anything to do with me....guess I was never anything to this person but another conquest or a joke.
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Oct 2, 2012
 

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People don't care about anyone but themselves anymore. People don't care if they hurt you.
Lonely and sad

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Oct 2, 2012
 
Cecee wrote:
People don't care about anyone but themselves anymore. People don't care if they hurt you.
Well this person certainly succeded in hurting me.Totally threw me for a loop.I knew they would be disappointed because I did not visit them but never dreamed they would react how they did.I would never intentionally hurt anyone.

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Lonely and sad wrote:
<quoted text>Well this person certainly succeded in hurting me.Totally threw me for a loop.I knew they would be disappointed because I did not visit them but never dreamed they would react how they did.I would never intentionally hurt anyone.
OMG!! Are you FREAKIN' hearing yourself?? Crying in your hot cup of milk again?? YOU AND YOU ALONE..made this special person in YOUR life FEEL as tho they were NOT that important to you, as you have stated here. YOU had another appointment at the same time they wanted to share their TIME with your company...YOU rejected their offer. WHY THE FREAK didn't you..just be HONEST and tell them WHAT exactly took their time slot?? HONESTY is the key here, you didn't even think about that..soooo cry the blues to someone else..we have a party to go to??
Lonely and sad

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Oct 2, 2012
 
Colorado Chick wrote:
<quoted text>OMG!! Are you FREAKIN' hearing yourself?? Crying in your hot cup of milk again?? YOU AND YOU ALONE..made this special person in YOUR life FEEL as tho they were NOT that important to you, as you have stated here. YOU had another appointment at the same time they wanted to share their TIME with your company...YOU rejected their offer. WHY THE FREAK didn't you..just be HONEST and tell them WHAT exactly took their time slot?? HONESTY is the key here, you didn't even think about that..soooo cry the blues to someone else..we have a party to go to??
This person knows the exact reason why I couldn't make it and have been nothing but completely honest with them.I in no way meant to make them feel unimportant to me and They know that.Sorry to disappoint you but you don't have a clue.Also if you don't like me crying in my cup of hot milk as you put it don't bother yourself with reading what I write.It has nothing to do with you.
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Lonely and sad wrote:
I totally screwed up today.I had a person in my life that held a special place in my heart.This person wanted me to come and visit them today and I didn't because I had a very good reason.Much to my surprise and disappointment this person no longer wants anything to do with me....guess I was never anything to this person but another conquest or a joke.
Well get over it .People are freekin dying & your lonely & sad .SO WHAT !
Lonely and sad

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Oct 2, 2012
 
BoooHoooo wrote:
<quoted text>Well get over it .People are freekin dying & your lonely & sad .SO WHAT !
How do you know I don't have someone who is dying? Maybe that is the reason I couldn't visit with this person today.But by all means go ahead and make yourself feel important by putting me down.
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Lonely and sad wrote:
<quoted text>Why would anyone with any sense get on here and argue about something that has nothing to do with them.But then again there are stupid people who do that in just about every thing that is put on topix.As I said before if you don't like what I write don't read it.
It has nothing to do with none of us ,so why are you telling us on (topix)?If you didnt want an opinion Id suggest you dont post about something so ignorant .
Lonely and sad

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Oct 2, 2012
 
BoooHooo wrote:
<quoted text>It has nothing to do with none of us ,so why are you telling us on (topix)?If you didnt want an opinion Id suggest you dont post about something so ignorant .
well as the old saying goes opinions are like a..holes everybody has one.It is my business as to what I post on here and yes of course I knew I would get the a..holes on here to do just what you are doing.
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<quoted text>well as the old saying goes opinions are like a..holes everybody has one.It is my business as to what I post on here and yes of course I knew I would get the a..holes on here to do just what you are doing.
What was you exspecting a counsel session ?.Ive already told you what to do .SUCK IT UP . Life goes on. It was obviously not important to this someone, so time to go on .screw em .THERE you go best I could muster.

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Lonely and sad wrote:
<quoted text>This person knows the exact reason why I couldn't make it and have been nothing but completely honest with them.I in no way meant to make them feel unimportant to me and They know that.Sorry to disappoint you but you don't have a clue.Also if you don't like me crying in my cup of hot milk as you put it don't bother yourself with reading what I write.It has nothing to do with you.
Soooo DUDE..then WHY THE FREAK are ya bummed OVER her reaction to you...GET A LIFE..! DUDE, YOU are posting on a Public Opinion Forum spilling your guts about a best chick friend of yours..being mean to you because you had another appt. to attend AND canceled her meeting time..SOOOO who is crying in their HOT CUP of milk NOW..DUDE..NO sympathy here...No sireeee!
Lonely and sad

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Oct 3, 2012
 
BoooHooo wrote:
<quoted text>What was you exspecting a counsel session ?.Ive already told you what to do .SUCK IT UP . Life goes on. It was obviously not important to this someone, so time to go on .screw em .THERE you go best I could muster.
I know life goes on but I am not ready to give up on this person because they are very important to me but I also realize I may have to suck it up and go on and no I was not expecting a counsel session.I don't know what I was expecting but not all of th e rude comments by people but that is completely everyones right to give their opinion whether I like it or not.
Lonely and sad

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Oct 3, 2012
 
Colorado Chick wrote:
<quoted text>Soooo DUDE..then WHY THE FREAK are ya bummed OVER her reaction to you...GET A LIFE..! DUDE, YOU are posting on a Public Opinion Forum spilling your guts about a best chick friend of yours..being mean to you because you had another appt. to attend AND canceled her meeting time..SOOOO who is crying in their HOT CUP of milk NOW..DUDE..NO sympathy here...No sireeee!
I am glad you think you know all of the details and my situation and yes you are allowed to have your opinion but you certainly do not understand the situation at all.We didn't have a scheduled meeting as you called it either they just wanted me to visit and I had very good reasons why I couldn't and this person was and is very important to me but like I said I screwed up and yes I am bummed over this but I do not want or expect your sympathy.
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If someone cannot handle the fact that you have other obligations and responsibilities in life, they are not mature enough to be in a relationship. Count yourself lucky and move on to a more mature person.
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Some things cant be helped, some people too. Pray for BOTH of you...might feel better anyway.
Lonely and sad

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Oct 3, 2012
 
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Some things cant be helped, some people too. Pray for BOTH of you...might feel better anyway.
Thank you I would appreciate the prayers of anyone on this matter.
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Lonely and sad wrote:
I totally screwed up today.I had a person in my life that held a special place in my heart.This person wanted me to come and visit them today and I didn't because I had a very good reason.Much to my surprise and disappointment this person no longer wants anything to do with me....guess I was never anything to this person but another conquest or a joke.
You both need to grow up.
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Oct 3, 2012
 
Truth wrote:
If someone cannot handle the fact that you have other obligations and responsibilities in life, they are not mature enough to be in a relationship. Count yourself lucky and move on to a more mature person.
I know what you say is true but I do care about this person anyway,I can't help myself.But I guess I have no other choice in the matter but to move on and I agree totally immature of this person and I was really shocked when they reacted this way.
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<quoted text>You both need to grow up.
Agreed !Sounds pretty childish .Dont know your age but most grown ups would just say screw it & move on .
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You said yourself you had a very valid reason for not being available, yet you excuse this control freaks demanding behavior by feeling bad about "yourself" rather than him?!!! What are you, 12 yrs old and you just don't k ow any better?
By your own statements and feelings, it is evident that you do not "value" yourself. But you seemed totally surprised this person does not value you, and clearly they do not value you or your care at all! Why would you think someone should treat you with respect or value your care when you clearly act as if you are not worthy?
You shouldn't be feeling badly, you should be ticked off at "yourself" for being
such a poor judge of character. You picked a selfish, demanding, my way or
the highway, do as i say do when i say do it kind of jerk. What the heck did you think you could expect? Loving kindness? Nope, not from that type of character you can't. Not now, not ever.
You will find in relationships, you get exactly what you ask for or "command", and you will get "nothing good" when you do not "expect" anything good. This type of person will use you simply because you "allow" them to do so. This type of person cannot respect you because you do not respect yourself.
Learn to make your own self happy FIRST, and then you might have something of value to offer to someone else. And they will appreciate you for it.

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